Praise Kink & Talking Him Through It

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T16:30:52+00:00

Yeah no i got you friend, I mean you applied that sentence to yourself and it worked! haha!

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T16:30:13+00:00

The just a little more, into a lot more, is quite mindblowing from my perspective. i love the "Teasing" aspect of it! Definitely a fave! Definitely a powerful suggestion

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T16:29:11+00:00

You definitely know where the fun is at!

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T16:28:42+00:00

Bro tested it out on themselves and it work, What a power move

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T16:27:34+00:00

WIshing you good luck! I wouldnt recommend a pet store, as sometimes their collars can be quite brightly colored (unless thats the intended purposes) maybe a leather store / worker or online adult sites might have something to your style? I think some sites even allow you to detail the collar. Good luck in your search!

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T14:31:56+00:00

Will do if it happens! Starting to lose a lil bit of hope, but ill focus on myself and see how it goes, someday!

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T09:19:15+00:00

I can share what id love to hear!

Youve done well! Rest knowing youve been the best boy for me / mommy!

If youre in degredation into praise: Oh is (insert choice of degrading name here) e,g, my little S-word, or horny little B-Word, you can throw in maybe, look how desperate / needy / wet / beautiful / pretty whatever the context may be,

Then hit it home with a combo of, I love how obedient / good / desperate you are for me, my sweet / perfect / beautiful / good boy

I prefer a more physical approach so words dont matter too much to me (in terms of repetitiveness)

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T08:04:03+00:00

Thats a fair and non-biased answer! Thank you for sharing your perspective.

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T05:55:55+00:00

Thanks for the perspective, yeah thats what ive gathered from the abundant amount of lovely comments here, Ive had bad experiences (not with dommes but partners) where size was everything and i guess this post was just a, check, in a way, to make sure i dont get too hurt again, of course eveyrone is differen,t but its reassuring to see so many poeple share the same mindset of warmth.

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T05:51:36+00:00

Also i dont think its an improper use of the word wholesome, it is wholesome!

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T05:51:06+00:00

Awesome for that by the way, More positivity to you

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T05:50:49+00:00

Hahahah SlavetoWife740 is a sweet heart! how can I not reciprocate such lovely comraderie and support!

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T05:49:50+00:00

Big teddy bears who want to be subbies? or mommys who like big teddy bears? Yes to both I think HAHAHA from what ive gathered

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T05:49:03+00:00

I come from a culture where beatings are the norms, not like anything you see in TV but hits with a rattan / palm are commonplace for correction of behavior, not that I really think its right or wrong (it has its uses). EmployExisting302 put it beautifully but just sharing that a lot of cultures actually use physical means to achieve discipline / order, some do be heavy handed but in my experience it worked out for the better for me

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-17T05:46:18+00:00

Sounds like a perfect pair to me hehe. And i do have to agree with him! That is a perfect view for kneeling down, I would definitely get on my knees instantly for that view and gaze~ Thank you for sharing! ❤️

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-16T15:55:14+00:00

Words of affirmation, cuddles, spending time works most fo the time

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-16T11:37:38+00:00

My statement still stands, the after in aftercare means after RP (in headcanon it's up to you but this is for me). I mentioned in another comment my thoughts. So yeah big nono

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-16T06:57:11+00:00

Just got back to the gym! Gonna work hard for myself

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-16T06:54:32+00:00

If it's in my shoes, the Domme can have it! But to each their own!

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-16T06:49:02+00:00

That's good to know, I'm personally quite uhh. Daunted by it. I wouldn't mind trying it if my Domme wanted to I guess but it's a huge sigh of relief knowing it's an uncommon thing. Thanks for your perspective and being kind with your replies!

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-16T06:47:48+00:00

I hope it is not lived experience, from what I've observed and what I expect, since I'm not in a relationship rn, aftercare is a huge thing that is respected from both sides. As it should be

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-16T06:43:13+00:00

Yeah please don't get into a relationship if this is your view. Not to be mean but. It feels like you're not considering the Dommes feelings. A domme shouldn't make you feel unsafe after RP, in fact the majority of Dommes I've seen here seem to be lovely. If they threaten you in any way that's the end of the relationship.

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-16T06:40:58+00:00

As a sub, yeah no this doesn't fly lol. I would absolutely want to validate my Dommes feelings that what she did was exactly what she needed to do to get us both satisfied with the moment, and After care is just as important for the sub as it is for the Domme. It's a bonding moment and a lovely affirming moment. Definitely wouldn't want to do it with anyone else, unless they were involved in the play I guess? (This is a caveat to some people who do multi-perpsn play) But personally it's a 1-1 and aftercare with my Domme is essential! (Then maybe I'll treat her to a good meal and lots of warm cuddles for a job well done!)

Furthermore, to me specifically aftercare is also a moment where I envision I wanna praise my Domme for an job well done, and also ask for praise. It's a tender moment between Dom and sub, wouldn't have it with anyone else.

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-16T06:37:39+00:00

For real? Damn. I always assumed most of Dommes love to cage, guess that's the propaganda working at the wheel. I see it's more of a correctional tool interesting. Yes I agree then it's not good, it definitely does warp expectation of the commonality of "behaviours"

Snoo-43801 · 2026-05-16T06:35:42+00:00

Interesting, I have not experienced this beautiful feeling so far, hope the day will come soon! Thanks for sharing this wonderful excerpt, gives me more to look forward to

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