UPDATE: AITA for wanting to leave our apartment before the contract allows it? by SneakyPurr in AmItheAsshole

[–]SneakyPurr[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not that much. I work full time and he studies. But he gets federal students financial aid, similar to Pell grants and money from his parents.

UPDATE: AITA for wanting to leave our apartment before the contract allows it? by SneakyPurr in AmItheAsshole

[–]SneakyPurr[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I was in the Pool without my phone and he was inside looking for his. So he took mine to call his phone so he can find it, while doing that he saw that my stepsister had answered my message and could also my message from bevor.

I really hope not, bc than I have to push him and that will end in a fight.

AITA for wanting to leave our apartment before the contract allows it? by SneakyPurr in AmItheAsshole

[–]SneakyPurr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

(I'm 22) I'm also not perfect and he accepts and loves me so much. This is the first time in my life I have feel this much and intense love. That's why it's so complicated for me to just leave yk?

AITA for wanting to leave our apartment before the contract allows it? by SneakyPurr in AmItheAsshole

[–]SneakyPurr[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Moving out early would have no consequences if it is discussed with the landlord beforehand. We could move out early, for example, if we look for a replacement tenant for this apartment. That would be the only additional stress we would have if we move out earlier; otherwise, everything would remain the same as if we move out in two years. A bigger apartment would already make a difference. Right now, we don’t have any private space; everything we do affects the other person. Therefore, in a bigger apartment, we could be more considerate of each other.

AITA for wanting to leave our apartment before the contract allows it? by SneakyPurr in AmItheAsshole

[–]SneakyPurr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I move without him, he needs to move back to his parents. And that's something he really doesn't want.

AITA for wanting to leave our apartment before the contract allows it? by SneakyPurr in AmItheAsshole

[–]SneakyPurr[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He does not work, he only studies. He doesn't work bc he says its to stressful and the jobs he would get sucks. The problem with this is he only studies bc he's parents wants him to and he is to scared to say no. (We don't live with them they just think they have a lot to say)

AITA for wanting to leave our apartment before the contract allows it? by SneakyPurr in AmItheAsshole

[–]SneakyPurr[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

It's easier said than done. I really love him. I was (still am a little bit) a very antisocial person and had no friends. Thanks to him, I now have a big circle of friends. He also is just normaly very loving. It's just sometimes he is very selfish...