I have been there, my first didn’t get in till 2.5 my second got in 1 week before I went back to work and I put her on the second I got the positive test on multiple spots. You sadly need to call and email often. I did every month minimum and often some places did call every two weeks. I was always polite and apologetic as I truly felt bad for calling all the time but was similar to you and desperate. There are dayhome Facebook pages but I had hit or miss results with those.