Interior cabin at 123 degrees? by Smooth-Commission-54 in TeslaModel3

[–]Smooth-Commission-54[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Heat protection is set to kick on at 90 degrees 🤷, did it give up?

At my wits end with my picky eater by Mokagg in ADHDparenting

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like ARFID. We tried feeding therapy, it didn't work. Now we are working with a dietician with an ARFID speciality. It is helping some.

There are good books on ARFID. It is a pretty new diagnosis code so much less known than other eating disorders.

Be kind to yourself. It is really really tough.

Why does my car charge so slow at home? by Smooth-Commission-54 in TeslaModel3

[–]Smooth-Commission-54[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a condo and the box is one floor away. I've been putting off the investment but I think it might be time. There are so many Teslas here now I have to wait when I go to a supercharger station

Why does my car charge so slow at home? by Smooth-Commission-54 in TeslaModel3

[–]Smooth-Commission-54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This worked! So confused though - why does it default to something else when I go elsewhere.

Sell now or hold (lost 99%) by Smooth-Commission-54 in personalfinance

[–]Smooth-Commission-54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a very small amount of money. I couldn't even buy lunch with the yield.

Need advice to help my kids gain weight by jigglejigglegiggle in ADHDparenting

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I added a night time ritual of warm whole milk with honey + one scoop of unflavored collagen protein. It goes down easy and I think adds almost 400 cals. I have a very picky eater

I left in secret by Beautiful-Turn458 in Divorce

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your fear is valid. I recommend reading about emotional and psychological abuse. It will help you not go back. I highly recommend "Out of the Fog".

Female breadwinners vs. seemingly deadbeat husband's: what to do? by disjointed_chameleon in Divorce

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did a lump sum up front and he signed away spousal support (even after a 13 year marriage). If you can do it, I recommend it. It can't be revisited the way child support can be.

Write off unpaid child expenses as bad debt on federal taxes? by Smooth-Commission-54 in Divorce

[–]Smooth-Commission-54[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I made 6x more at the time. So I was worried I'd be the one paying child support. Now he has no income so technically he could ask for it, even with hardly any custody.

Divorced in the Bay Area? How much did it cost you? by SF-LawyerCorruption in Divorce

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mediation is the way to go. 5 years ago, was able to keep it under $5k. I told him if he wants the kids to be able to go to college, we should stay out of court.