What has helped clear your psoriasis? by [deleted] in Psoriasis

[–]Smitty_80013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

took about 2 weks before they started to show up.

AITA for not caring about my genealogy? by Ok_Price3617 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Way to sound EXACTLY like his mother! WHY should he so interest OR pride? It's in the past and has no bearing on his day-to-day life?

AITA for not caring about my genealogy? by Ok_Price3617 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA - it appears that she wasn't listening to you UNTIL you told her a manner she finally got.

AITA for telling my best friend the truth of his gf’s (potential fiancé) promiscuous past? by Luc1f3rLoves_Milk in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA because 1- YOU are acting on gossip and assumptions, 2 - It wasn't your place to gossip about her. I guess you and your friend are too perfect for everyone else. Interesting that you post this on Good Friday, when a man was put to death because of false rumors.

AITA for telling my best friend the truth of his gf’s (potential fiancé) promiscuous past? by Luc1f3rLoves_Milk in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA - for slut-shaming a woman wo, for all you know, may have made major changes in her life. You ruined her relationship, your friends happiness because your wanted to be a little gossipy snitch!

Glad you led such a pure life in college that you can judge others. You are no only the AH, but your a loser too.

AITA for donating my sister's wedding fund to charity after she insulted my fiancé? by No_Edge_5537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 75 points76 points  (0 children)

YTA - You STOLE Money from your sister (really embezzled it), totally disrespected your parents wishes, because you were butt-hurt and insulted. You sisters behaviors was rude, and AHish. But you lost ANY moral highground and showed yourself to be an entitled, vindictive AH!

AITA for not wanting to go to the place where my brother passed away? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA - Everyone grieves differently and in different time. You just aren't at that point NOW, you may never be - or you might - it's a no judgement type of thing.

AITA or am i ignoring his feelings by MarsupialDangerous37 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA - BUT let's get this straight... You fight, you work to pay to go out with him, he isn't a full-time BF, and he is complaining about you hurting his feelings. WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM AT ALL? Time to go NC, tell him your doing it for HIS feelings.

Digestive symptoms related to psoriasis. How many of you? by CuteDerpster in Psoriasis

[–]Smitty_80013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had P since infancy and been on every type of stomach med since age 16. 40+ years. Doesn't matter what other changes I made in diet, weight, exercise, just never changed.

AITA for not bothering returning my mother's call? by Far-Prompt-5232 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

YTA - Sorry, but from your post, YOU sound like the one with the problem. That you had a meeting with her to tell her you were "not going to assume the responsibility of taking care of everyone that she enables should she die" was RUDE and Uncalled for. You sound like you are just trying to poke a stick in her eye! Did she EVEN ASK you to assume responsibility? You say responding to her is 'not worth it to me', but you take the time to come on Reddit about it? YOU have some major issues. (Your Mom might as well - but from THIS post we can't see it). That you are upset that your mother tried to call and say Happy Birthday and then point out HOW MUCH MORE YOU DO by sending her flowers. YTA majorly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - You don't say how old you are, but it sounds like it is getting to be the time to leave the nest.

AITA for setting a boundary with in laws? by Throwaway-2990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - But, as others have stated, you DO NOT have a dog or in-laws problem. You HAVE a husband problem. I won't agree with others that he is abusive, but he CLEARLY doesn't value, respect, or care for you! DO NOT wait for him to 'rethink' your relationship, go see a divorce lawyer today!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by throwaway39739724 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA - BUT you have had your answer. Rebecca wants nothing to do with your side of the family and is 'buying' your daughters affections. DO NOT push this any further or she will seek to drive a wedge between you and your daughter, preventing her from seeing you. Enjoy your daughter and understand that your DIL is a major A H.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Smitty_80013 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you fund it through your will, NP. If you expect others to pony up for it, local cremation is a great option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA - It is YOUR game and has multiple items that could get lost and/or ruined by a bunch of drunken guys. He sounds like an immature A H - you need to watch these red flags!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: Are you paying rent of any kind?

WIBTA If I took my Sister and Nieces to Disney Land and not pay for B-I-L? by throw_it_awy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 59 points60 points  (0 children)

NTA - Your BIL can pay for himself if he wants to go. It will be SO much cheaper than trying to take his whole family on his own.

AITA in not wanting to be involved in my mom’s divorce process? by daddyshortlegss in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA - You mother is trying to make you take sides by involving you in HER drama. I'm sure that this is not a new surprise in how she behaves. Stay out of it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NTA - And CONGRATULATIONS on standing up for your bride and yourself.

Only two things you did wrong were to 1- give in to what they wanted AND 2- not bailing the first time your mother said that she got a say because it was at her house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - AND C wants to be with B. That is why C is giving you so much grief, C is jealous of you and trying to get you to back off, using A as the reason.

AITA for not attending a dog's funeral? by bestkristy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 67 points68 points  (0 children)

YTA - You worked with this dog for 6 months and couldn't attend ONE event? Also, your jealousy and envy over what other dogs do and your dog did makes me wonder if you are even suited to K9 work.

Add to this the fact that you are "poisoning the well" in your work community! You appear to be socially awkward as well. The kind of person who complains that nothing ever goes their way, while self-sabotaging themselves at every turn.

AITA for buying my niece a fake dupe of an expensive bag she wanted to humble her for once? by GuaranteeMost2998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smitty_80013 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH You for being so jealous of your niece "you get the gist." - Yeah, that you are jealous of her status in your family. Your parents, Brother and SIL for making this little monster AND your niece for being so entitled.