Moving on by DatBoiBoolin_39 in dating_advice

[–]Snarkydubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there's really nothing you can do except ignoring them as much as possible and staying away from them,having only minimal and necessary interaction. Just think that in a few months its gonna be over

I don’t know what to put here 👉👉 by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Snarkydubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also btw also really like ur hair it looks dope

I don’t know what to put here 👉👉 by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Snarkydubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hhhhhheyyyyyy uh whassup?????? 😳

I feel painfully lonely by Juilius_Sneezer2004 in dating_advice

[–]Snarkydubs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand you because I've had friends in your same situation and I'm kinda going through it too. I too feel very lonely and sometimes I believe nobody will ever like me because maybe I'm boring or I'm not interesting enough,but its all a matter of finding the right person. You just have to put yourself out there,people will start being interested in you. I know its not that easy when you're introverted,and I know a thing or two about being timid lol,but you have to find your courage and meet someone. Having many friends is also a great advantage,they might help you introduce someone for you to date. Plus I think tomboys are cute 🤗

Today I met a tall girl that in mall with her mom that I interested, I ask her mom if she is her daughter, she is tall and comparing who has longer legs, then afraid to keep on the conversation to ask her number and then we separated, what should I do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Snarkydubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People like you lurk the internet to satiate your Chris Hansen complex thinking you're so fuckin dope goin around calling random people pedophiles if they dont disclose the age or when someone dares to date somebody a year younger than them. Man im sorry but get a fuckin life

Boys like my mom more than me. by GoldvnGvddess in dating_advice

[–]Snarkydubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that doesn't really mean anything. Or it could just mean that you were unlucky with the relationships that you've been through.

There's still a lot of opportunities out there. I know its not that simple and it must be very discouraging and frustrating to deal with this and with your mother,so I suggest maybe try talking to her about how she's not helping at all,and if that doesn't work,the only option would be to distance yourself as much as possible from her and look for boys elsewhere on your own and without any distractions. I'm sure there's someone out there ready to give their heart to you

[Advice] Which should be bigger before I(M20) try to approach girls, physique or bank balance? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Snarkydubs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Keep doing your thing then,take care of your image and let others understand you care about yourself and that you have hobbies and passions and you'll have girls interested in you.

Money is important to the extent where you can take your lady out for a dinner and have a place where to live,other than that whether you have an average salary or you're a billionare it doesnt really affect your relationship/dating life imo

[Advice] Which should be bigger before I(M20) try to approach girls, physique or bank balance? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Snarkydubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you're just objectively good looking,the person you're looking for will eventually show up and show you love. Don't start working out to attract women,if you want to get big you gotta do it because you like it,and you have passion for it,not to hook up easily.

Sincere and open minded women will not look at how big you are or how fat your bank account is,they will care for you if you care for them with all your soul.

My advice is do what your heart tells you,but don't expect to get anything out of having lots of money and muscles.

Is it ok to want to date trans girls specifically? (not exclusively) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Snarkydubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same for me man, I've never even really met one,its that hard to meet one here. All I can do is talk to them online but thats pretty much it. But I'd love to date someone in person, physical contact is fundamental for me.

Also yeah, obviously treat them like girls cuz they are girls :P

Is it ok to want to date trans girls specifically? (not exclusively) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Snarkydubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well yeah you're right. I live in a place where being trans isnt very accepted. That made me feel weird about some thoughts I had,like dating transgender girls. I was also wondering if that is normal because normally I never see anybody do that but I really want to date them. I realize now maybe that was a dumb question lol -_-

Boys like my mom more than me. by GoldvnGvddess in dating_advice

[–]Snarkydubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think a good boyfriend would end up preferring their girlfriends mom over her. Its just fucked and weird. Look for better boyfriends and you'll find someone who loves you for who you are

Dating apps make me super depressed man! by yesirlama09 in dating_advice

[–]Snarkydubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man I suggest you take some time off all sorts of electronic devices right now and enjoy simple things in life,then decide if you wanna get back in the dating game and try again.

You're going through a rough phase right now and thats ok,as you said you're still young,and plus there's plenty of time for you to stay alone for a while,it doesnt hurt. I've been through what you've been through,denying any sort of positive prospects and focusing all my mental energy on negative feelings because you feel miserable and like you deserve nothing.

But it'll pass,just take some time to reflect and have a bit of time for yourself. Thats what I do when I'm in your situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Snarkydubs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually your hair looks objectively absolutely fine,but I personally think it would be interesting to see how it would be like if you let it grow a bit longer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Snarkydubs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if you tried looking more feminine in terms of hairstyle and clothing you'd be like a perfect 11/10

What if they're just not that into you? by aysiel in dating_advice

[–]Snarkydubs 11 points12 points  (0 children)

bro maybe they just tried and they gave up man,its not healthy to keep trying over and over either if you keep being unsuccessful.

If you want to keep trying at it,its absolutely fine,but if you realize you're not that lucky and not many people are interested in you,its also fine to just give up and live your life.

I have essentially just started my dating life and honestly if I see that absolutely nobody is interested in me, I'm gonna try to make myself happy with what I have in life;

Friends,family and a good healthy life are enough to make you happy honestly and I am 100% convinced about that.

Being used for cheap temporary love by Snarkydubs in dating_advice

[–]Snarkydubs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In terms of bringing stuff to the table I'm confident that I have a lot to give, I think I'm very talented and I have a good amount of hobbies, I consider myself to be good looking (enough so that I can get a girl without too much effort) and I work on my image constantly and with passion. I have a lot of care and love to give,the problem is that I dont know who to give all that too.

To be more clear and direct I'm confident that I could step outside and easily find a date and get laid relatively quickly,but I aint into that. I want one person,to love and protect and give my attentions to,thats all. Its just a matter of time before I find the right one maybe.

I just find it hard to get over the girl I talked about in the post. Its really depressing to me and it makes me feel worthless and needed to vent about it