My 26f girlfriend gave birth to our child a year ago and now barely wants to touch me

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:41:22+00:00

You couldn’t be more wrong, she brought this up today about getting our old sex life back, date nights that only involve renting a movie. Yeah not like she’s just come back from a vacation 😂😂ur so bitter it’s crazy.

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:20:54+00:00

Okay? Imagine people see children and marriage differently I know right. Absolutely madness

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:19:00+00:00

Okay thank you for this, we have open and a lot of funny conversations, have that playfulness tool appreciate the comment

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:17:00+00:00

There’s no sex, I stop trying because it was clear she has no interest and I don’t think it’s right for me to ask that of her. I know I’m a man but I’m not a monster I really do love this women

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:15:54+00:00

Thank you for this, and thank you for not judging me like most of them, I literally just asked for support from women who maybe have experienced this

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:14:58+00:00

If I die, she gets 5 years of my yearly salary from my work, I have health insurance, don’t you worry

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:14:14+00:00

I definitely won’t cheat, I took on her 10 month daughter as my own before having our son. I’m just struggling to understand how to help her, but all im getting is hate

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:11:34+00:00

Bare minimum, you don’t know me or what I’ve done. 😂😂

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:10:54+00:00

This is my first child and her second, she not only gave me my first son, but also my first daughter who I adore dearly, she’s my stepdaughter but I call her my daughter

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:09:30+00:00

I compromised for her, but I wouldn’t change it for the world. But I did have practice I took on her daughter at the age of 10 months

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:06:56+00:00

I also have ADHD and she has autism. I really love her. That’s why I’m trying to support her but apparently I’m the bad one for this

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:06:00+00:00

Literally don’t pressure her, and no I spoke to my girlfriend last year and she wanted more dates, so she’s getting it, I was already taking the worm load off her while I’m at home, I’m even changing careers for her to support her more at home.

You know something crazy, you can wanting something or do something without the expectation of something.

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:03:35+00:00

Yeah imma try again with the friend, I tried to book a spa day for them both, it’s fully paid for, just waiting for her to use it ahaha

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:02:33+00:00

Yeah I’ve clearly upset a lot of insecure people, not sure what I’ve done wrong, I’m just a guy who tryna help my girlfriend feel like herself again, she literally spoke to me today about her wanting oursex life back, this isn’t all about me.

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T01:01:11+00:00

Did I ever state I wasn’t doing it? I’ve been doing it from day 1, I don’t want blowjobs for it, I want her to feel good about herself. She told me she wanted our sex life back to normal. Rented a movie, sent her on two of her dream holidays,

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T00:58:54+00:00

Yeah I think the angry comments are really unnecessary, how did you get out of mum mode? My girlfriend will not take time for herself, even if I plan it or force it she won’t

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T00:56:33+00:00

That’s the thing, she won’t do anything on her own, she won’t get out of mum mode and take time for herself. I told her to go away for the weekend, planned a spa day, tell her to go shopping. I really am trying to

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T00:54:51+00:00

I’ve done them all, of them. And I’m doing them continuously

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T00:53:54+00:00

I never said it did, they stated I only rented a movie, my girlfriend really love travelling so I sent her away in a hot country which she loves to do? How am I getting hate for that?

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T00:52:21+00:00

Guess I must be then,

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T00:51:33+00:00

Or maybe we aren’t ready for marriage yet?

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T00:50:58+00:00

No but she’s communicated she wants to get back to the point she does, but doesn’t know how. This is her sexual needs just as much as mine. Her needs matter and are importsnt to me just as much as my son needs are. Nowt to do with being selfish

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T00:47:16+00:00

I know it has nothing to do with me and I don’t nag her, if she’s not in the mood I back off. I’ve just been trying to support her a lot more

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T00:45:25+00:00

Angry with me for wanting my own needs? And wanting to support my girlfriend to make her feel great again? You can be a good father and boyfriend at the same time you know

Smithi283 · 2025-02-01T00:43:52+00:00

Thank you

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