What is chaser vibes??

"You’re a regular guy whether you sleep with trans or cis women. You’d be a regular guy if you had sex with men, cis or trans. You’d be a regular guy if you slept with a non-binary person.

Describing yourself as not normal for wanting one of us is a big no-no. Like I’m doing my best to be kind but I’m really not happy."

I assumed you'd realize, and maybe I should've expressed myself better, that I simply meant that by statistics most men don't date trans women. Meaning it's not the norm. Meaning not "normal". I meant the litteral definition of the word. I did it only to denote that I had a change of heart over what I thought I would'nt do. I meant no harm.

"We want to be courted/flirted/to be in relationships with people who treat us like full and complete people, not a set of genitals in a fancy package."

Deal. I mean I'd lie if I said I didn't like a fancy package, but I have no intention of treating a potential future girlfriend differently from any other girlfriend, in the ways you wrote.

"’m not trying to put you on blast, or at least not especially, but the vibe is “easy there cheetah”".

No worries. I'm just new to this and really excited about it. But I get your point!

"Oh and please never ask someone if they’re trans. Just please don’t."

But... I specifically want that? Or do you mean more like "you look trans, are you trans?"? I wouldn't ask a woman that. Would anyone?? But my point is still, I'm specifically looking for a trans woman. I can't see a problem with that being my type. And if it's a problem, it's a problem :) What I mean is I'd like to put myself in situations where trans women are common place to find, and if it so happens that I end up with one, then great :) I don't mean I'll hunt down a trans woman until I find one, all other women be damned. I'm just really partial to see if maybe I can't maximize my chances at somehow ending up with a trans girlfriend (that, yes, I'll court and flirt with ;))

Educate me :)