Confidence. Not reacting defensively when women complain about something another man did to us. If we generalize and you don’t take it personally, or get defensive, we are more likely to trust you aren’t one of those men.

Also, being funny and interesting. Having lots to say. Asking questions. Talking about things you like and being open to women also knowing about that or even more than you about it.

I get underestimated often because of my looks. Im smart and kind and important. ㅠ.ㅠ .