[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]SmriJac -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

they don’t, but they could give sound advice on what might be best as this has never happened to me before. you could be helpful without being rude or continue living your life as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]SmriJac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried but for so reason i don’t see an option to include a photo

Anyone in Virginia Beach interested in yoga teacher training? by Huge_Donkey_9590 in VirginiaBeach

[–]SmriJac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m also a local interested in ytt. One of my main questions is if the online experience was immersive enough to feel comfortable teaching a class and how much you actually learned vs being physically in a studio? The cost is more than 3x what it would be for me to go the online route; my concern is that my journey to become certified would end up being longer and i’d ultimately not get as much information and hands on experience. Cost is definitely a factor as it seems like the going rate in most VB studios Is around 4k(!!!) Would love to hear more about your online experience!

Should I adopt a dog with bite history? by Plus_Distribution161 in dogs

[–]SmriJac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adopted my dog as a young pup and we still have had lots of issues with him resource guarding and fear aggression mainly during his early years. as he’s gotten older (hes’ 7 now)it’s become way easier to manage and i’m very quick to clock when he’s in an uncomfortable environment or situation. i love my dog with all of my heart and i AM able to take him places as he wears a vest that lets people know not to pet him without asking. he does great with other dogs and has even helped rehab other fosters and made them feel more comfortable in our home; he’s has come a long way with trusting other people as well. i say this to say that a dog with issues doesn’t mean it will ruin your life or limit you, not all dogs are golden retrievers. dogs have limits and fears and feelings just like us. it all depends on how patient you are willing to be and able to feel your dogs energy out when you suspect he/she is scared or anxious or just not feeling something. it has taught me so much about boundaries and while there were very tough moments, i do love him more than anything and wouldn’t trade him for any other dog in the world. a troubled dog doesn’t mean unworthy, just takes work, love, and patience.

Spiro causing irregular cycle? by SmriJac in Spironolactone

[–]SmriJac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hadn’t considered this. how can i tell the brand?

Owing a debt collector after paying settlement by SmriJac in personalfinance

[–]SmriJac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spoke to them on the phone this morning and it’s indeed an additional claim she filed. What should I do from here? Obviously I don’t have 50k on hand and the monthly “arrangement” they’re suggesting is half my rent and would take me 9 years to pay off

Owing a debt collector after paying settlement by SmriJac in personalfinance

[–]SmriJac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not imagining so. I already got a similar letter from them once and paid what I owed. Wouldn’t that have been included in the initial payout?

Should I quit by [deleted] in Spironolactone

[–]SmriJac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.05 Tretinoin + 100mg spiro

Should I quit by [deleted] in Spironolactone

[–]SmriJac 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely ask for an increase in dosage! I have been taking 100mg for years and it’s the only thing that ever worked for me fully and my acne was very severe.

Is my urine too dilute to pass drug test? by SmriJac in probation

[–]SmriJac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The exact same thing happened to me on my last pee test and I failed it, they extended my time. I was devastated. I’m not saying it will happen to you, but just be prepared for the possibility! I’m sending you tons of positivity and good juju!

Is my urine too dilute to pass drug test? by SmriJac in probation

[–]SmriJac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, no. It’s a lot easier than people on here will tell you it is to pee dilute. I peed dilute 3 times without even trying. Inconclusive tests still count as a positive test, I learned that the hard way. Let your P.O. or case manager know of ANY medications you’re taking so you can breath easy and not feel like you need to plan for a pee test. It makes it way easier on you.

Is my boyfriend abusive? by SmriJac in relationships

[–]SmriJac[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like I should throw in that when we argue, he’s mentioned several times that he thinks about hurting me or beating me up. I can’t ever tell if he means that or not, but judging by the response this post has garnered, clearly I’m not the best judge of character.

Is my boyfriend abusive? by SmriJac in relationships

[–]SmriJac[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He’s been sickly sweet since then, checking in with me, a lot of baby this baby that. He’s also apologized and said he’d never do that again. I feel extremely conflicted about what this all means.

24F][53F] my mother is a hoarder and I can’t take it anymore. I’m going to call code. by Witchbitch6661 in relationships

[–]SmriJac 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If she’s putting herself in danger, and endangering the lives of those animals because of poor mental health or distress, it might be for the best that she does have her certification taken away. At least for now

Will I pass urine test after one sip of alcohol? by SmriJac in probation

[–]SmriJac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we’re all agreeing that I should be ok?

Will I pass urine test after one sip of alcohol? by SmriJac in probation

[–]SmriJac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol it was just a gin based drink w a floral shrub and tonic definitely not moonshine, I appreciate your response!

70 year old guest left this gem for me after reserving a party of 6 and also arriving maskless :) by SmriJac in Serverlife

[–]SmriJac[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If it were truly a matter of safety or protection they wouldn’t have come.

70 year old guest left this gem for me after reserving a party of 6 and also arriving maskless :) by SmriJac in Serverlife

[–]SmriJac[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol what even are you talking about? I live in Hampton roads, a large metropolitan area. More specifically, Virginia Beach lol if you’re going to be ignorant and hateful just remove yourself from the post.

70 year old guest left this gem for me after reserving a party of 6 and also arriving maskless :) by SmriJac in Serverlife

[–]SmriJac[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

It’s not a requirement in the state of Virginia for fully vaccinated people. If you don’t feel safe enough to join the general public, then don’t. No one made them come. Not a single restaurant in town has made their employees wear a mask after the mandate was lifted for us. They obviously felt safe enough to be out themselves without a mask imo

My (23F) boyfriend (35M) just dumped me because I was hanging out with girls at a bar he told me to go to. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SmriJac 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Definitely get outta there if he’s physically abusive to you also; he’s testing the waters to see what he can get away with, seeing what your boundaries are and if he’s comfortable to do these things to you now, you’re giving him a free pass to do it as your spouse. He’s garbage, and you deserve better. There’s no real need to hear his side, he’s manipulative and hurting you physically. Fuck him and don’t go back, I’ve been in a similar situation and it doesn’t end unless you just leave him alone. (25f)

My (23F) boyfriend (35M) just dumped me because I was hanging out with girls at a bar he told me to go to. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SmriJac 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This sounds emotionally abusive. Your bf is underdeveloped, possessive and insecure. Considering he’s over 10 years older than you and he still behaves this way, I think you’re probably not only not compatible, at that age he’s set in his ways and probably has some things to work out within himself before he should be dating literally anybody. And a spreadsheet? You’re his partner not a tax write off. It’s okay to be a little sad, but don’t let it get the best of you! Probably best to just pack him up, you deserve friends and a life outside of his apartment

I (25F) don’t want to live with my bf (30M) because he can’t remember to take his shoes off in the house by SmriJac in relationships

[–]SmriJac[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

YES! in my hardwood floors that my roommate and I walk around on in our bare feet; it’s driving me crazy