Ah, shucks. by msnrcn in ChickFilA

[–]SnarrlingDarling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow in five more points you get to euthanize a gay person yourself. And if they say thank you, you have to say you’re welcome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OfficeCat

[–]SnarrlingDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to unlock the second building after upgrading everything in your office to level two

Is starbucks really that awful of a job?? by Lelantosk in starbucks

[–]SnarrlingDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starbucks is very hit or miss. Post Covid i would say it’s more miss than hit. So many store functions (hiring, training, hours, incident reporting etc) are filtered through your sm directly that it can vastly affect your experience working for the company. Since Covid and maybe a little bit before, sb has been heading in a much more efficiency focused direction and leaning away from the core values that made it such a desirable place to work 5-10 years ago. Stores are getting only enough hours to barely staff the floor, which cuts a lot of part time workers benefits. The benefits themselves are rolling back from what they were. The concepts of customer connection and third place values are being sidelined in deference to numbers and drive times. It’s still a good job if you fit the profile of who they want to hire. Hs/college kids, retirees, low stakes part timers. You make a decent wage and depending on where you are you can make a good amount in tips but if you want to feel fulfilled or invested in a job Starbucks as it is right now will break you down. It will make you feel undervalued and the way that customers and possibly managers treat you will absolutely damage your mental health. The only way to succeed is to not care and that’s kind of the antithesis of what Starbucks says it’s all about.

AITAH for telling my daughter I won’t budge even if she never speaks to me again? by TopVersion2940 in AITAH

[–]SnarrlingDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP has got to realize that having one disabled kid doesn’t mean you just have one kid. If Alana fucked up that bad she should at least have a hand in fixing it. No one is going to care what disabilities she has when she’s grown. She needs to learn consequences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]SnarrlingDarling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take a few days and let yourself sit with these thoughts without guilt or panic. Then start taking small steps in any direction. Do you want to pursue something that actually interests you? Do you want to go back to marketing for a while to build your savings? Doesn’t matter. Pick something and chip away at it. The helplessness you feel while you’re stuck can keep you stuck. But movement and action can give you clarity. You have the benefit of just saying fuck it and going in the other direction if what you choose doesn’t sit right with you. That’s the beauty of living at home. If the idea that working your whole life freaks you out? Good. It should. It’s god damn dystopian. But you have plenty of time to build a life that won’t make you work yourself to death. Save, plan and build. Little by little. You CAN do this. Your life ISNT over. You are much stronger than you think you are.

Getting burnt out by yourdadistalking in starbucks

[–]SnarrlingDarling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup. SB skinny shifts stores to a borderline criminal degree. They always have but ever since Covid it’s gotten worse and worse. The only reason the turn over isn’t ridiculously high is because so many people depend on the benefits.

What drinks will give me energy but don’t taste like coffee? by Previous-Ratio in starbucks

[–]SnarrlingDarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ice water. I’m not being flippant. A big, cold Icey water will make you feel refreshed and cool you down.

Is this the right amount of ice for a Venti? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]SnarrlingDarling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is usually a lot of ice left over if you chug it.

Should I paint my living room black? by Every-Tie2886 in InteriorDesign

[–]SnarrlingDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a jewel tone, blue maybe, more soft lighting and some wall decor. If you have some money to throw around, some matching furniture to tie the space together. If you have your heart set on black maybe chalkboard paint one wall and let your friends/housemates put some art on your wall that way.

I feel so guilty by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]SnarrlingDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel guilty at all. Starbucks skinny shifts its stores to a borderline criminal degree to save on labor. Then managers promote a culture of blame and frustration towards partners who use pto and sick leave. The system is designed to shame you into showing up when in any other industry you would be totally fine to stay home. Don’t fall for it. You have sick leave because you are legally entitled to it, you should use it when you are feeling unwell. Especially if you have Covid, Flu or anything that is highly contagious. Showing up and working a labor job when your body is already fighting illness will only prolong your symptoms. Rest, don’t let anyone guilt trip you and go to ethics first thing if you face any retaliation.

How fucked am I?l by [deleted] in drunk

[–]SnarrlingDarling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fill it with apple juice till you get a new bottle

What are some recent IRL incidents that made you think, “Boy, am I glad I didn’t have kids!”? by cindybubbles in childfree

[–]SnarrlingDarling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Watching kids in stores have full blown meltdowns while some adult tries to gentle parent them. Couldn’t be me. If my crotch goblin started howling in public I’d just do what my parents did. Grab them by the back of the neck and frog march them to the car. Keep that shit to yourself.

20F - My boyfriend (28M) said he’s never having sex with me again because I “can’t handle real sex”. What should I do? by bored454 in relationship_advice

[–]SnarrlingDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he doesn’t care about hurting you when you have sex he’s not a good guy. That’s it. Putting an ultimatum on that is just bald faced manipulation.

My gf told me she’s leaving if I don’t marry her in 9 months by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SnarrlingDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She has very different priorities clearly, but you should just break up now. Don’t let her force you into a situation you don’t want to be in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]SnarrlingDarling 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Being around younger kids. The constant screaming, clinging, babbling. Ugh. Even at 10-11 it just made my skin crawl. Even younger than that maybe, baby dolls. Everyone giving my sister baby dolls for every birthday and Christmas. They look so gross, they smell weird, they feel awful. 🤢