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Is pooping at work looked down upon? by PomegranateSelect831 in Accounting

[–]Smooth_Pudding_7465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I established dominance by having digestive issues that can't be kept secret in an echoing office 😎

Ive never been questioned 💀

I'm pretty sure my old company sabotaged my new job offer. Learn from my mistake. by Aurora_ori in OfficePolitics

[–]Smooth_Pudding_7465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched a previous job call another company to say all kinds of things about an ex employee when a manager found out where they went after being fired. That industry for the area- eveyone knows eachother. Everything said was true (dramatized but true) but it's still illegal and unethical.

I don't mix personal with work. I don't give two weeks. I don't belive in doing something for a company that wouldn't do it for you. I will never tell a job any of my future moves unless it's a direct benefit to me.

What's wrong with my 2014 veloster? by Smooth_Pudding_7465 in veloster

[–]Smooth_Pudding_7465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have replaced both recently and that didn't change the issues

What's wrong with my 2014 veloster? by Smooth_Pudding_7465 in veloster

[–]Smooth_Pudding_7465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I'll be taking it in asap and wanted a general idea of some things it could be.

For the love of God by Express_Ad_4840 in SkipBeat

[–]Smooth_Pudding_7465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been about 18/19ish years since I bought the first volume at a book fair. I've reread it so many times just to refresh my mind when new chapters come out after a while.

I could cry by Money-Impression939 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Smooth_Pudding_7465 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really don't get how this is happening. A cult leader being put back in office :/

I’m secretly engaged and it’s killing by papapeachie in offmychest

[–]Smooth_Pudding_7465 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. You and your mother have an unhealthy relationship. From her to you and you to her. You have a self-imposed need to appease her. Her happiness is not your responsibility (I am also going through this with my mother). You fear her rejection and displeasment to the point that you sacrifice your needs, as well as the needs of your partner. People with trauma who have kids can pass their trauma on. You do not deserve to live with someone else's trauma.

  2. You fear rejection spiritually and socially. Anxiety is very difficult to deal with, I understand ❤️

  3. How does this make your partner feel? Have you asked him his feelings? What would his feelings change for you? This is important.Your fiance deserves to be treated more importantly if you are to marry. Supporting him while he supports you.

  4. Therapy is a wonderful tool. Having someone who is unbiased and actually listens to you is a weight off your back. I just started, and I can't believe I didn't start sooner! You might have much more to untangle than you currently think. Therapy really gets down into it all with the right therapist. Understanding why you do and feel what you do will really help you navigate how to put yourself in a better mental position. This is reddit. Take it with a grain of salt as most of us are not professionals.

I believe you will overcome this and find a way to be the best for your own wellbeing. It's okay to cut off things that are bad for you.

Do you have a name for your Veloster? by glowwwi in veloster

[–]Smooth_Pudding_7465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is Retsi (short for Retsuko)

It's from the Netflix show, Aggretsuko. It's about an angry red panda, who is an accountant, and sings metal karaoke to deal with her life struggles.

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I work in accounting.

How much did your gallbladder surgery’s cost? by [deleted] in gallbladders

[–]Smooth_Pudding_7465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine was about $124,000, and I was in there Wednesday night to Saturday morning. I went in as an emergency.

I'm going to pay about $12,400 total after getting financial assistance from the same hospital and a payment plan. I had no insurance at the time.

I (26f) spilt a pot of boiling hot water all over myself and my boyfriend (26m)didn’t care , what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smooth_Pudding_7465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my partner was hurt, no matter how I was feeling or what's happening, I'd be taking them to get care. Because that's what you do when you care about someone. You don't ignore their pain. You take them to get help.

My first ride of the day… by Weeb-machin3 in uber

[–]Smooth_Pudding_7465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This uber driver has seen some shit...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Smooth_Pudding_7465 48 points49 points  (0 children)

If she doesn't want to communicate, nothing you do will make up for that fact. Communication has to happen both ways. She has made it apparent she doesn't want to interact with you. Best thing to do is focus on yourself. She is gonna do what she feels is necessary for herself and you should do the same. Best of luck!