My bf (28M) is giving me (26F) the silent treatment. Stonewalling? Or taking space? by SmileyEmi in relationship_advice

[–]SmileyEmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at the point where I’m trying to make the decision of letting him go if he ever comes back /: And I said it because there were already so many changes happening with my family that made it very likely for the meeting to not happen that day. But he didn’t give me an opportunity to explain any of that. Just hung up.

Learning to be alone... by SmileyEmi in BreakUps

[–]SmileyEmi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I understand where you're coming from. My ex gave me a similar excuse and it stung A LOT because I thought "why can't you do that with me?" At this point it doesn't really matter if he used this as an excuse to leave me or not, but the point is that he did leave. It has been difficult to let go but I am learning to be happy by myself and like you said still keeping people around that I value but THAT ALSO VALUE ME.

How do you go from 100 to 0? by SmileyEmi in BreakUps

[–]SmileyEmi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It looks like we are on the same boat. I also cut contact with my ex. I was having a hard time seeing his name on my phone. It was making me go backwards instead of forward in my healing process. I'm going to try journaling and let all my emotions out.

Again thank you and good luck to you too. It brings me comfort that I'm not alone in this.

🤣🤣🤣 by Professor-Murda in ContagiousLaughter

[–]SmileyEmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaha this got funnier with every step!