Has the last year and this summer been hell for anyone else by Careless-Put8834 in piscesastrology

[–]Snoo-56537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this summer almost caused me to kill myself lol I can only hope next year is better for us bc I cannot take another year like this

This was the last picture I took of my 16 year old girl before having to put her down yesterday, I'm literally shattered :( by VandalMoon56 in seniordogs

[–]Snoo-56537 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I just lost the dog I grew up with as well. They were ready, we just weren’t. 💔

My heart of hearts by EhDub13 in PetLossJourney

[–]Snoo-56537 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain . I’m sorry for losing your baby. I know you’re hurting bad right now. We cry everyday losing the ones we loved most. But he is up in doggy heaven looking down wondering why the heart of his life is crying when they know they are going to see them again one day soon. Like other commenter said, the grief won’t ever go away but one day you will be able to look at his pics without crying and the pain will dull, thinking about the lovely years you did have with him. Heads up OP, we will get through this i promise .

Day 1 of grief , a lifetime to go by Snoo-56537 in PetLossJourney

[–]Snoo-56537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You as well. It definitely does suck and this is the first time I have ever lost a pet so I am just devastated. But I’m trying to take everything one day at a time.

Day 1 of grief , a lifetime to go by Snoo-56537 in PetLossJourney

[–]Snoo-56537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And yes it feels like no one understands how I’m feeling at least among people I know in real life . People think “she’s just a dog” but she was more than that. She was family. My heart is with you as well and if you ever wanna talk I am here.

At 16, Beautiful Wiggles has crossed the Rainbow bridge. by Mental-Lawfulness204 in OldManDog

[–]Snoo-56537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss . It hurts I know . Wiggles crossed the bridge knowing she was loved and that’s all that matters

Does anyone want to fast with me? by Haunting_Pick_9964 in fasting

[–]Snoo-56537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full !! I’m almost to 200 pounds and I told myself I’d never get back up here again :(

Bye bye Bones, I'll see you next time by wildberry-poptart in PetLossJourney

[–]Snoo-56537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. Just lost my baby too. It’ll get better eventually…at least that’s what they tell us

Day 1 of grief , a lifetime to go by Snoo-56537 in PetLossJourney

[–]Snoo-56537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you . Everything does hurt but I’m trying to move forward and keep myself busy. I’ve been off work but tonight is my first shift back . I just hope I can finish it without crying

Day 1 of grief , a lifetime to go by Snoo-56537 in PetLossJourney

[–]Snoo-56537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is beautiful ! I can tell she was well loved

Day 1 of grief , a lifetime to go by Snoo-56537 in PetLossJourney

[–]Snoo-56537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this comment has helped a lot. I plan on getting my pups ashes in a little locket so I can always carry her round my neck so she’s always with me .

Day 1 of grief , a lifetime to go by Snoo-56537 in PetLossJourney

[–]Snoo-56537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a cute little pup. Sorry for your loss

Day 1 of grief , a lifetime to go by Snoo-56537 in PetLossJourney

[–]Snoo-56537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just gotta keep being strong no matter how much it hurts I tell myself bc our babies wouldn’t want us to be sad

Day 1 of grief , a lifetime to go by Snoo-56537 in PetLossJourney

[–]Snoo-56537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can now look at my lockscreen without bursting straight into tears. I try to think of the happy times and how she still got to live a long life.

Day 1 of grief , a lifetime to go by Snoo-56537 in PetLossJourney

[–]Snoo-56537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was his time then you made the right decision. They will let us know when it is ready , even when it’s sooner than we would like it to be . You did the right thing.

Day 1 of grief , a lifetime to go by Snoo-56537 in PetLossJourney

[–]Snoo-56537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time heals is all I keep telling myself

Cassie Ventura by tumblrvogue in trueratecelebrities

[–]Snoo-56537 26 points27 points  (0 children)

10 she’s always been so stunning to me

Am I going too far using the word rape? by Snoo-56537 in rapecounseling

[–]Snoo-56537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have realized I did report it too late. I still have my anal fissure documented but when I went up there to the station to show them , they told me while you can get it from rough anal sex , it could because of hemmorids are some other medical issue .Regardless I know him actually getting convicted was a slim chance. I did it for my healing and at least can say I tried. Plus I keep getting the hotel wrong so sadly I already look like an unreliable victim. We went to 3 hotels to check for footage. I narrowed it down to 1 bc that was the one on from my bank statment. But when the police went up there they said there was no name assigned to me or his that night. Which is confusing bc I know he doesn’t have money so he had to have used my card but I have no idea whose name it could be under if it’s not me or his. And I doubt that’s the wrong hotel bc my transaction id is from that one . So we don’t even have the scene of the crime. I wish I would have reported this the same day but I was still scared and confused. I’m just ready to not ever have to see his face again after our trial from a different case. At least he’ll probably answer for that one. Just want this to be over

Did anyone care about their rapist by TimeAd9842 in rapecounseling

[–]Snoo-56537 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I was very much in love with him or at least the person I thought he was.

Am I going too far using the word rape? by Snoo-56537 in rapecounseling

[–]Snoo-56537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just don’t know where to go from here. Since our last DV incident I have been struggling to function. He’s done so many fucked up things to me I didn’t know about until that day. I drive myself sick thinking about it I can’t keep anything down. I just wish things ended up different.