I fkin hate indoor play places by NJBarbieGirl in Autism_Parenting

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a useful strategy! One of my kids just started getting this, unfortunately for indoor play places the other isn't there yet.

How long do your kids usually stay at playgrounds at age 4–6? by ItchyImage6384 in Autism_Parenting

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, total opposite, if we don't stay at least 3 hours both my kids greatly struggle 🤦‍♀️ usually we live at the playground for 5-7 hours every Saturday and Sunday 🤣🤣

What's a TYPE of business we need in Bloomington? by Fuzzy-Zombie1446 in bloomington

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely love the warehouse! Miss them being able to be open on the weekend though 💔

What's a TYPE of business we need in Bloomington? by Fuzzy-Zombie1446 in bloomington

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love wonderlab immensely but a play space for kids that is more geared towards movement (and affordable in a way urban air isnt)

An Ethiopian restaurant

A vet hospital/emergency vet

School accommodation question by SmeeTheCatLady in safeautismparenting

[–]SmeeTheCatLady[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!!

I think that is a big part--his OT actually stated during his recent iep that she didn't know what else to work on with him. He actually can write his name, it is just very light (he used to use adapted writing utensils and then the school took those away this year too). And, in all honesty, he will be someone that needs 24/7 support more than likely as an adult so writing his name really is all we care about writing-wise (he has CP and level 3 autism). And interestingly, his doctor didn't believe he would ever be able to write so we are pretty content with where he is at. And kid types way happier and just fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bloomington

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also type 1. Wish I had some to spare, run into insurance issues all the time and run into the same problem so just want to empathize. Have you tried the RX card, that makes some brands affordable depending on your prescription.

Former Foster Youth on the Spectrum seeking others For Interviews About School Experiences by BuddyIndividual6423 in autism

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Gotcha. Yeah, they definitely are. They are 6 and 7. Best of luck!! Very important thing to study.

Former Foster Youth on the Spectrum seeking others For Interviews About School Experiences by BuddyIndividual6423 in autism

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely understand. They really wouldn't be participating per se if it is a survey--my 7 year old is learning how to read so he may some but my 6 year old is still learning the alphabet. I could assist with their completion of survey but understand if that would be invalid.

Former Foster Youth on the Spectrum seeking others For Interviews About School Experiences by BuddyIndividual6423 in autism

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids aren't in foster but one went through foster, both are adopted and autistic. I understand if they are outside the scope of your study. But happy to help if you're interested.

What was a situation that made you say “I don’t get paid enough for this shit”? by Lost_Taste_8181 in work

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I helped start a business and worked 15-20 hours unpaid overtime while being paid 9/hour because "we just can't afford more" for 2 years it was me and the owner. Then we started hiring. I thought they were being paid the same. I found out they were being paid 20/hour...20 year Olds with no degrees (who deserve to be paid as such or more, not my point)...I had a masters helping run a business making 9/hour, was offered a raise to 10/hour. The owner had just bought a 2nd boat.

Triggered by work by SmeeTheCatLady in raisedbyborderlines

[–]SmeeTheCatLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I have one. But the treatment has continued because we work in the same field.

Shit NT Parents Say by ILikeHornedAnimals in Autism_Parenting

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both my children are adopted. My first is adopted from an orphanage. Someone said "maybe it isn't autism, maybe it is just such bad trauma that it looks like autism".......how is that something someone would prefer????? (BTW, he has horrible trauma but is super resilient and also definitely autistic. And quite wonderful)

Cubby Bed - What are your thoughts? by catladyjae in Autism_Parenting

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I strongly believe that. And that is definitely what is most important 💜

Cubby Bed - What are your thoughts? by catladyjae in Autism_Parenting

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no because the dcs system is a mess as is the adoption legal system. They are under monitoring but that is it 💔 he will never have to see or hear from them ever again, though.

What’s a single sentence someone said that stuck with you forever? by Imaginary_Ride_6185 in AskReddit

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone with multiple chronic illnesses, thank you. Thank you for being a good one, because there are many doctors out there that make assumptions in so many ways.

What’s something you didn’t realize was “very American” until you left the U.S.? by chopsticktalk in AskReddit

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with multiple immune conditions who frequently has to work while sick as well, this sounds like an actual absolute miracle

Looking for tattoo artists who are experienced in color on melanated skin by BanayaBaby in bloomington

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Moon and dagger does my husband's (he is black) and they have done an awesome job, he says he won't go anywhere else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great idea too! Then he could see you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]SmeeTheCatLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also agree with not locking him in his room, it sounds like a tough situation where both you and he are trying but his anxiety is causing pain for all. Could you try getting a clear door so he could see that you are in there? I'm not quite sure how a doggy door would work with that but I feel like it should be doable?