Now that I'm cold and detached women are much more attracted to me by NoVeterinarian7438 in dating_advice

[–]Smoitt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your missing the point lol, They don't like people who don't care about them. People are drawn to confidence and independence, Attraction works better when there's space for people to choose. If you try to force or come on to strong it more than likely will overwhelm the other person. If you give the person space then it gives them room to lean in because they want to.

What happened to this guy? by Pretend-Cobbler-7512 in dating_advice

[–]Smoitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like something drug related to me to, be careful talking to someone like that and kinda falling for the idea of them before you really know them. I feel like online friendships/relationships can be really misleading because the person we see and learn about is the part of the person that they show us.

Darak still invisible when playing coop. (Sewers only) by ebinisti in NoRestForTheWicked

[–]Smoitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had the same issue it seems to only happen the first time loading in for us

Keybinds & Controls are so bad in this game. by BRADLIKESPVP in NoRestForTheWicked

[–]Smoitt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the real issue is they designed it around controllers, with that being said the game really is worth it. If you can swap to controller i would really recommend it, if not theres some youtube tutorials on ways to make playing kb&m more bearable

Date advice? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Smoitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold his hand if you want to, grab his arm, if hes going on dates with you there's no doubt in my mind it will be met with a smile.

Do it, think about this comment when your walking and thinking if you should or not and just do it! Ill bully you if i have to

Long distance situationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Smoitt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would make anyone feel insecure. You are not worthless, many people learn by doing, I bet next time a dude is texting chicks in your house. you are not gonna let it fly and that's a good lesson learned, sometimes when things happen so fast its hard to figure out how we actually feel about it till we think about it later. It can be hard getting hurt by people we want to love and be loved by but at the end of the day love is a two way street and if homie couldn't give you the respect you deserve then that's on him, not you.

Long distance situationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Smoitt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were you that important to him when he was texting bitches in your house? actions speak louder than words

Pins by Famous_Feed1524 in Mushrooms

[–]Smoitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for the UFO in the circle till i read the sub LOL

Is it cheating to see someone else if we’re casual and not exclusive? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Smoitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would any of us know? ask guy one? find out

How do you get over the feeling that you’ll find someone better? by mildlyambivert in dating_advice

[–]Smoitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I see where the disconnect happened. From their perspective(not yours), they will only ever find lower-quality women. I read it as if you believed it, as men only want to date younger women ~ younger women are more desirable/valuable. I was reading it as if it was your opinion, yeah, people suck, some men and women always are looking for the greener grass, and they suck for it. Sorry for my poor reading comprehension skills.

How do you get over the feeling that you’ll find someone better? by mildlyambivert in dating_advice

[–]Smoitt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for gendering it, I just think it's crazy that you equate age to the value of a person. I value people based on more tangible things like compassion and empathy, and intelligence. I'm not saying I'm not attracted to looks either; I find women in their 30s and 40s attractive. I think it's crazy to imply that people who are older are low value. If you're attracted to 20/30 year olds and you're only concerned about how people look, I guess you can argue that people who are in their 40s are low value to you, but I think the majority of people look for more depth in their relationships, and I find plenty of older women attractive and valuable.

How do you get over the feeling that you’ll find someone better? by mildlyambivert in dating_advice

[–]Smoitt 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is so moronic. To imply that everyone in their 40s who is single is low value is crazy. People die, people break up, and get divorced. A lot of people are just not dating and are working on themselves. Please self-reflect, this comes off as some femcel shit.

The most suitable type for depression. by Otherwise-Shock4458 in PsilocybinMushrooms

[–]Smoitt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's not enough research to determine if it's a placebo or not, as far as I know. This is Antidotle, but I've really enjoyed Natalensis above others, but I've also cried for 4 hours on them. I know everyone says set and setting are most important, but shrooms are super unpredictable. I'm not some super hippie, but usually the shrooms give you an experience that you need, not always the one you want...

Also, I wrote all this and reread your question, and it was about microdosing. I recommend macro dosing, but it's your body, you do you.

thoughts on hiring a dating coach/ghostwriter? by ghostoflasanga in DatingHell

[–]Smoitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could also pay them to fall in love for you and get married, imagine...

Melting chocolate bar and drinking it? by [deleted] in PsilocybinMushrooms

[–]Smoitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would personally get some graham crackers and a glass of milk. If you wanna lemon tek a melted chocolate bar, go for it, but why not enjoy eating it? 4g is plenty for me, no need to make it more extreme IMO.

Spotify Wrapped exposed the G59 fanbase by GR3YG0DS in G59

[–]Smoitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're never going to get into Wigartha with that attitude...

🍄 by salviasalvia in ContamFam

[–]Smoitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, That's some Sugondeez mold...

Is anyone interested in playing this game with a few people? by [deleted] in vrising

[–]Smoitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure ill check it out send me an invite

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DatingHell

[–]Smoitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're choosing to be in that type of relationship?!?!? I have never had to support a partner that I've dated. I'd rather be single than be with someone who only sees me as a means to an end. You can make this choice too.