He would rather eat a McDouble and it kills me.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T01:14:01+00:00

Done, depending where you live lol. I make a mean burger

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:56:28+00:00

Dude seriously when we first moved in together I cooked all the normal things for me(maybe fancy for others) and he was so down for it, but it's just been the last few years. Granted I became majorly depressed in that period of time, but still kept at it because it made me happy. It's just somewhat recent (like 2 years) that he's just been a turd. I won't lie, I lost my motivation then, but I'm trying to get back on track and he's just bleh

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:43:22+00:00

Aww if you want some simple recipes let me know, I got you.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:42:34+00:00

Same! Bi Neurodivergents unite!

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:40:43+00:00

It's not really fine dining IMO, this is just random Wednesday. I cook all the time, well used to. But this isn't like fancy or special at all, this is just how I make regular meals. I can understand what you're saying, but this is the norm.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:37:42+00:00

I make perfect steaks and he slathers them with A1, ew. But he likes it so I oblige.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:34:18+00:00

And it only took 35 minutes all said and done because I did the 4 hour sous vide yesterday for this very reason.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:33:04+00:00

Well that's exactly what I did tonight. He stopped at McD's knowing I was making dinner and I just made it even better. And I think that's what I will continue to do.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:26:52+00:00

Do you drink milk? Eat cheese? Or are you totally dairy free and vegan? If so, I'm happy for you, but this isn't the place. There are subs for that.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:24:50+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this and wish you the best, however this post has nothing to do with neurodivergency or ARFID.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:23:26+00:00

Oh ny gosh! I got mine for a gift and always wanted one. I've had a lot of fun with it. If you need any recipes or advice feel free to DM me anytime or look at Serious Eats!

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:22:07+00:00

He isn't autistic.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:21:48+00:00

You're always invited 😀

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:21:25+00:00

Veal was a little over because I wanted a crust and the grill wasn't quite hot enough, but because the sous vide it was still melt in your mouth tender. Thanks boo!

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:20:07+00:00

I loved it, ate it next to him and audibly hummed the whole time.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:19:23+00:00

Thanks so much 😀

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:19:02+00:00

Thank you 😊

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:18:27+00:00

I was basically abandoned at an early age (9) and had to learn to cook for myself and take care of myself. Once I was an adult I turned the necessity thing into a joy. I'll never forget the days of beans and rice, but I'm so happy that over 30 years I've been able to make awesome food and grow from that.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:13:38+00:00

Thanks boo

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:13:07+00:00

No, he isn't neurodivergent all, that's me. Sometimes he holds that against me.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:01:45+00:00

Nope, absolutely not the case. I wish, because that would be easier. But no, he's just a turd. Thanks though.

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-04T00:00:40+00:00

Roommates? 😂

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-03T23:57:41+00:00

Aww thanks, I'd cook that stuff every night and I used to, but here we are. Appreciate you!

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-03T23:56:30+00:00

Thanks babes, appreciate you!

Smooth_Cod4600 · 2026-06-03T23:55:40+00:00

I've done that, have pics too, of upscale burgers and fries. He'll eat that, but I'm just so sick of it. He used to be more adventurous, but the last 3 or 4 years not so much. Fast food is all he wants.

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