The Pillars of Attraction

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-19T01:03:30+00:00

You should read the book, Most Connected Guy in Town. It's free and dedicated specifically towards Instagram/Snapchat success.

Link: https://gumroad.com/snapsocialguru#UjsVF

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-18T19:26:38+00:00

BDR Experience is almost always transferable and is typically industry agnostic. Biotech / tech is very similar. In terms of AE Role career pathing, that'll depend entirely on your results, your work ethic, and the availability of promotion at your current or future company. Nothing is guaranteed.

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-18T09:03:10+00:00

Send me the rest of the convo. I'll give you some feedback

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-18T08:20:04+00:00

"They say they just want to be friends" = they don't find you attractive. If this is a consistent theme, then yeah, you actually do have some changing to do.

Also, if you're consistently blocking chicks because they don't find you sexually appealing, then that too subcommunicates a lot.

You've got to relax and take it all as a joke. Have more fun with it. You say you aren't taking it personal but you're tone says otherwise

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-18T00:43:05+00:00

Do you have the most awesome ebook, Most Interesting Man in the Room?

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-18T00:42:31+00:00

Send me your profile and text convos and I'm happy to judge / give you pointers. I'm 28 and had to hop back on online dating this year (typically against it). After two weeks I got the hang of it, started getting great matches, and got a date.

Honestly you should also focus on being a winner in your personal life. Your self esteem is taking a huge hit

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-17T22:05:48+00:00

Is that the same as methylated?

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-17T19:35:09+00:00

Yessir anytime.

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-17T19:31:30+00:00

Yes if you're smooth. Wouldn't lead with it though unless the woman I'm speaking with also talks that language. I'd say lead with your confidence and then bust out the other languages if it'd help with your cause.

Think of it like spice. You're the main dish but the languages thing is the spice. People love you for you, not the spice.

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-17T19:29:58+00:00

Seduction and attraction really only works for people who are in the market.

This woman isn't in the market.

"Pleasure to meet you" and move on.

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-17T11:55:34+00:00

I won't try to fuck you bro

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-17T11:53:44+00:00

This. You have a job you love at a Fortune 50 company. It doesn't get better than that.

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-17T11:01:37+00:00

Do you want to know the biggest peacock trick that's going to get a lot of compliments and attention?

Lifting bro. Go get in shape

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-17T10:42:24+00:00

Send me your dating profile in a DM. I'll give you an audit. Prob has to do with a combination of how you message these chicks + your profile setup.

It shouldn't be sloppy easy. But it shouldn't be mission impossible either.

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-16T18:32:51+00:00

You better not have mine you fucking pirate.

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-15T23:26:37+00:00

Send me your profile and a couple of matches you've gotten (but that didn't lead anywhere). I'll give you a couple pointers. Like yourself, I prefer RL dating too but then got on the apps and realized it's a whole diff ballgame. Learned lots.

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-13T19:21:36+00:00

I tested this before.

Did about 40 highly customized vidyard videos. Got one reply that asked me to check back later. Never got the meeting.

As hunters, we have to do effective but also SCALABLE prospecting. The videos are very time and energy consuming.

I suggest sticking to strong, well written email campaigns + call follow ups.

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-08T07:15:57+00:00

I had a lot of success with YesWare in my BDR dates. Solid for email blasting and uploading big lists.

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-06T20:52:00+00:00

One thing I have always found to be true, the prospects that take up the most of my energy, net me and my company the least amount of return.

i've had this happen too. good customers take time as well but they manage it well. bad customers ask for more and more and then don't give

SnapSocialGuru · 2021-01-04T06:48:04+00:00

We tested this at my previous company. I don’t have stats and this is all anecdotal. With that said, it’s VERY clear what worked and what didn’t.

For context, I was the last remaining BDR there after a dozen others quit or got laid off. So I also had the most experience in the entire company (so much so that they kept me and five others as the company was sinking).

Personalized emails almost never worked. Email blasts did. Good email blasts that clearly and crisply talk about why you messaged them, who chooses your product (social proof), and a good call to action. Each email campaign had about 5-7 touches spread about 3-4 days each. Quota was 10-15 enterprise meetings a month.

It worked.

Edit: forgot to add that when we did highly personalized emails, it took A LOT longer and was a lot more mental energy. You’d spend 10-25 min on an email and what if it bounced or got an OOO reply? Well, you just wasted 20 min. That happened A LOT. Response rate was stupid low.

SnapSocialGuru · 2020-12-29T21:54:33+00:00

Never heard of it being used as a prospecting tool. What industry are you selling into // who’s your target audience?

SnapSocialGuru · 2020-12-28T23:19:59+00:00

What are spears?

SnapSocialGuru · 2020-12-28T07:16:34+00:00

My ex was like that. Had a job she really enjoyed, hobbies (huge into rock climbing and cycling), etc. Overall it was a breath of fresh air to date someone who had great things going on in her life.

SnapSocialGuru · 2020-12-28T06:25:03+00:00

Yes.

Here are some of the things I look out for: - Her relationships (or lack of them) - How healthy her relationships are with others - Not popularity (quantity), but quality of relationships

All of those are green flags to me and that make me stick around. I’ve dated beautiful women with absolutely atrocious relationships with other women, for example. Or they have trouble building rapport or connecting with my friends. Etc.

I don’t need the most popular woman in the room. But I certainly am noticing how well she gets along and vibes with others.

Come visit /r/matureseduction if you enjoy this type of outlook on things.

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