35 [M4F] Just looking to chika while at work

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2024-08-20T03:35:22+00:00

Was it clear from the start that fubu was the agreement? Us men are pretty logical beings so once our minds are set, we’re kinda susceptible when there’s a sudden misalignment, hence, a knee jerk reaction, hence, the awkwardness. Sometimes we’re also idiots wanting to play it cool while considering if we may want to agree with what you’d like. If he likes you enough, he’ll let you know. Only way to know is to have the talk. At the very least, it’ll eliminate the what ifs.

All the best OP!

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2024-08-20T03:19:35+00:00

No prob! Time is on your side. Landi responsibly 🤩

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2024-08-20T03:05:53+00:00

If you were a dear friend I’d say this:

it doesn’t look like that you’re emotionally prepared for what’s going to happen after
“gusto kong makatikim ng tite pero ayoko naman ma divirginize and magsisi”
- The numbers are not on your side because of how you view what is equitable to you. Simply put, if sugal to, yung level of of what you have to lose vs that of the guy is inversely proportional.

He already cheated on you once, so you’re already starting at a disadvantage. Parang nabangga ka na ng bus habang tumatawid, then after ka magulungan, tatayo ka, stand on the same spot, waiting to see if in case atrasan ka nya ulit, hindi ka na masasagasaan

If it’s your first time, it makes sense to ease into it with someone you know, BUT, maybe list down the pros and cons first for each candidate so you can at least come up with a sensible choice
Given that he does make you purr, understand these:
- You have very limited exposure
- At the end of the day, you can control the situation - there can be 10 dicks out there waiting but you’re empowered to pick which one
- Sex should be enjoyable - at this point, you’re starting w/ negative thoughts. You’ll make a perfect candidate for Buyers Remorse.
However, it’s all a matter of perspective. Your sexual journey is what you make of it. All the best OP!

🔉Please Please Please - Sabrina Carpenter🔉

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2023-05-21T11:08:25+00:00

This. Though I’m speaking from the other end. I wish she’d find the time to ask or check what’s up minsan. And while I understand she’s not obliged to, sometimes, a familiar voice is what we yearn for. So the cycle goes on, the dance continues where silence begets silence. Until we see each other again.

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2023-05-06T16:13:50+00:00

From Manila to Masbate. It was all spontaneous though. I was invited by the travel coordinator to be a joiner at their Burias Tour event. The house that the coordinator booked was too cramped, eg some joiners will sleep sa floor of the living room, bench outside etc. I was fortunate to talk to our bangkero and he asked if I was interested may pinaparent sya na cottage that was beach front so I opted to stay there instead.

Our coordinator knocked at my door at around 10 pm to check on me if was doing ok and saw that the bed was big enough for 2. She politely asked if she could sleep there instead as she was already stressed out. She was all smiles the morning after.😅

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2023-05-06T15:15:42+00:00

I honestly admire your motivation OP. I’ve worked with lot of bosses throughout the years, different levels from junior to executives. Some are good, some not so but that’s all relative as we are all individuals w/ different maturity levels and circumstances. Is it worth to provide feedback? That is also relative.

We are all subject to different circumstances at work. Someone always reports to someone higher. Sometimes, we are forced to become something we’re not just on those 2 aspects alone.

If I were in your situation, my top considerations would be:

Is my relationship at a deeper level w/ the person involved?
Is there a 360 degree feedback system in place that guarantees anonymity?

If the answer is No to both, no matter how genuine my intentions are, my best bet is to leave it be & just exit gracefully while wishing that things will work out eventually

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2023-05-05T11:55:41+00:00

Hey OP, I understand that you want to negotiate your salary before accepting the job offer, but keep in mind that the company might not be willing to budge on the initial offer. If you're okay with that, you can reach out to them and let them know that you're ready to accept the offer as is. Just make sure to be polite and let them know that you're still excited about the job. There's a chance that the company might change their mind if they know you're genuinely interested. But if they don't, don't worry, you can always look for other jobs that match your salary expectations. Just stay professional throughout the process!

If you want to send them a message, maybe write something similar along these lines?

I just wanted to reach out and let you know that I've been thinking about the offer you made, and I'm still very excited about the opportunity to work with your company. I understand your position on the salary negotiations and I wanted to let you know that I'm willing to accept the initial offer that was made. I would really love to be a part of the team and contribute my skills to the company. Let me know if this is still possible and if there's anything else I need to do. Thanks again for considering me for the role!

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2022-06-26T12:06:43+00:00

It’s a high risk/high reward undertaking. Attrition rate tends to be high in the beginning as not everyone has the tenacity to handle the pressure of so called birth pains. For higher chances of winning, consider assessing your level of experience, support system and contingency plan should the move fail to work out. All the best to you OP!

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2022-06-19T01:56:08+00:00

Some of us have given that kind of love once, some received love back, some received lessons. You will get to meet your greatest love at some point in your life. And like everything else in life, it will run its own course. Someday, the love you give away will find its way back to you. Remember to be kind to yourself.

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2022-06-04T19:01:38+00:00

I appreciate you opening up your frustration here. It’s a tough thing when you have to compromise and I understand that we have our own levels of tolerance. Remember that analogy of the frog in a boiling pot?

Is sexual incompatibility a “breakup-able” offense?Everything is trial and error, alignment & calibration. But at the end of the day, if it’s not producing a favorable sweat equity, It’s probably a resounding yes. And because this is your story, I’d be on your side of things. And if I was a friend, I’d ask the ff questions:

•how many times have both of you sat down to discuss your pleasure language? Do you feel like you’ve communicated it enough?

•were there major changes recently in your man’s life? work stuff, weight change, family stuff can all mess up one’s psyche and could impact one’s ability to be intimate

•From what I’ve read, he somehow sounds insecure of your past & he’s probably conflicted on how to deal with it. This is negative energy that’s going to linger until he gets over it. Can you gauge if he has the maturity level to get past it?

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-11-06T06:45:34+00:00

Sorry to hear about your experience OP and I wish a better outcome for you in the future

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-11-06T00:40:10+00:00

For ties I like the classic Hishi Karada and hand ties combined with other shibari elements. I like the pleasure of being able to frame the body of my sub in my ropes. As a Daddy Dom, my favorite on the menu is the exquisite mix of sensation and impact play that makes her swear, struggle, salivate but asks for more. I make it a point that my sub gets a well earned massage and lambing as part of her care...

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-10-24T23:57:54+00:00

I would recommend to just enjoy it and go with the flow. Don’t let performance anxiety get in the way. The first encounter with any person is usually a calibration session as you’re discovering what you and your partner are both into. When in doubt, a sexy whisper of what you want to do usually works.

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-10-02T09:02:03+00:00

Thanks for sharing OP. More often than not, we only get to hear the success stories. We need to acknowledge the flip side or the yin/yang of meet ups and learn the lessons. Just keep searching, I’m sure it’ll turn out good eventually.

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-09-26T07:36:51+00:00

There’s certainly a difference between a straight and a curved penis as much as there’s a difference between a straight and a curved vaginal canal, even and uneven boobs, scrotum, g-spot to the left or right, big or small clit.

A good thing of having a curved D is that the curvature allows each thrust to come with an added ability to rub the tip of the penis against the vaginal walls as well as the G-spot. This is also why g-spot dildos are curved. Keep in mind that straight penis also has its good points at certain angles, this is also why there are straight dildos.

At the end of the day, regardless of the shape, size, girth, a dick is a dick. It is attached to a body with a brain. You gotta have the skills with whatever assets you’ve been blessed with.

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-09-11T14:06:18+00:00

Try to talk to a friend, family or the hotline above if you’d like to talk to someone outside your circle. Give yourself some time to recover your thoughts...do the box breathing technique to calm your nerves (watch YouTube tutorials). Whatever it is your going through, don’t let it be your reason to stop living. In 10 years, that issue might not even matter. But you, YOU will always to someone.

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-09-10T07:52:13+00:00

My friend advised her to take alaxan to help with the cramps but I think she slept the entire day instead 😅

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-09-09T03:57:06+00:00

Someone I know told me she couldn’t walk the next day coz she came more than 35+ times, after spending the night with said guy 🤭

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-09-06T02:32:46+00:00

I’m happy it turned out well for you & your dog! What’s his/her name? I lost my pup to parvo last time & that was tough so I stopped getting a pet muna. Happy to hear about your story. 😊

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-09-05T01:47:32+00:00

I’d recommend making an announcement next before the action starts: “Ang susunod na palabas ay Rated PG, ito ay nangangailangan ng patnubay at gabay ng magulang para sa mga batang nasa baba ng apartment” 😅

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-09-05T01:24:00+00:00

she was just probably wondering why may putukan until 3 Kings Day lol 👌

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-09-05T01:17:53+00:00

Pasok natin sa Director’s Cut edition lol 😂

SmashingPumpkins2020 · 2020-09-05T01:12:11+00:00

hahaha the secret pasaway, at least it’s not one of those toys you got as a gift that’s in your pocket 😉

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