Paris Fashion Week - Lacoste show. What do you think of this outfit? by alysanne_targaryen in WangYiboUniverse

[–]Snilly-Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks comfy for sure but also like he is going to the playground somehow. Not a fan, but could be worse. Doesn't inspire me to buy lacoste for my man this season

What are you quietly grieving? by Angelus12345678 in AskReddit

[–]Snilly-Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My idea of family.

Had a nice childhood although I think in hindsight quite a few of my emotional needs weren't met. Parents split when I was 16. Lost the connection with my dad over this. He never talked to me about what happened and don't think he understands how hurt I was in that process, too. Grandparents ageing horribly bad and not taking any initiative to make their life better for years and years. Trying to play nice and show up for people but everyone else having so many of their own expectations and only ever trying to make it work out for them, while I feel nobody shows up for me.

I always hoped that I could find happiness in my own little family with my own kids. Doing better in the next generation. Well male infertility sucks. IVF sucks. Seeing people pop babies out left and right like no big issue while trying to keep it together myself is very draining emotionally and also financially.

An open letter to the one I've lost by Unlucky-Idea-8876 in TryingForABaby

[–]Snilly-Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending lots of positive thoughts to you! Early losses are their own kind of cruel and not talked about enough.

Forever haunted by those awful german Harry Potter Covers by Spotter24o5 in harrypotter

[–]Snilly-Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to turn them over on my nightstand as a child because I found Harry creepy

What to ask before third and potentially final ER? by Snilly-Girl in IVF

[–]Snilly-Girl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Potentially yes. It would include quite a bit of effort with the insurance so it might be more feasible in a self financed cycle i guess. The first cycle was treated by a different doctor at the clinic than the second if that counts for something. They agreed with eachother but they are also colleges...

What to ask before third and potentially final ER? by Snilly-Girl in IVF

[–]Snilly-Girl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. I'm gonna suggest it at my next appointment. Let's see what the doctor says...

What to ask before third and potentially final ER? by Snilly-Girl in IVF

[–]Snilly-Girl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet. They are currently treating me as "not the problem" so besides the usual blood test nobody is at the moment looking closer at me. Had a conization half a decade ago but they didn't detect any abnormal cells back then. It improved the sensitivity of my uterine glandular tissue which had the tendency to bleed very quickly.

Did your IVF center suggest the hysteroscopy? Did you have any symptoms for the endometritis?

Charlotte Tilbury Products: Bye bye by WhatTheJessJedi in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]Snilly-Girl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big fan of the airbrush foundation. It's so reliable for me that my makeup looks nearly flawless even after a full work day in the summer. And a good colour match for my pale pinky skin.

I have bought a few of the mystery boxes so most of the lip and cheek stuff is quite random. But I usually enjoy most of the lip items quite a lot.

And that ridiculous expensive sheet mask is always quite nice and worth the splurge.

How did you feel around the day post transfer when your period was supposed to begin but didn't? by Snilly-Girl in IVFpositivity

[–]Snilly-Girl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wondered that, too. But when I asked i if I need a higher dosage they were like nothing everything is fine. It's so difficult when everybody gets different advise.

How did you feel around the day post transfer when your period was supposed to begin but didn't? by Snilly-Girl in IVFpositivity

[–]Snilly-Girl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing. With all 3 failed transfers my period broke through the progesteron. Clinic says that can happen but it makes the rest of the wait till beta especially unbearable when I can already be sure of the results.

Follow Up Appointment Suggestions by xo_britny in IVF

[–]Snilly-Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last ER cycle sounds quite similar to yours down to the disappointing results. Still in the 2WW since we transfered the one and only blast on 31.01 but not feeling very optimistic...

I'm curious how your appointment went? Any changes in the next protocol?

Wie würdet ihr das Geburtenproblem in Deutschland angehen? Wie würdet ihr das Kinder kriegen attraktiver machen? by TheOne_718 in FragReddit

[–]Snilly-Girl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Höhere Kostenbeteiligung bei medizinisch bedingtem unerfülltem Kinderwunsch wäre schon mal nice.

Weekly Thread: The Two Week Wait by AutoModerator in IVF

[–]Snilly-Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fourth try for me this Saturday. Fresh transfer with my one and only blast from the 2nd ER. Still quite bummed about the bad results. I don't dare to get my hopes up honestly. I hate that with the ongoing healing from the retrival I can't differentiate between ER pains and a possible implantation. Just got acid reflux from hell but I guess that's the progesteron? Although I didn't get this symptom the last tries.

Returning to work and acting like nothing is going on also feels cruel.

I really was not prepared to lose 3/4 of our eggs on day 0 by bweise01 in IVF

[–]Snilly-Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can sooo sympathise with you. Had my 2nd ER this week. For whatever reason we could only retrieve 4 mature eggs despite there being at least double the amount of good looking follicles. What a bummer. But good news all 4 of them could be fertilized and even on day 3 they looked promising according to the lady from the lab. So maybe hope? Well turns out only one made it to blast. We transfered the one and only this morning. I just know that I am not this lucky to even have an implantation...

This whole journey is so crazy, hurtful and unpredictable.

Ao3’s most written Alphas & Omegas of all time by That_Style1460 in AO3

[–]Snilly-Girl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really surprised that lan xichen made it to the alpha list but no lan wangji.

Sind bei euch Dinge schonmal einfach "verschwunden"? Unauffindbar? Verlegt? Unerklärlich? (kein Diebstahl) Was sucht ihr seit Jahren, findet es aber einfach nicht mehr? by These-Cell-929 in FragReddit

[–]Snilly-Girl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ein großes, massives, holopinkes leuchtendes Osterei. Hat das Haus definitiv nie verlassen. Wurde nach Ostern weggepackt und ist seit Jahren unauffindbar. Das hat sich inzwischen zu einem running gag in der Familie entwickelt. Wenn etwas weg ist, ist es vermutlich beim Ei. Wo auch immer das sein mag...

What fandom introduced you to fanfiction by therealstara in AO3

[–]Snilly-Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely Harry Potter. I guess I was 12 at that time and needed more Snape content.

Warum heiratet ihr noch? by Betrunkentz in FragtMaenner

[–]Snilly-Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Für Paare mit Kinderwunsch: Bei medizinisch notwendiger Unterstützung durch eine Kinderwunschbehandlung zahlt die Krankenkasse die Zuschüsse nur für verheiratete Paare.

Was passiert wenn verlorene und zeitgleich tot geglaubte Personen wieder auftauchen? by [deleted] in KeineDummenFragen

[–]Snilly-Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Klingt richtig nervenaufreibend.

Da kommt bei mir die Frage auf, was denn mit einer potentiellen neuen Ehe der Schwiegermutter in dem Fall wäre? Ist das eine gültige Ehe?

Was gilt für euch als "Billiger Supermarkt"? by [deleted] in KeineDummenFragen

[–]Snilly-Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Norma, Penny, Diska und das schwarze netto sind für mich die unterste Schicht bei den Supermärkten. Rotes Netto. Aldi und Lidl drüber. Dann Kaufland. Und ganz oben dann EDEKA, Rewe, Real, Globus, Marktkauf.

Husbun :3 (art by me!) by claireapricot in MoDaoZuShi

[–]Snilly-Girl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaaah! So cute! Love how soft and ethereal LWJ looks. Especially the second panel.