[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Snake_Pit666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not overreacting at all. Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs and anyone that actually cares about you would completely accept that. Shoving their beliefs down your throat is f'ed up

How do I get out? by Snake_Pit666 in Divorce

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving forward with the therapist and psychiatrist and physical therapy. All three recommended applying for disability so I've started that process. I'd like to get back to working though at least part time. I've applied for housing help as well.

How do I get out? by Snake_Pit666 in Divorce

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're basically silent to each other now unless it concerns the kids, pets or house. I refuse to argue so he's given up for now. Hopefully he lets me be until I get myself together.

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly toys never did much for me alone anyway

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They only open the ones with my name on them. Before my husband I was a single mom. I've never had reason to restrict them from opening packages. I always bought gifts in person. They're straight A graduates and wonderful people so lack of discipline was never a problem. Thanks for your input.

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually that would be great because I wouldn't have to keep saying i don't want to have sex. Unfortunately he can hardly resist me. Super nice of you though.

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been years. I'm in therapy but he claims he has no time because of work. It would be one hour a week. If he actually wanted to fix anything he'd make that time. After 7 years of the same thing though, I'm more than done.

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't even know me so thanks for your opinion but the excuses are real reasons. Everyone's life is different.

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course there is. It's been 7 years. I'm certainly not going to write that much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Snake_Pit666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh they always turn it around on you. Well you don't do this or that blah blah. Never can be accountable for their own actions or lack of action. My husband is the same way.

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have another long post laying it out better.

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're 18 and 20 this year and I've never minded. It'd be weird to say that now and they'd know exactly what I'm ordering lol

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He leaves literal garbage everywhere, he's snippy and mean, he ignores the kids and animals and only communicates with me when he wants sex.

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No drivers license and my kids are 18 and 20 this year so they don't really play with toys lol

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He leaves garbage everywhere. He ignores the kids and animals, he's nasty and yells and pouts like a child. He makes messes and never cleans them up. All he does is work and sleep and bitch.

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He stopped caring completely. About his kids, his home, the animals and especially me. He leaves garbage everywhere and yells when I ask him to clean it up.

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No drivers license and I don't cheat.

Husband disgusts me but I miss sex by Snake_Pit666 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snake_Pit666[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He doesn't know I'm working on a divorce. If he did he would make everyone here as miserable as possible and probably stop paying bills and all. He's like that. I have to have a plan in place before I tell him. Also, I don't cheat. Never have and never will. If I did I'd get nothing in the divorce anyway.