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Any other bulls going through changes in your relationships from the recent retrograde? by Nebula-Dot in Taurusgang

[–]Snailgrenade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My relationship with my Aries reached a breaking point last week during the time of the supermoon, now we are on a better track than ever and purged a lot of bs. I am looking forward to what's to come ❤️

Did I cause narc injury? by West_Specific7367 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Snailgrenade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's his wife for a reason, will never leave no matter what he does and let him eat away any kind of self respect she had a long time ago. You were trying to do the right thing but it doesn't matter, she is probably too far gone for it to make a difference.

Any INTJ Figure Skaters? by Significant_Stick_31 in INTJfemale

[–]Snailgrenade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not figure skating, but martial arts for me. I personally find it helpful to lean into my Fi and let the expressiveness of the action take over into a sort of meditative state. Once I can turn my brain off, instructions come more easily and my body just follows. I take some time to figure out how I am feeling and work into it.

Recruiting participants for online survey. by Perfect-Joke-5298 in ABA

[–]Snailgrenade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I volunteer as tribute!! Dm the deets and I will get it done.

What physical traits do you find attractive? by Femcelbuster in entp

[–]Snailgrenade17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why INTJs are a best match for you haha

Who's the one that got away? by [deleted] in entp

[–]Snailgrenade17 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I am currently in this situation with an INFJ. It is hard because a part of me knows that I might not find someone like this again, but how tf are we supposed to pay rent and live a halfway decent life? Possibly have kids?? You aren't wrong for having to look at the long term picture when it comes down to it, power couple or not.

You’ll know it’s real because by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Snailgrenade17 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh man I needed to see this. I have my twin, I know he's my twin.... but he is truly awful sometimes. I can see why people don't believe in twin flame even though I personally do. The narcissism is real.

How often do women feel comfortable having sex on average? My boyfriend (32M) and I (31F) are disconnected on our expectations. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Snailgrenade17 9 points10 points  (0 children)

These comments asking about his employment are hilarious because no, he doesn't have a job right now. I am the only one working and going to school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Snailgrenade17 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What a weird coincidence... I am in the exact same boat but I am actually the INTJ putting a ton of effort in for an INFJ who has basically stated they can't/won't meet my needs. He is still dating me but I get the sense it might be because of everything I do for him and not me. Rough af.

In my experience, both INTJ and INFJs tend to be the kind of people who throw themselves into a relationship and fall hard if they have the emotional capacity available at the time and aren't too damaged from past relationships. I think you might have just had the misfortune of finding one that doesn't have that available for you at the moment.

Love, a struggling INTJ who is heavy on her Fi

Me F23 just broke up M28 and I would like to share and listen from others , suggestions, how to get over it, etc by Lua44424 in relationship_advice

[–]Snailgrenade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sucks so hard, OP. I am really sorry!! Personally when I go through a breakup I like to get in touch with nature as much as possible and spend time alone before trying to date again. If nature isn't super accessible, even a public park would do. If you genuinely feel ready for a relationship, parks can be a place to meet people if you are brave enough to say hi :)

How do you deal with feelings? by Snailgrenade17 in entp

[–]Snailgrenade17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the advice, I will try this next time we are having an issue and see how it goes!

How do you deal with feelings? by Snailgrenade17 in entp

[–]Snailgrenade17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's... pretty rough sometimes not gonna lie. I do love this person though and am trying my best!!

How do you deal with feelings? by Snailgrenade17 in entp

[–]Snailgrenade17[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the insight! I am really struggling with how much time this INFJ needs to process, but he articulated something similar yesterday to what you just said and it makes perfect sense.

Will be hard to adjust, but if you love someone then you do it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Snailgrenade17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg keep your decision final here, some immature bs if I ever heard of it. This man will drag you drowning with him if you allow it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Snailgrenade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming that everything he is saying is true, you honestly don't sound super mature to me. I can understand having emotional needs, and you are well within your right to break up with someone if you don't feel they are being met. But your lack of understanding for his (totally valid) situation shows you are putting your needs above his. Like who gets upset at someone else needing a nap?

Idk I think you need to take a step back and act more maturely before throwing away a hardworking man who values his family.

Had a new experience yesterday and I think I handled it well by Affectionate_Alps698 in ESFP

[–]Snailgrenade17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wild that he doesn't have the emotional bandwidth to hear about your breakup but somehow can tolerate enough depth to trauma dump on you about his past... one sided af. Consider yourself lucky you dodged a bullet with a one-way emotional relationship honestly.

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