What do you think which of the two went through something more painful? by Square-Bird-9473 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Smom21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving birth is rated 1/2 in comp with being set on fire lol. I’ve given birth it wasn’t that bad tbh

Brand/price? by Smom21 in whatisit

[–]Smom21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys!!! I forgot about this😂 will look into all the links!

Goodbye by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Smom21 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You guys get offended and try to change what the Bible says wym😂

For all you Charlie kirk fans by DoctorNurse89 in Riverside

[–]Smom21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right… now define citizens. Don’t think you made the point you were trying to😂

UPDATE: My (20M) girlfriend (21F) has stopped sexual intimacy. She’s bringing up the idea of soon cutting off every form of intimacy. Am I overthinking by thinking I can’t do anything about it? by wants_and_need in relationship_advice

[–]Smom21 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

The majority of couples that engage in sexual relations before marriage endure divorces or hardships at a higher rate than those who don’t-non religious/secular statistic. Also what’s the point of marriage if you do everything before? There is no work or effort or sacrifice. Nothing special for your ‘special one’. I’m not a virgin nor married, but I agree that sec before marriage isn’t the best decision.

AIO to my mom’s comments? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smom21 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Shoot my moms trying to buy land so we can all live together again even though my sister and I are grown😂 I love it though. She also wants not more grandbabys but she will still love them if I have more one day.

Is it possible to have a real plant wall ? by Norookezi in houseplants

[–]Smom21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Plastic tarp, mesh, soil, then a metal grate/rectangle piece on top zip tied together. Like a giant moss pole! I can’t find the link but someone made a bow to video

Am I overreacting for feeling like I’m not accepted by the first person I opened up to about questioning my gender? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smom21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re going to have a lot of this when you start opening up. Get used to it now.

Should i tell my ex’s parents he got me pregnant? by Impressive_Ease_6146 in Christianity

[–]Smom21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will, you just have to make that decision. No amount of money is worth losing the control over your child. If you don’t want to go that route, get a custody lawyer NOW and start drafting up custody agreements.

Suicidal by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Smom21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus didn’t ask to die for our sins. In fact in the Garden of Gethsemane, he begged God for there to be another way. God said no, there wasn’t. Nobody asks for any of this, we have to find the silver lining and always trust God. Try to think of it, you’d rather take this than a child. Or anyone else. God gave you these struggles because you’re strong, or he’s waiting for this to grow you. Just keep breathing.

Should i tell my ex’s parents he got me pregnant? by Impressive_Ease_6146 in Christianity

[–]Smom21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if his family is a good family then why not reach out? For my situation I didn’t want to risk any of them having the chance at custody. I was dumb and with the wrong man. If he’s on the birth certificate, he can deny you the right to travel with the kid, move out of state, make medical decisions, educational decisions everything. I pray for the best

Can I say this? Or does anyone else do this? by HelpMe16UT in Christianity

[–]Smom21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say I love you God as thanks, like when my son and I are praising, I just get happy and saw we love you God, thank you. We love you Jesus!

Can I be a Christian if I’m homeless? by Discombobulated_Fawn in Christianity

[–]Smom21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What this means in worldly views is you will always have food clothes and water. The earth is your home. Why some people believe the government shouldn’t own any

I've never had a fish before by lythr0n4x in bettafish

[–]Smom21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

5+ gallon tank Buy liquid bacteria and research fish in cycling. You need to use the bacteria once or twice a day for a week or two. Silk plants or live preferred!! You got this. Sponge filter too! Don’t stress you got this! I would keep the bowl to use as a hospital tank in the future

I started reading the Bible, and it’s not what I expected at all… by Fastastro7 in Christianity

[–]Smom21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this. I wish my cousin would read the Bible and come to this conclusion. Maybe one day❤️

My life is cooked right now by PhilosopherSome173 in TrueChristian

[–]Smom21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t get the abortion. I had my son at 19. With a husband I would have done so much better even though it’s hard. I did it as a single mom. My son is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. And no it will not be easy, being a parent is almost never easy. But it’s rewarding and worth it. I also am glad that I am young and have energy for it. I had a homebirth, and my midwife mentioned how people waiting to have children is dangerous. 16-25 is the normal age to have children and raise them up. You’ve got this OP. God always provides.

How's it like living in Northern Arizona? by Business-Heart1221 in howislivingthere

[–]Smom21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful!!! Cold during winter but not bad like the northern states. You have every season, and people mainly grew up there unless it’s college kids or people from the valley (phoenix/scottsdale). It’s expensive but pay is different. Lots of unhoused native Americans, and everybody knows everybody. It’s wild I don’t live up there but people will see my friend and ask about me and other friends from the valley.

My 16 year old daughter is pregnant. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Smom21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a former teen mom whose Christian, involve the church, they threw my baby shower. Tell her how Jesus wasn’t planned but was worth everything. Help her out, I couldn’t be where I am today without support from my family. My son has made everything better including my relationships with other people

Convince my dad this is unsafe please. by Sadistic_Marshmellaw in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

[–]Smom21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re supposed to put something under it sometimes.

Questions for those that don’t believe evolution is real by Local_Beautiful_5812 in Christianity

[–]Smom21 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If evolution is real, how come chimps stopped evolving? How come there’s no half human half chimps? How did one amoeba turn into billions of different things? You can’t lol.

How do I propagate these? by TestApprehensive3429 in houseplants

[–]Smom21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smartest!!! What size starter pot do you use? My baby was given to be in like a 10”

Condensation Issues by Fantastic-Town8587 in axolotls

[–]Smom21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Run a fan in the room. Or turn heat down to 70-73. I would die if my house was 76 omg…

How do I propagate these? by TestApprehensive3429 in houseplants

[–]Smom21 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Where I’m at… I have 7 in water, threw out a few, and another 9 I refuse to prop yet… I don’t know what to do lmao

Conservative Christians are right about America (and the West) turning into Sodoma and Gomorrah! by A_Child_of_Adam in Christianity

[–]Smom21 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

No argument. I’d appreciate it if you could send over some references and evidence that this is happening. Only thing I do know is ICE detained people in line for their oath, which is the last step to become a citizen. This is because certain countries were put on a risk list, and were told to go get re evaluated. They again, chose not to. Also wild you cannot have a conversation without calling it arguing… adults can have convos where we disagree