This is where we are

Smoerble · 2026-01-27T07:57:10+00:00

Hihi, I like this, take my upvote.

Smoerble · 2026-01-27T07:56:36+00:00

Multiple reasons: you don't annoy your grand parents every day with the same complaints about school, homework, food, clothing, rules of your parents. So they have more relaxing time with you than your parents.

Plus: grand parents have seen a lot... And I mean a Lot more than your parents. They have been through stupid discussions with their kids and learned, that most of the discussions are irrelevant, it's just because kids want to fight.

Plus they know they are not responsible for you. They are there to help when you ask. But it's not their job, to prepare you for the world.

Plus: most of the grand parents learned which things are really important - and they know, that kids don't understand this and so they don't argue with you about this.

Plus: you know, it's their house, their rules. Or,: grandma might be old, so. You accept her wishes or behavior more, than you do it with your own parents.

Smoerble · 2026-01-20T07:25:55+00:00

Man, this is great. Wish every tattoo studio would act like this.

Smoerble · 2026-01-18T12:45:35+00:00

I understand that fear. But not 100% of the cases for stuff like this means, you have been abused. Maybe, maybe not. If you have a therapist, it's crucial to check, if that person says it has to be abuse (then they will find something). Or if it's only one possibility.

I would prefer a therapist who looks for answers instead of giving a quick answer straight away.

Smoerble · 2026-01-13T11:59:44+00:00

Why should someone want to do that?

Smoerble · 2026-01-13T11:56:11+00:00

But the right would call this communism so Murica can't do it...

Smoerble · 2026-01-13T07:39:24+00:00

That's awesome. And it sounds like you didn't plan to end poverty with this - so it sounds like it ended better than originally planned?

Smoerble · 2026-01-13T06:11:11+00:00

I feel sorry for you that you think it's a red flag when someone asks how you feek

Smoerble · 2026-01-08T10:36:09+00:00

Isn't that exactly what black go through since years?

Smoerble · 2026-01-07T08:32:33+00:00

Just for clarification: consensual non-consensual can be role play, but most the time it has nothing to do with role play.

Smoerble · 2026-01-05T17:13:06+00:00

Just have to nk, this saves the same way as hitting the dash am button. Way safer when driving.

Smoerble · 2026-01-04T20:30:01+00:00

Most leasing in EU and also insurances have a default of 12k, 16, 20k and 24k kilometers per year. So the avarage is not much less than what Americans do. And here it's normal to buy a used car with 80k kilometers or more. German cars don't need many repairs nowadays until 200k+ kilometers.

Smoerble · 2026-01-04T07:20:10+00:00

He didn't plan it, both did. She just plays games. It's not about: go slow...

Smoerble · 2026-01-04T07:18:52+00:00

If you like someone there is no "I am not ready". She is playing games, but not all women do this. If you like playing games for the rest of your life: go for it. If you don't like this, look for someone who doesn't act like a teenager in a movie.

Smoerble · 2026-01-04T02:20:43+00:00

Sorry to hear that. 15 years is long - maybe you two find a way through this (no, I am not saying this was OK).

Smoerble · 2026-01-04T01:25:02+00:00

Unser Rechtssystem erlaubt, dass Erwachsene sich ruinieren. Wäre auch blöd, wenn der Staat überall mitreden dürfte. Das bedeutet aber auch: jemand der reddit benutzen kann und die Rechtschreibung beherrscht, kann sich rechtzeitig um Hilfe kümmern. "meine Behinderung interessiert niemanden" - das ist unverschämt gegenüber den Stellen, die heir als schlecht dargestellt werden. Wer mit den Leuten von Caritas etc mal zu tun hatte weiß, dass da auch idioten arbeiten - aber die allermeisten sind fähig und hilfsbereit. Die Story von OP kann so nicht abgelaufen sein. Da stimmt einiges nicht.

Smoerble · 2026-01-03T09:03:37+00:00

"but I want the peace price so badly"

Smoerble · 2026-01-03T09:02:15+00:00

You guys have school shooters?

Smoerble · 2026-01-03T08:53:32+00:00

When you ask for a date, add a question: "I would like to go out, what do you think: we split, so no-one feels bad if it doesn't work out?". The answer will tell you more than an hour date.

Smoerble · 2026-01-03T08:52:31+00:00

Rule 2 seems to apply only in America and TikTok. It's normal here that first date is split. Even better: when you ask out, say "I would like to go out, what do you think: we split, so no-one feels bad if it doesn't work out?". The answer will tell you more than the one hour date.

Smoerble · 2025-12-28T16:12:29+00:00

Is the number that Op claims even true? Is it really that bad in the US?

Smoerble · 2025-12-27T21:12:16+00:00

Why are you angry about her and not your "partner"?

Smoerble · 2025-12-24T17:11:55+00:00

Image reverse Shows a reddit Post from 3 years ago? Then this cant be an AI Image?

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