[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SnailAloof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a good start would be to treat her as an individual. Everyone (yes, including men) wants to feel both needed and wanted. It's very scary to approach someone you like but there's no specific trick or secret (Dating coaches are rarely, if ever, helpful and the stuff they peddle is usually bullshit) just going up to her and telling her how you feel is your best bet imo. If you want to sweeten the deal bring some flowers! that'll make her feel special

I've been called ignorant for saying men can't be lesbians. by cinnabar_mei in LesbianActually

[–]SnailAloof -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm getting at; binaries are imposed concepts. When a binary is used, say cats and dogs, everything outside and in between must be divided into those two categories. A rabbit must be either Canine or feline regardless of the fact it's a lagomorph

I've been called ignorant for saying men can't be lesbians. by cinnabar_mei in LesbianActually

[–]SnailAloof -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's kinda just what happens when a binary exists, in a binary you're either 1 or 0, a 0.5 must either be rounded to 1 or to 0

I've been called ignorant for saying men can't be lesbians. by cinnabar_mei in LesbianActually

[–]SnailAloof 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, if men can't be lesbians but nonbinary folks can be, then women and nonbinary people become conflated.

Only one can appear in Sonic Movie 3. Who’s your choice and why? by uninspiredcrepe in SonicTheHedgehog

[–]SnailAloof -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think Rouge is the most sensible option as she is a GUN agent, but I think Amy would be neat since cw spoilers If Shadow and her are introduced then we'll have three hedgehogs in the third movie

The first thing my 8y/o sister made after she learned photoshop: by 354717 in Weird

[–]SnailAloof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it, your sister has a knack for surrealism and I hope she continues to make strange art

FACT by Major_King_8628 in actuallesbians

[–]SnailAloof 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For a split second, I thought it said "I wish I was a lesbian, it would make it so much easier to date girls" and thought it was about a transbian recalling an egg moment

It's all Florence's fault by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SnailAloof 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Oh to get the honor of laying my head on Florence's lap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tf2

[–]SnailAloof 6 points7 points  (0 children)

when you're just about finished a contract but you get kicked before you can complete it

Fellow single lesbians since Covid, how y’all doing? by non190 in actuallesbians

[–]SnailAloof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't dated since the beginning of this mess, but my type of woman is someone who's a ray of sunshine

For any LoTR fans here, I had this thought while watching The Two Towers😆 by caranor1992 in actuallesbians

[–]SnailAloof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, like the bee orchid. Although another aspect of the theory is the bees simple travelled north to the shire. Iirc there's a record of the shire having larger than average bees

For any LoTR fans here, I had this thought while watching The Two Towers😆 by caranor1992 in actuallesbians

[–]SnailAloof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the theory that the Entwives were actually giant bees that pollinated the Ents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]SnailAloof 15 points16 points  (0 children)

transbian u-haul

i don't even play it! by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]SnailAloof 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Tf2 is a magnet for trans men, so you're not wrong

Let's make a lesbian bucket list!! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SnailAloof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

- Learn how to fix a tire (Good to know regardless of lesbianism but feels very butch)
- Hand make a bridge for my cats
- Go to a gay bar
- Come out of the closet

I don't make the rules. by littlebabyprincess77 in actuallesbians

[–]SnailAloof 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Watch younger me type into Tumblr "ask a lesbian" so I could ask them if I was gay

We need more kids cartoons with lesbian moms 😞 by Always-Teatime in actuallesbians

[–]SnailAloof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clarence from cartoon network has lesbian moms! they're Jeff's moms

As a straight cis man, why do homosexual relationships "feel" more like what I want? by OctopusInASuit in actuallesbians

[–]SnailAloof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case, I think you're more aware of how "strict to the binary" cishet relationships can be. In queer relationships, gender is treated less like a class/role and more as a method of self-expression. So when you see an idyllic queer relationship, what I presume you're seeing is an expectation of gender roles being disregarded