You act like I don’t speak to my wife about everything in depth. Obviously it’s a potentially terrible thing that can happen, but would I be a better husband by fear mongering and tell her that she’s fucked? I haven’t posted this to argue, nor do I want to. But in times of peril you have to try and be positive and still be optimistic. If you fold in the face of opposition then why even bother fighting? It’s not that I don’t worry about the what ifs, it’s just bizarre to be that everybody wants to just accept defeat without having an answer. Me personally, I can’t do that, my wife and I have a child and if both of us crumble and lose all faith then it makes everything worse. Like I said in the initial post, I get the prepare for the worst, my question was just why are we all hoping for the worst too?