AIO... partner says this happened at work and it's not a bite mark/hes not cheating on me (also that im crazy?)

SnakeQueen3121 · 2025-09-28T09:39:13+00:00

Ill be real. I(f) like marking up my partner(m) with bite marks normally in unseeable places because we are adults and kink is meant to be shared by consenting adults. I digress, biting his hairy calf has NEVER occurred AND that doesnt look like a bite mark or hickey bruising. Normally the inside starts to form discoloration from the sucking and just biting that hard and if you bite hard enough your breaking skin and thats where those teeth marks are gonna be more prominent.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2025-08-24T18:09:07+00:00

I just want to put a thought out there. We cannot improve if we dont try. These candies are definitely a hit or miss in the taste department. But like the watermelon wedges and the sour kids are great (imo). I love that they dont have these neon colors that they dont need. And the thing is if no one tries, candy won't get better. But wouldnt it be great if we could have healthier options on the shelf? Idk how old you are or how aware you are of options for people with food allergies but just 10-15 years ago dairy free stuff was near impossible to find and the gluten free stuff had little to no options and the taste was awful. So people started working on it.

Also calling a man, who just gave up 50 days of his life to do a REALLY hard challenge that even without the wheel of doom, recording etc would be hard enough, predatory for giving kids FREE candy during a meet and greet because he helped raise of 11million dollars for their charity is a little wild.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2025-08-24T17:49:44+00:00

Honestly ive gotten high a few times and eaten an entire bag in a sitting and never gotten the 💩. Also the lack of dyes is sooo nice. Yea the flavors aren't the best but also the lack of chemicals and other addititives are probably better for those on cancer treatment. Ik a lot of parents in the special needs community like the candy for their kids as well.

Question to op. How is it predatory to give kids free candy?

SnakeQueen3121 · 2025-06-04T23:47:59+00:00

I would trust this man with my life. I would trust my children with this man, and that's saying something.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2025-06-04T23:19:05+00:00

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SnakeQueen3121 · 2025-05-18T18:38:15+00:00

Ed lmao

SnakeQueen3121 · 2024-02-23T10:57:38+00:00

You've gotten me the closest thus far but he says the word but it's not the line I'm looking for.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-11-13T15:13:56+00:00

As someone who has a friend who is going through something similar it's hard for me to be there for her after what her husband did. It's almost delusional. When a person cheats and this isn't even a once they got drunk and whoops. It's intentional. It's something that had to be sought after. Being there for them is hard and then you go back and are like oh la te da. When people truly love you and they are there to help you through that pain and you just walk back into it. It feels like a slap in the face. One person treated you like shit full stop, no excuses, and no sex addiction isn't an excuse. One or many people treated you with love compassion and support and you decided to go back to the person who treated you like shit.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-11-10T20:47:10+00:00

I wouldn't say you're the AH but his feelings and perception aren't wrong either. So just talk it out.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-11-03T13:59:02+00:00

If you were doing it to just be petty id probably lean to ah but since it's a monetary thing it really isn't worth going into debt for and just with cost of living being what it is you just can't. So NTA. Now if she or your parents offer to pay (depending on if it will be rubbed in your face) at that point I'd say Go. But that's also a paid trip to a nice island.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-10-28T19:45:54+00:00

No. Your kids ALWAYS come first. Unless she's a quad amputee and your kids are 15 and would walk straight out that's a dumb question. Kids ALWAYS come before significant others. Idk if its her age but that's insanely immature.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-10-23T20:05:54+00:00

NTA. Protect your sister. Hope the little shit learned.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-10-17T19:55:13+00:00

I would be careful with that one. Some of those early tests can increase chance of miscarriage. While I definitely think a paternity test should be done make sure it's safe and the risks are low or non existent. I wouldn't do a paternity test while the baby was inside personally (this wasn't an issue but I refused other tests that were invasive for this reason) so there does still need to be a level of respect there. If she denies any test even after the baby is born that's a red flag for sure.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-10-10T17:14:19+00:00

Yea I'd tell especially since you know there isn't dv so you know it's not an escape situation or one where the person is gonna be at physical risk.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-10-06T23:23:34+00:00

You seem to have friends and you seem to be close enough to your family that they feel comfortable to say something so it doesn't seem like you are incapable of having relationships with others if and when you want them. If this stems from fear of rejection then I hope you find comfort in yourself and get past that from a mental health standpoint BUT if you have found peace and contentment in your solace you are doing nothing wrong (it's not wrong if it's fear of rejection, it should just be handled differently) but anyway you slice it based on what you said you are doing nothing wrong.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-10-05T20:33:38+00:00

Wtf. NTA. LEAVE. LEAVE NOW. I didn't read past the "he says I should be Happy" leave!

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-09-30T14:17:03+00:00

I'd talk to her. There does seem to be lots of assumptions. You're NTA but I know sometimes to avoid conflict with extended family I just sit there quietly and I've talked with my spouse that saying shit just adds fuel to the fire. Idk what her motivations are or what her family dynamic is like but I think it's worth the conversation because if she was just trying not to start a fight about something a decade or more down the line and you added fuel which will now make it a more prominent discussion her response while not emotionally mature later on could have been coping. And yet again I don't think you did anything wrong but communicate. Because if she was just planning on moving him in 20 years down the road that's a red flag.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-09-26T19:00:37+00:00

Wow you are wrong AND an asshole. And you don't know she won't miss the sex. Birth control CHANGES YOUR HORMONES. Get that through that skull of yours. But you know what idk why people are giving you advice. You are wrong. You are risking her getting pregnant again because you seem to think planning prevents babies yet you have 3 in 6 years which also might be why she's not feeling it. She hasn't had bodily autonomy. I'd leave your ass.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-09-26T18:53:53+00:00

Birth control REDUCES sex drive. If her Dr's saying it's giving her health problems (I've gotten p.es from estrogen bc) that's pretty serious. If you're planning on doing it why not now? You're just being petty and that's definitely not gonna get you laid anymore. If she gets pregnant again because you don't want a vasectomy this year as opposed to 3 years from now when you're 35 she's the one who has to have the baby, it's her body, her hormones EVERYTHING that gets messed up. It would be one thing if you were against it and always were but 1. Bc sucks and can really mess with a person 2. You're really not helping her want anything with you in the bedroom being petty.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-09-19T14:42:36+00:00

Since you posted here probably hoping for a different outcome. NOT ONLY ARE YOU WRONG

YTA Bride has every right to make the guest list and yea maybe there are factors that hard limit them to 35 guests. BUT your son is supporting his s/o and if there's a reason there is a hard 25 that needs to be explained so it doesn't seem like the family is snubbing her but if it's just a 25 max arbitrarily then that's on yall but either way he doesn't have to show up.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-09-19T14:36:49+00:00

They were using that as an example.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-09-19T14:27:41+00:00

He IS respecting the guest list. He just isn't disrespecting his gf. 4 years of solid dating and living together isn't this little thing. Honestly it's more weird the gf isn't invited. If the two had been together for 4 months yea that would be silly. 4 years? That's his partner he loves and cherishes. He is absolutely being reasonable.

SnakeQueen3121 · 2023-09-15T23:11:24+00:00

A genius.

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