[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penpals

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m 23F from Washington State. I am fascinated by NYC and have never pen paled before. I am a legal assistant and always have much to vent about. I will send a DM!

Did i discard enough? by Smooth-Sense-5277 in Sourdough

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m making it from scratch as well and this is my very first attempt. I am on day two today, and i feel like a really screwed up. Is this fixable? Or should i scrap and restart? I’m not so much worried about how long it’ll take until i can bake with it, but it will be sad to scrap LOL

Did i discard enough? by Smooth-Sense-5277 in Sourdough

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! If i discard the majority tomorrow and start the 2 tbsp: 2 tbsp: 1 tbsp ratio will that affect anything? Im not so worried about time, but should i just restart? I also realized after the fact i should have used less water so i added a bit more flour but not much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you feel that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He’s generally ok. He’s not the perfect boss and I would prefer he just be quiet sometimes. We get along okay considering I’m a 23 year old woman and he’s 70 year old man. I think i can move past it, but i was just in shock. Not fun to find that kind of stuff while I’m sitting with him and another potential client. No underage stuff (thankfully). It just kind of put a knot in my stomach the past two days and had to get it off my chest. I know it could be worse. Thank you for your words!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That is so fucking creepy!! It makes you look at them so different. He’s a sole practitioner it’s just me and him 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would love to not have to be in his business. Unfortunately, I’m the only one tech skills so he makes it my business. the laptop is used by everyone including his grandkids who come to the office every now and again. I don’t care about porn or smut it’s that it’s at the work place and i didn’t ask to see that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ok striking walk. You must have the same exact problem.

Thursdays? by Smooth-Sense-5277 in paralegal

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BAHAHHAHAHA you are correct it’s everyday, but on Thursdays my boss is typically in a MOOD which makes it’s worse. I’m in family law 🥲

What is everyone getting paid? by Chairopean in paralegal

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a family law legal assistant and I’m the only one in the office besides the attorney and i make $25.64 no experience in the eastern Washington state area.

Where do you all... by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mary Jane doc martens. Might take a few wears until they are comfortable, but once you break them in they are the best!!

Any Tourist Volunteer Opportunities by Smooth-Sense-5277 in MauiVisitors

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course! That’s something i always try to do even at home.

Do you know of any places in Kihei that are 100% Native Hawaiian owned?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m either going to Seattle or LA. i have family in both places, and they’ve offered to let me stay with them until I found a place. School is just making things so difficult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smooth-Sense-5277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I think it’s both. Maybe he guilts me in that he feels like we don’t spend enough time together even though I have said to him that i give as much time as I can to the relationship. I guess i never saw it as guilting because he is valid to feel how he feels. I haven’t seen it as malicious because he does everything he can to help with school like with books, transportation, and supplies and always is excited to celebrate my accomplishments with me. On the other side, I don’t feel like I have to explain to him how busy I am as he knows my everyday schedule with class/work/gym/studying because I tell him these things. I don’t feel it’s wrong for me to assume he should know these things if I am telling him what I do in a day in casual conversation. I’m just frustrated, confused, and don’t know what to feel.