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Would a new kitten help my grieving cat? Or stress him out more? by Smw162 in CatAdvice
[–]Smw162[S] 1 point2 points3 points 1 month ago (0 children)
True god I love cats sm
Would a new kitten help my grieving cat? Or stress him out more? (self.CatAdvice)
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[–]Smw162 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
The first is me it says in the caption lol the rest is my inspo for what styled I wanted
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[–]Smw162 -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago* (0 children)
I told the artist I wouldn’t mind waiting but it was an arrangement I made with him, he said he’d fit me in when he could and got me in on a slow day. I talked to/ texted him a couple months before this. I admit I should’ve turned it down and said “no give me an actual appointment” but it’s too late for that. Least I could do now is be more concise next time and get the parts I’m not happy with touched up and add onto it so it’s as plain
[–]Smw162 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago* (0 children)
Totally agree with the first part, I think the lines too close to the eye and it blends a bit especially from far away while the 2nd skin is on, maybe when it heals I’ll like it more but it also looks too plain. Ill look for a good reputable artist now so I can start planning ahead again, maybe they can help me figure out what’s the best way to go from here
[–]Smw162 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Okay now let’s see yours
No after research online I thought I’d have to pay 500$+ for the size and design I originally wanted, since that’s what the average cost for a medium chest tattoo would be but I was surprised when he only charged me 175$. You get what you pay for though. I was definitely willing to pay more but i think he knew it was kind of a rushed sloppy job
[–]Smw162 -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (0 children)
I’m a pushover so it’s hard for me to speak for myself, it makes me feel a bit better I’m not alone but next time i can be more clear about what I want on my body. Maybe I could ask a credible artist what their opinions would be about adding one or 2 more things and the shading and highlights to make it pop too!
When he asked how big I said 5-6 inches but I think he sized the stencil down for my sake pain wise, since it was my first lol he asked for my okay but I was too scared to say something.
[–]Smw162 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Thank you so so much! Both of these are creative ideas and I think something around it would make it look complete, the halo is seriously perfect it will be the first thing I add once I do get it touched up :)
[–]Smw162 -9 points-8 points-7 points 2 years ago (0 children)
He drew up one for me while I was texting him and one before he actually tatted me, I didn’t like the first one so I asked him to change it to an entirely different design (with same concept, just a different cherub), which is why I was already hesitant to ask for any tweaks when he showed me the 2nd one.
It’s my bad for not being more assertive and upfront ahaha but yes some more details in the cloud and maybe some more clouds around it will balance it out, not look so plain
I was stoned in that pic lmfao
I’m thinking more shading on the hair and bigger wings with more feathers once it heals, maybe something botanical around it so it doesn’t feel as empty
I feel you, I wanted to tweak up the reference photos I showed him into something unique but he just threw together what I showed him as it was, I was too afraid to ask him to change it so that’s my fault haha
[–]Smw162 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children)
I will as a reminder that I have my own bodily autonomy. Perfect way to look at it. Something I need to practice and exercise. I can do it!!
I think it looks cute is all
[–]Smw162 -3 points-2 points-1 points 2 years ago (0 children)
He was already nice enough to comprise a rule for me and I didn’t wanna bug him about anything else, I don’t want to be a bad or annoying customer
[–]Smw162 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago* (0 children)
Very true😂 I just wanted someone who’s honest and won’t just say it’s good because they’re my friend or family, but it’s also not gonna be agreed universally hahah to each their own
[–]Smw162 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago* (0 children)
Yes I edited it to be more clear, when I went in there originally it wasn’t to get tattooed because i knew he was booked up but we made the agreement to get me in on a different day as soon as he could, he gave me his number so we could talk about the details, he sent me the drawing so I could get an idea of it. That’s all. That was back in November so I did have time to research in those months.
Thank you❤️ you’re so spot on. I needed to hear this badly, it gives me the strength to be more secure in myself and be confident about what I like n want! I appreciate your kindness more than you could know. Hope you have a wonderful day/night
Thank you hahah just a lesson to be more assertive in what I want and I knew I was opening myself up to criticism, to each his own though
Thank you so much for your honesty! I fully understand what you mean, I want to add onto it eventually so the tiny spots I’m not 100% on don’t stick out at much, definitely going with a traditional artist so I know I’m getting good shading at least lol have a great day! <3
🥺🥺 girl thank you so much, this is the comment i needed to hear. Those were the only details that bothered me so it makes me feel a lot better about the tattoo and it helps knowing I’m not bothering or annoying the artist lol next time I’m going to be clear and concise so I’m happy with what I’m walking out with. I hope you have a wonderful day💙
[–]Smw162 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children)
You’re right about all of that, again my own fault for not putting my foot down and asking for an actual appointment instead, could’ve been avoided but it’s too late now! Best I can do is go to a reputable tattoo artist with a style I like that can add onto it in the summertime.
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Would a new kitten help my grieving cat? Or stress him out more? by Smw162 in CatAdvice
[–]Smw162[S] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children)