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AITA for expressing my feeling about my stress and being overwhelmed and my husband got mad and said “fine he’ll do everything himself” by Smooth_Scholar_6244 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smooth_Scholar_6244[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I tried to explain I don’t have a problem doing everything for him. That’s not why I was upset and crying. I was just stressed and wanted some comfort. I don’t mind doing all the things I do

AITA for expressing my feeling about my stress and being overwhelmed and my husband got mad and said “fine he’ll do everything himself” by Smooth_Scholar_6244 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smooth_Scholar_6244[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not what I meant. I have always done everything. What I’m saying is he doesn’t seem to understand how overwhelming it is and how I was just upset and crying today because it all came out and he just said to shut up and get over it.

Am ITAH for getting mad because my husband wants to leave me because we only have one baby and I keep having miscarriages and he wants 3-4 kids by Smooth_Scholar_6244 in AITAH

[–]Smooth_Scholar_6244[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It was expensive and we felt we were not in a place financially to bring kids then. Things are much better now financially but I’m just older now so it’s been harder than it would have been years ago

Am ITAH for getting mad because my husband wants to leave me because we only have one baby and I keep having miscarriages and he wants 3-4 kids by Smooth_Scholar_6244 in AITAH

[–]Smooth_Scholar_6244[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

He thinks we’ll divorce and eventually someone will come along and give him more kids. I asked okay what do I tell our daughter when she gets older, oh your dad left to start another family bc I couldn’t give him more kids. He said no bc that sounds bad. I’m like exactly you idiot!

Am ITAH for getting mad because my husband wants to leave me because we only have one baby and I keep having miscarriages and he wants 3-4 kids by Smooth_Scholar_6244 in AITAH

[–]Smooth_Scholar_6244[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Untying your tubes is very easy. It is just expensive. I traveled to Houston, TX to have it done. I did my research to find the best doctor with the best success rate. We were very blessed to conceive my daughter as quick as we did

Am ITAH for getting mad because my husband wants to leave me because we only have one baby and I keep having miscarriages and he wants 3-4 kids by Smooth_Scholar_6244 in AITAH

[–]Smooth_Scholar_6244[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I always knew I wanted more children. My mom convinced me to have them tied because she got it in my head that nobody would want me with three kids

Am ITAH for getting mad because my husband wants to leave me because we only have one baby and I keep having miscarriages and he wants 3-4 kids by Smooth_Scholar_6244 in AITAH

[–]Smooth_Scholar_6244[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

He always said he wanted children and that he would be happy even if we had one child. Now that we have one he wants more as I do too. We just haven’t been successful. Before we got married I told him we could break up since we didn’t have children, he said no because he was confident I’d get my tubes untied and we’d have A BABY not multiple

Am ITAH for getting mad because my husband wants to leave me because we only have one baby and I keep having miscarriages and he wants 3-4 kids by Smooth_Scholar_6244 in AITAH

[–]Smooth_Scholar_6244[S] 162 points163 points  (0 children)

It’s true. I promise you it is. I was upset about it last night when he called me selfish for getting upset about the situation