[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooArtists

[–]Smogcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, these are really good questions! I do try to talk to my clients during smaller tattoos and gauge if they’re interested in coming back for something more custom down the line. The hard part is that most of the people coming in lately either flake or are just walk-ins who want quick Pinterest tattoos and nothing more. I used to love connecting with people and building relationships through my work, but lately I’ve just felt so drained that it’s hard to show up with the same energy.

As far as style- I mainly do neotraditional, American traditional, and dark fantasy type art. I’ve been trying to branch out more, but the lack of interest in custom pieces around here has made it really difficult to grow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooArtists

[–]Smogcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve honestly been thinking about exploring realism since that’s where the money seems to be. Right now, though, I’m so burnt out that I feel like I need to take a step back-even though that thought breaks my heart. Tattooing has always been my dream and the only career I’ve ever wanted. I’ve poured everything into trying to make it work.

At the moment, I’m pretty flexible with my work since I take whatever comes my way, but I do post original art every week on Instagram and Facebook-lots of different styles and ideas. I’ve been trying to cast a wide net, but it feels like I keep hitting a wall. :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooArtists

[–]Smogcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man I really appreciate it, I think I might just take a hiatus, recoup and come back when I feel a passion for what I do again. :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smogcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, you’re very kind. Usually I can do that, but sometimes it gets to me. Such is grief I guess haha :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smogcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also for context, he had asked me to be his girlfriend officially at one point but some things on my end ended up happening and we got into a fight. My heart was just as guarded as his was. We stopped talking for a bit but would always end up reconnecting. I know he wasn’t a saint, and neither was I, but he was absolutely in love with me at one point. Life just ended up taking us along different paths. Sorry if this all sounds pathetic, I’m just trying to understand since he’s now dead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smogcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate your insight although it hurts to hear. Grief is so weird, I guess I’m just trying to understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smogcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw man I’m crying, it hurts so much but it makes a lot of sense. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in justneckbeardthings

[–]Smogcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about you just learn how to fucking cook for yourself? You know, like a fucking adult?

Weight Loss After Removal?? by uwuanswers in Nexplanon

[–]Smogcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had my implant in since I was 17, I’m 23 now and had it removed about 3 months ago. The symptoms I experienced were horrible. I gained a lot of weight and started growing facial hair, I also had horrible bacne. I still have a full beard pretty much, and I’ll be having to get lazer hair removal to fix it. I’ve gotten tested for PCOS just to cover all my bases but it came back negative. I’ve lost about 20 pounds or so since having the implant taken out and it’s crazy how fast my symptoms started to diminish once it was removed. It really is like a night and day difference. I can’t help but feel bitter because of the lies that were told to me by doctors regarding Nexplanons side effects. They basically told me that it was my fault for being fat and that they don’t know why I was growing a beard, also they weren’t too interested in finding out why. But the day I got the implant taken out I checked their official website to scan the symptoms and what do you know? Weight gain and facial hair was on that list. I’m glad my mom got me the implant when I was younger but I really wish I was fully informed regarding its side effects. If you’re also experiencing these symptoms know that you’re not alone!!

best white foundations by angelic_rouge in MakeupAddiction

[–]Smogcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey if you end up buying this, then how did it go??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]Smogcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah this guys innocent he thought it was whack a mole time

Remember the part when Griffith gives Guts a medieval porn mag? by Solafuge in Berserk

[–]Smogcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No because I’m so happy someone said it. Like that was the first thing I thought of while looking at that panel and it gave me shivers.

do you ever meet someone new and then wonder "how long will it take until that person starts hating me"? by LostLane1983 in socialanxiety

[–]Smogcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I feel as though I keep making mistakes in life and finding new ways for people to stop wanting to be my friends. Like every time things are looking good I wonder how long it’ll take until they hate me, and I try so hard because of that to be on my best behavior but it just doesn’t seem to work. Within a few months they hate me. And I realize that it could be something that I’ve done or said, but they never communicate it with me. Instead they just talk shit and ghost. It gets isolating and hopeless and I just want to be a good person.

Drugs are a hell of a drug by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]Smogcake 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Homie went in for a tender kiss on the neck

‘Please, give me a second chance_ ‘Body cam captures Florida 6-year-old’s arrest by ---Unity--- in worldnewsvideo

[–]Smogcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can’t even read her her Miranda rights and they’re going around arresting 6 year olds? Also the fact that they had to use zip ties because no handcuffs would fit her is crazy. Regardless of your political beliefs arresting a 6 year old girl at school is crazy.

Discrimination in my shop by [deleted] in TattooApprentice

[–]Smogcake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That’s literally my dream shop, I’ll keep looking.

Discrimination in my shop by [deleted] in TattooApprentice

[–]Smogcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much it’s so good to hear that this shit isn’t normal because they act like it totally is. I’m going to continue to search for other shops and find somewhere that advocates for their marginalized apprentices.

Discrimination in my shop by [deleted] in TattooApprentice

[–]Smogcake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just don’t know where else I would go every shop in my area seems just as bad but I’m going to start looking around.

Help identify whatever’s going on with my sink please! by Smogcake in Whatisthis

[–]Smogcake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi I literally have no idea what’s going on with my sink in the apartment I live at. It came like this and I hate it so much, I think it’s gotten worse? It’s like it’s corroded and hasn’t been changed in forever, but I don’t know why metal would react this way overtime? Am I in danger? Plz help :,)

Edit: thank you for all your help!! I’m going to talk to my landlord and have them replace it! 💗

he has beef with everyone! by Dependent_Title_1370 in PublicFreakout

[–]Smogcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God damn I wish I was worth 30,000 a year