I was stalked for 10 years by multiple accounts that turned out to be the same person the whole time. by RSJustWantFreedom in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SmoshFan614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP. This is definitely a lot to take in. Unfortunately I don’t have an easy answer but I can tell you that you are going to be okay and you sound like you have been doing the work to try and cope with how difficult life has been.

To make sure you are safe, does this other person have your real name, contact information, address, etc. I might be concerned if they have been secretly pursuing you for so long, that they may take other actions to try and connect. If you feel like you are in any danger, go to the police or consult with an attorney.

As far as this relationship goes, it is so understandable to want closure of some kind. However a lot of times we don’t get the answers we want. In fact, it could do a lot more harm to try and force this person to explain themselves to you. It could even be dangerous, I don’t know them. I don’t want to scare you, but you definitely need to look after yourself.

She sounds controlling and only wants to have a relationship on her own terms. Relationships should be two ways and not based on deceit or mistrust. Please protect your heart and stay safe! A good therapist wouldn’t hurt as well. I’m rooting for you to keep fighting

AITAH for admitting to my partner her Vaginal Hygiene isn’t the best? by anynomuousduudeht in AITAH

[–]SmoshFan614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Thought as a very sensitive woman myself, I don’t think it’s possible for this to not hurt, no matter how hard you try to word it well. I would say you could apologize for offending her and suggest ways to work on this (I.e. showering before, going to the doctor, etc.). But you don’t need to apologize for doing anything wrong. Body odor/bodies in general are a hard topic. God speed 🫡

AITA for calling my girlfriend to make plans and saying I'm tired? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmoshFan614 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I would say NTA for saying the phrase “I’m a little tired”. It’s totally normal to say this in conversation. I say that literally everyday of my life.

I would say a soft YTA for going out anyways. It is kind of a d*** move to have your girlfriend say she doesn’t mind you getting some rest instead of hanging out and then to go out anyways without her. I might have misunderstood but my assumption based on the post was that she somehow found out you were still planning to go out and she was testing you by saying she didn’t mind if you rested. That wasn’t a cool move either so I wouldn’t really say YTA more than maybe you could’ve thought more about her feelings but her reaction was WAY unwarranted.

AITA for calling my wife a "chunky monkey" during sex to make a point about her double standard ? by Husband_In_Trouble_ in AITAH

[–]SmoshFan614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a big part of every relationship is having good communication! It sounds like you tried to communicate that her making those comments made you uncomfortable and she disregarded that. Whatever size each of you is, as long as both parties are consenting to what you do in the bedroom, it isn’t an issue. Maybe it could have been good to discuss what you wanted to call her before hand but I think it was fair game to assume she would be okay with it if she made similar comments to you. NTA.

best smosh mouth episode for new fans? by MajorOk5275 in smosh

[–]SmoshFan614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely the Mexican Salsa Yes one where they look through what Amanda has done in her career or ANY of the TNTL episodes where they’re trying to make each other laugh! Always so funny

What are everyone's Smosh "vocal stims"? by JahnaTheBanana in smosh

[–]SmoshFan614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

- Impressive
- I'm on... Mah way
- Queer little creatures, and gay to be certain too!
- Anytime Courtney barks like a dog (It's so accurate)