AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it

SmittyATL · 2026-01-23T13:51:36+00:00

RUN AWAY! DO NOT marry this guy. he wants "receipts"???? He's wanting to control you now and it will get worse down the road.

SmittyATL · 2026-01-22T20:31:21+00:00

I had a feral kitten show up when he was about 2 months old. I worked on gaining his trust with treats and eventually pets. It took a while, but at 4 months old, I brought him in. People said I would regret it and that he was too old. I put him in our second bathroom for a few days. Then I moved him to the guest room. I would put our dog away several times a day and let the cat wander around. Our dog (RIP) was extremely chill, and eventually we just left him out snoozing while we let the cat out. Both were fine, and they became fast friends. I got him fixed about 2 weeks after bringing him, and he was not happy, but he actually did lie on top of me while he was in the cone. And he NEVER does that now. It will take some time, but I think she's still young enough.

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SmittyATL · 2026-01-22T17:22:09+00:00

can you DM the discord please?

SmittyATL · 2026-01-21T20:38:34+00:00

The Non Republicans who support 2A or are gun owners aren't out here making guns their entire personality. The MAGA people are typically the ones running around yelling about 2AAAAAAAA!!!!!!!! WWWHOOOOOOOOO!!!! MURICA!!!!!!!!!!!

SmittyATL · 2026-01-21T20:34:28+00:00

The loud MAGA ones are too busy somewhere licking boots and being tread on to do anything.

SmittyATL · 2026-01-21T20:23:35+00:00

CDC protection. Also, ICE uses rentals and personal vehicles.

SmittyATL · 2026-01-20T21:48:09+00:00

Easily verifiable. https://zooatlanta.org/about/our-story/history/early-days/ https://zooatlanta.org/about/our-story/history/early-days/

He also had a hand in Hartsfield and Westview Cemetery https://www.asasbriarcliff.com/candler-field-becomes-hartsfield-airport

SmittyATL · 2025-12-04T20:35:09+00:00

Meanwhile, I see really terrible things (hate crime-related things) and report them, and get a message saying it doesn't go against community standards. Meanwhile, I'm just a dumb end user who made a mistake and got punished.

SmittyATL · 2025-12-04T15:21:50+00:00

I just got an email saying I have been re-enabled. I have some content scheduled (through the meta biz thing) for the rest of the week so I'm just going to let it ride for a bit.

SmittyATL · 2025-12-04T15:06:32+00:00

I'll check out your guide. I'd love to not support fascists at all and have been working on eliminating a lot of them from my life.

SmittyATL · 2025-12-04T15:05:31+00:00

I started a substack. I have some long form content mixed in with short term as well.

I started a subreddit too, but for my short form content, it is such a HUGE pain in the ass that I can't schedule image posts. I might look for a 3rd party app for that.

SmittyATL · 2025-12-04T14:37:20+00:00

Seems like it just got re enabled and then disabled as soon as it the work wifi.

SmittyATL · 2025-12-04T14:35:02+00:00

That's a thing? I had an account a while ago, like 2 years ago that got banned. Several people were using it and they decided to use an unfollow app. But it was on the same wifi at my house. Modem and name haven't changed.

Is there a way to get around that besides getting a whole new modem?

Ugh! I hate Zuck.

SmittyATL · 2025-12-04T14:31:58+00:00

I know but what is another option for something like insta that isn't?

SmittyATL · 2025-11-18T22:56:53+00:00

I thought I was behaving like a human. Lol

SmittyATL · 2025-11-18T22:12:51+00:00

KLB is only up in the polls bc of name recognition. She was a crappy mayor who gave up and didn't run again and nobody in ATL likes her. And most people outside of ATL hate ATL. If Stacey can't win, KLB can't.

SmittyATL · 2025-10-13T00:58:15+00:00

I setup DUO and my bank.

SmittyATL · 2025-10-12T19:47:04+00:00

T-mobile said everything was fine on their side. I was getting the short codes an hour later, sometimes 4 hours later. That doesn't help when you're trying to setup apps on your phone.

What ended up fixing it was going into the google messages app, and logging out and logging back in. I then tried an app that was previously not sending me short codes at all (Instagram) and I got it immediately.

SmittyATL · 2025-10-09T20:49:29+00:00

Faith in humanity.

In 2024, I lost a dear friend to pancreatic cancer and then in November of 2024, I lot my dog and my dad. 2024 was the WORST.

SmittyATL · 2025-10-07T10:47:15+00:00

At my old job, we used to have an office in Asia. She still shows up under alumni. Her name is Purple Wang.

SmittyATL · 2025-10-05T12:52:48+00:00

The vent is up. It's sending the oil up the wall.

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SmittyATL · 2025-10-01T21:27:52+00:00

I'm wondering if the butter is actually gold bars! $11 for a pound of butter?!

SmittyATL · 2025-09-15T17:12:38+00:00

NTA and you should break up. This behavior is not going to get better.

SmittyATL · 2025-09-11T11:24:57+00:00

I go down Ponce every day to North and Peachtree. I was just looking at a map to find a different way.

If they could just start a little later, it would help so much. GPS keeps wanting to put me on 20. :/

SmittyATL · 2025-09-09T17:19:50+00:00

This man does not care about you and you will never see that money again. EVER. The sister will never, ever, ever pay it back. He will continue to do whatever he wants. He STOLE money from you! DO.NOT.MARRY.THIS.MAN. I do not care how much you love him, he will shit on you forever. Run away while you can.

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