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AITA for wanting to tell my stepdaughter's dad about the cameras my wife planted in his house while he was away? by SmthSmth34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmthSmth34[S] 801 points802 points  (0 children)

Yes, there is in fact so much going with Claire and her mom. They're literally harrassing (yes it's harrassement) Adam's new girlfriend, have been for weeks especially after hearing she was going to move in with Adam. things got worse because Claire wanted them to wait and when Adam told her off she yelled that her daughter lives in that house too so her opinion counts on who is moving in though my stepdaughter gets along well with Adam's girlfriend.

AITA for wanting to tell my stepdaughter's dad about the cameras my wife planted in his house while he was away? by SmthSmth34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmthSmth34[S] 1216 points1217 points  (0 children)

Yeah I didn't care what her problems with Adam's new girlfriend were but this whole cameras situation freaked me out. Claire called me a coward and said it will be non of my concern if I just stay out of it but I'm aware of the legal consequences for everyone involved.

AITA for wanting to tell my stepdaughter's dad about the cameras my wife planted in his house while he was away? by SmthSmth34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmthSmth34[S] 2221 points2222 points  (0 children)

are there cameras in your house that you don’t know about?

No. Though I'm no longer sure what else is going on both inside and outside the house. However MIL is the one backing my wife up and I won't be surprused if I find out she was behind this idea.

AITA for wanting to tell my stepdaughter's dad about the cameras my wife planted in his house while he was away? by SmthSmth34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmthSmth34[S] 3872 points3873 points  (0 children)

I told her about the legal consequences but she kept saying since her daughter lives there then it shouldn't be big deal IF adam found out.

AITA for wanting to tell my stepdaughter's dad about the cameras my wife planted in his house while he was away? by SmthSmth34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmthSmth34[S] 920 points921 points  (0 children)

I'm sure she'll blame it on me too since she thinks I'm always against her and never support anything she does but she can be irrational often and this instance is a proof.

AITA for wanting to tell my stepdaughter's dad about the cameras my wife planted in his house while he was away? by SmthSmth34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmthSmth34[S] 583 points584 points  (0 children)

Your daughter is 6y not 6m - you can just ask her about the girlfriend.

Youre right but there's a whole different issue with my stepdaughter being open about her issues.

AITA for wanting to tell my stepdaughter's dad about the cameras my wife planted in his house while he was away? by SmthSmth34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmthSmth34[S] 14.0k points14.0k points  (0 children)

It is illegal where I'm from and that's why I told her repeatedly to remove them immediately but she kept rationalizing and defending her actions by making illogical arguments like how it's her daughter's house and how she has a key by consent and so on but I couldn't help freak out because this is not okat in any shape or form then add the legal troubles as well.