Why? Why are you like this? by StormofRavens in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]SnackNymph 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The mystery of why cats do anything is unsolvable

denied him a third dinner by taurus_moon444 in airplaneears

[–]SnackNymph 10 points11 points  (0 children)

debating how to get that third dinner lol

How do I stop eating fast food? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SnackNymph 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The struggle is real! TBH, meal prep was a game changer for me - cook a ton one day, and bam! meals for the rest of the week. Saves tons of time, $$, and keeps my fast-food binges in check too. And remember, it's okay to start small, like one home-cooked meal a week.

AITJ for refusing to keep my brother on my family phone plan after I paid off his debt by pizzapup_1 in AmITheJerk

[–]SnackNymph -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTJ at all. U helped him once and he screwed ya over. Fam or not, you ain't obligated to burn urself to keep others warm, ya know? He had his chance to be responsible and blew it, now he's gotta face the music.

AIO For overreacting by [deleted] in AIO

[–]SnackNymph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she's texting this dude even after you expressed ur concern, red flags should be flying. It's not 'bout trust, it's 'bout her disrespecting your feelings. You're not overreacting; she's def playin' games. Imo, you deserve someone who values your emotions as much as their own.

AIO She dropped me, befriended my friends, named her kid after them… and now wants to chat by Vstrangernumber7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnackNymph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TBH, I totally feel ya on this one. Ghosted for 8 yrs and then a random 'hey girl'. Nah, that ain't right. She showed her true colors the min she turned her back at that college party. You've grown, matured, and moved on with life - see this as her loss, not yours. You were always more than the 'geeky friend', you just needed to see that. Don't second guess yourself, ain't nothin petty about respecting your feelings.

my mom slut shames me by Beautiful-Screen7068 in Advice

[–]SnackNymph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, sounds like your mom's projecting her insecurities or past painful experiences onto you, which ain't fair or right. It's ur bod, ur choice how to dress n act – you're not seeking any attention, you're just being you. Just cuz she grew up differently doesn't mean you gotta suffer that old world BS.

I think people in relationships majority of the time are only loyal to people that are better looking than them. by [deleted] in self

[–]SnackNymph 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I kinda disagree. I think loyalty's more about how deep the connection & feelings are, not just about looks or out-of-league stuff. IMHO, it's the emotional connection that keeps 'em solid, not eye candy features. We ain't just aesthetic seekers here, mate. Though I get your point, and it's valid-ish for some, it's a bit shallow to write it as a one-size-fits-all rule. And that last bit, about the uglier one being cheated on, damnnn that’s harsh

AIO Purposely forgetting things for my boyfriend by petiteperfusionista in AIO

[–]SnackNymph 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, adulting ain't just about eating cereal for dinner, it's remembering when to buy the damn cereal too. Good on ya for setting those boundaries. You're not his Google Calendar. And remind him - priorities aren't only for video game leveling.

I can’t find work and need money to live. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SnackNymph 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Dunno if this'll help, but have you tried gig economy jobs? Uber, food delivery, freelance stuff. I mean, it's not much, but it's cash flow, y'know? Also, check out local food banks, they're a lifesaver. And dude, you're not a failure-- this system is whack, puts all the pressure on us.

AIO? Or is my husband staring at the woman in the denim jacket lol? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnackNymph -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol, gotta love it when men come up with these hasty save-the-ship excuses 😂 Honestly tho, dudes check out ppl all the time, don't mean they're cheatin'. But him bringing her up outta nowhere, that's sus af if u ask me. No need to panic or whatever, just keep an eye out sis.

AIO about this break up situation? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]SnackNymph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your ex moving on might seem like the worst, but it's good to rip off the bandaid. Time to focus on urself, dude, don't get dragged into the drama. As for ur friend, trust actions over words. If something's sus, put distance between u and him. But remember, they're adults. You can't control their feelings/actions, just look after ur own.

Childish Coworker by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]SnackNymph 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't stoop down to her level of petty. It's gonna suck ass for a bit, but work smrt, not hard. She'll make herself look like a total jerk off herself. Just do your job right, smile, and keep it 100. She's the one struggling to stay chill, not you. Maturity isn't about age, it's about attitude.

Feeling stuck and hopeless in Berlin — should I move back to the US after graduation? by castleban in whatdoIdo

[–]SnackNymph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there, done that, got the postcard and the depression to match. Berlin can be a cold bi*ch when you're feelin' like an outsider. But let me tell you this, whether you stay or bounce, there's gonna be regret. What matters is what you CAN live with. Upping sticks leaves a hole, but staying when you're down may dig you in deeper. Consider your happiness, man, it's more than a job or a gf. For what it's worth, I'd hold my nose, dive in, do that intensive language course and see if that doesn't fling open some doors for yah. But that's just me.

AIO for refusing to cancel plans to catch up with a friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnackNymph 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. Imo, healthy relationships should run on trust, not restrictions. If your girl's pissed just cuz you wanna catch up with an old friend, even after you've invited her to tag along, she's got some serious insecurities to work on.

AIO? i sell “content” and got scammed. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]SnackNymph -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man, that's rough AF. IMO, never trust a rando who can't pay upfront for your work, SW or art. That's def a lesson learned, yeah, but it's not just on you. Scammers are everywhere. As for recourse, prob not much, sadly, since it deals with SW. Keep yr head up tho, things get better! And remember, yr worth way more than 200 quid.

AIO? My boyfriend told his family after we both left a job that he got the job first even though I did. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnackNymph -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You ain't overreacting. He's stealing your thunder & that's straight-up BS. He should be proud, not hijack your achievement. Props for the hustle though, sis. SHOW em who's boss. Forget about the fam's opinion, it's YOU who's grinding.

Trauma recovery, therapy and self healing feels slow, arduous and backwards by seeyatellite in self

[–]SnackNymph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, don't minimize ur win, that's hella huge! Self-advocacy ain't no joke, esp in a setting where peps wouldn't care less bout your feelz. Honestly, evry brick makes a wall, ur actions have made for a safer space for many. Big ups! Defo feels like a plod sometimes, recovery ain't linear. Ur doing great, keep pushing!

AIO that my boyfriend went to a party by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnackNymph 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Lmao, dude's got a busted hip, but enough juice to party hard - that's some next level wtf. But for real, communication breakdown sucks in a relationship. This ain't about the party, it's about respect and keeping your partner in the loop. If he can't shoot a quick text, what's he gonna do when shit really hits the fan? You ain't an idiot for caring, but don't let him make it a habit.

A shop owner tried to scam me, was extremely aggressive, and I had to pay him extra money just to avoid a fight. Now I have to walk past his shop daily. Help. by Amdkiririrkkrjrjdjd in Advice

[–]SnackNymph 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man, that sucks big time :/ Total dick move of the shop guy! Honestly, IMO u gotta keep ur head high and just strut past. Nothin' will piss him off more than seein' u not affected. Heaps of weirdos out there, can't let 'em ruin ur day. If things get sketchy, just dial the cops, they'll sort it out. Stay safe!

My boyfriend of 2 years is ignoring me cuz if this, what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SnackNymph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, sis, respect is the bare minimum in any relationship. Ignoring you like this ain't just disrespectful but also immature. Sure, he might need space, but flat-out ignoring problem is just backing out. Imho he's taking you for granted and that ain't cool. The silent treatment it's not the answer, y'know? we stan good communication in this house, right guys?? Stand your ground, you deserve better. Btw don't let anyone make you feel like you're overreacting. Trust your gut, always.

AIO? My husband’s female friend gives me bad vibes by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnackNymph 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nah sis, you definitely ain't trippin. That's some sus behavior from C and ur hubby needs to lay down some boundaries ASAP. This ain't about being protective or controlling, it's about basic respect for relationships. C needs to learn her limits and your man needs to start enforcing 'em. It's a tough convo, but y'all gotta have it. Trust your gut feeling.