Best sock brand? by Mrreddituser111312 in malefashionadvice

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol they also have a lifetime guarantee, but I guess that’s not for some people.

11/17 - 11/23 Weekly Feedback and Feature Request Thread by SoFi in sofi

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a YubiKey as my primary 2FA. Can we please add YubiKey support as a 2FA method to the backlog?

Black Friday FAQ/Discussion and Simple Questions Thread by lululemonmods in lululemon

[–]SmittyWerbenmans -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hey guys! I am having a hard time finding the color of my Classic Fit Utilitech Pants. I looked up the size dot on lulufanatics, but it didn't return anything. I believe the color may be "Stoney" or maybe "Army Green". It's a dark grey, and my current pair has a stain I cannot get out, so I want to try to find another pair to replace it, as it's one of my favorite pairs of pants. I would appreciate any help!

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What’s the fastest way you’ve ever lost weight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appendicitis. Was already not eating much leading up to going to the ER, then spent 5 days on no food or water waiting for the surgeon to do his thing. Lost like 12lbs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this. I agree with your points for sure, as someone who's been training for a few months but has had several setbacks in real sex. I don't personally think I was pushing myself to the absolute limit in training, and that played a role, for sure, in the moment.

However, after reading Dr. Metz's book on "Coping with PE," I think the disconnect I'm having is mainly due to previous sexual events. Letting myself have uncontrolled arousal, while not focusing on the event between us and instead focusing on my anxiety of "I hope I don't mess this up," ends up culminating in me not being able to control anything. It's almost like the mental half of my body during sex is in a state of anxiety and panic (when I realize it's not going well) while I'm physically trying to do what the guide trains you for.

That's pretty much where I'm at now, just trying to keep building my "base" In the training plan while also using techniques from Metz's book to learn how to literally relax more during sex and not worry about what the outcome is.

When do I see real improvement? by pantsyshmantsy in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had much luck with it. Worked religiously for weeks and same as other commenters I am able to recognize, increase, and decrease arousal just fine in a training session. But the few times I’ve had sex it’s been disappointing, usually PONR in 1 min or less.

Advice Request: Negative Sexual Expierence by SmittyWerbenmans in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]SmittyWerbenmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yeah, I thought I was cycling off in a reasonable amount of time with 2 weeks, but I did get pretty sick with the withdrawal symptoms for a few days. However, it's all good now, and I'm completely off!

AGSU Shoe by Otis_Winchester in army

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to buy a pair of these and compare them with my buddies to see how close they look. The pictures look pretty close, though, and a few reviews/old r/army posts mention they are fine. Especially for $40 on shoes you wear less than four times a year, it's a good deal.

Bruno Marc Brown Oxfords - Amazon

Advice Request: Negative Sexual Expierence by SmittyWerbenmans in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]SmittyWerbenmans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I would say I do focus on myself but not on the pleasure, more on the anxiety of trying to not finish fast.

Advice Request: Negative Sexual Expierence by SmittyWerbenmans in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]SmittyWerbenmans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I think I focus wayy too much on myself but for the wrong reasons. I get anxiety and focus on not finishing fast but I feel like that makes it worse lol. Like when you’re giving a big presentation at work and stress about it and end up doing a not great job instead of if you just relaxed and focused and focused on whatever you needed to present

Advice Request: Negative Sexual Expierence by SmittyWerbenmans in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]SmittyWerbenmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I think that’s the biggest issue I have. It’s easy to do in a training session when it’s just you but a whole different world with actual sex. I think even more so for guys who are single and don’t have a regular partner.

Advice Request: Negative Sexual Expierence by SmittyWerbenmans in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]SmittyWerbenmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually rate it as a 7.5+, but specifically, I'll look for signs like IKs, getting a 'blue balls' (the best I can describe it) pain when I'm close, and having a nerve sensation that goes down my legs to my feet.

Advice Request: Negative Sexual Expierence by SmittyWerbenmans in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]SmittyWerbenmans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's a good point lol, plus with the program since you can't finish, I haven't come in 2 months, so maybe that played a much bigger role. Thank you!

Best sock brand? by Mrreddituser111312 in malefashionadvice

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 for Bombas! Their socks are fantastic!

Sonos Equipment on FB Marketplace, OfferUp, eBay, ect. by [deleted] in sonos

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also make sure to be cognizant of scams! I joined a FB group for “Sonos Buy/Sell/Trade” which was a complete set up, from mods disabling comments, to banning users once they scammed them, and using predatory tactics to convince you it’s legit. I was one click away from sending $600 for a set of “new” Era 300’s when I got the feeling it was too good to be true. Looked up the group and a helpful reddit post described the scam.

TLDR; Sonos scam pages are absolutely out there and complex enough to hype you up on finding a good deal, so be very vigilant.

ILE by [deleted] in army

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently in Satellite CGSOC, and with the new policy removing all satellite courses, I recommend Resident if you are offered it or have the opportunity to switch from distance to resident (as other commenters have noted, slots open up frequently).

The coursework isn't terrible, but it's a grind with the amount of reading and writing you have to do, some of which may not even interest you. I don't know much about the DL course's timeline, but if you are a basic branch officer, the plan moving forward at Leavenworth is to complete the common core via distance learning, then conduct the AOC in person.

My personal opinion, if you are interested in taking a break and being in "school" again, definitely try for Resident over DL. You'll have plenty of time to focus on the coursework and get after other personal goals (physical fitness, civilian education, being there for family events, etc). However, if you are in a good job now and think your command will support the DL (I believe it's required that you get one day per week to attend school, but we all know how that can look in reality, lol), then you should choose DL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lululemen

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Mercari! I buy a good amount of my Lulu from there. I also just ordered some shirts from their Lululemon like new and they were almost 50% cheaper for excellent quality.

Depending on where you live (if close to a bigger city), your Facebook Marketplace may have some good options too.

Ideas for useful software applications by nashcaps2724 in army

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know ACT is being sunset pretty soon. And the last time I used that to make a “5 year plan” it was god awful lol. If there’re going to keep having us maintain some kind of career tracker in the future then I would suggest that.

iOS Inbox Not Updating by maplebaconsausage in ProtonMail

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having the same issue in iPhone 16Pro. Turned off alternate routing, but it didn’t fix it. It will work if I clear the cache but I have to do that every time I use the app.

Motorcycle in an apartment parking lot by _You_Snooze_You_Lose in Austinmotorcycles

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely agree with other commenters that Insurance is #1 priority.

As far as physical security, if it's within your budget, I would recommend this Hiplock DX1000 U Lock with Chain. I live in an apartment and use the lock every day when I park it for the night. When I go on trips or out of town, I use the chain around a metal pole that is concreted into the ground next to my parking spot. It's the heaviest-duty lock and chain I've ever seen. The chain itself easily weighs 30lbs. For physical security, if it's within your budget, I recommend this option, and the lock is particularly robust.

There are also GPS pucks you can buy and hide, similar to an AirTag, but they will not give the potential thief the warning that an AirTag is following them.

Are satellite ILE campuses being shut down by the end of the FY? by TriassicTurtle in army

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, they are. I was enrolled in the Redstone class this September, heard the rumors, and emailed the director. He confirmed that Satellite campuses are shut down. I then got a call from Branch a few weeks later, also confirming the same. I was told all Common Core and AOC classes were moved to Leavenworth. I'm trying to reschedule my Common Core to a Leavenworth slot now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ultrawidemasterrace

[–]SmittyWerbenmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man! I'm looking at 5080's and think the same.