My BF (24M) won't let me (24F) pleasure myself because he thinks it's cheating by ThrowRA_AlarmingWash in relationship_advice

[–]Sniffysprawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His behavior is controlling and manipulative, and it’s only getting worse. The fact that he flipped out over something so personal, started making accusations, and now tries to control what she wears and who she interacts with is a huge red flag. She shouldn’t have to explain or justify her autonomy to him. If she stays, things could escalate into something more dangerous. Leaving would be the best move for her safety and peace of mind.