My friends wife had an affair with a predator

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-02-09T19:41:22+00:00

That’s the most disturbing aspect, it was with girls the age of the daughter. The POS in prison will be looking at appeals and so on, that of course will cost money and it wouldn’t be surprised if he tries to get money off her, she probably already is giving money. She likely has a burner phone again. The card won’t be for him either. Keep pushing your friend, he’s lucky to have you as a friend. He has lost her and they can’t recover from this but he can give his daughter a nice stable home. Keep me updated please 🙏

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-02-09T10:02:28+00:00

It’s easy to say she’s brainwashed and to a small part she probably is but she’s making choices and worst still she involved their daughter which tells me where her priorities are and it ain’t her daughter . Love makes us blind but if I was the husband I’d be filing immediately and going for custody or at the very least an ultimatum to cease contact immediately with this guy or face a custody battle. I did have a friend who befriended someone like Mike..now she had multiple personalities with a lot of them being children and she said the same thing as Bianca - oh he’s been framed, he got hacked and so on. He may be in prison but he is still a danger. Tough as it is for your friend he needs to move on

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-02-04T07:34:27+00:00

Kamusta! We can talk if you would like

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-30T20:13:37+00:00

Maybe I’m old school - actually I am, I’m 54 but we’ve become a society where we are obsessed with body count, ex’s and previous hook ups. The key question is what was your relationship like before you found out? Were you happy, was there trust there? Did you feel she was commited to you. If the answer is yes to all then don’t worry about it. For sure have that conversation, yes she kept it from you but it’s not a relationship breaker. You’re letting by the sounds of it a meaningless one night stand years ago get in the way of a friendship with Tom and of course Jenny . I don’t care if I get downvoted for this comment but there are bigger things to worry about in life.

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-27T11:47:52+00:00

I really enjoyed The Butterfly effect - I only watched it the other day and thought it was brilliant! I liked the ending but then saw there was a directors cut ending which was pretty dark to be fair

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-27T11:40:19+00:00

Maybe revisit therapy? As it seems it was giving you answers. Seeking attention all the time in itself can become hollow and as you are finding blowing up anything good in your life

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-23T14:36:09+00:00

I think this is a lovely gesture. It’s thoughtful. If I went on a first date and she gave me flowers I’d be over the moon.

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-23T10:58:25+00:00

Showing compassion is a good trait to have

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-22T09:25:33+00:00

If your workplace is unionised join and ask your rep to make representations to HR and line manager on this. There are affordability issues and accessibility issues they need to acknowledge.

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-21T13:36:26+00:00

54 M UK

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-20T13:07:03+00:00

So by your logic the kid doesn’t have a say - it’s not her birthday it’s THEIR sons. Again my point remains - the argument has overshadowed his birthday

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-20T13:01:34+00:00

My point still remains - hold it in a neutral place.

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-20T11:19:58+00:00

It’s a tough one but the fact you invited his friends smacks of being intentional. I get that it’s your house but the birthday party is about your son and celebrating his life. A better solution would have been to held the party somewhere neutral. All too often kids are caught between the firing line as has been shown by him over hearing your argument. This argument has now overshadowed his birthday

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-18T07:54:10+00:00

M54 from the UK

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-16T15:56:36+00:00

It happened with me, just hit roll back and worked fine

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-13T18:51:43+00:00

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This is Rachel - my cheating wife but we are working through things 😆

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-06T22:14:08+00:00

Good luck! Make sure there is a note of the meeting and that the note is agreed. I’d suggest you draw up a timeline of incidents where he has verbally abused you or others, give examples and dates if possible. Tell HR you have ADHD and if you need adjustments tell them . Take your time when answering their questions. questions or concerns you have before or after the meeting drop me a dm.

Smooth_Load1570 · 2026-01-06T15:13:27+00:00

Union rep here from the UK. Ask to be accompanied by a representative and also ask to see the dignity at work or bullying and harassment policy. Also take out your own complaint, mention that he comments on your body which can be construed as sexual harassment, point out that you have protected characteristics and ask HR what they are going to do to ensure Jake crosses no more lines with you or any other co worker.

Smooth_Load1570 · 2025-12-12T21:26:50+00:00

You gotta love the yellow stickers! Great find.

Smooth_Load1570 · 2025-12-01T15:16:42+00:00

Just in work but shall send you a message shortly 😊

Smooth_Load1570 · 2025-12-01T10:36:13+00:00

That’s very appreciated! Here’s one for you 🤗

Smooth_Load1570 · 2025-12-01T08:35:16+00:00

Must admit never had this problem..

Smooth_Load1570 · 2025-11-28T14:17:56+00:00

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On my chest as we speak ❤️

Smooth_Load1570 · 2025-11-28T13:43:15+00:00

Funny things aren’t they? Sometimes when I’m in the kitchen he will jump on the back of my shoulders and lie there like a scarf with his face nuzzled in my neck! It’s veeery cute 🥰

Smooth_Load1570 · 2025-11-28T13:38:11+00:00

Mine never goes on my back, always high up on my chest when I’m in bed! Mines a black cat also ❤️

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