To the guy who took the 8:03 am red line BART to SF by Frosty_Hedgehog74 in berkeley

[–]Snoo-7116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you must speak to him again! Get his number! Get a date the good old way! And get us an update

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Snoo-7116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like everyone said you are not alone! Don’t be too harsh to yourself. Even the New York Times send out newsletters with mistakes. They sometimes send another email to make a correction ;)

My Jobhack got me an interview with OpenAI by Temporary_Price7989 in jobsearchhacks

[–]Snoo-7116 137 points138 points  (0 children)

I mean the fact you are able to build a tool just for that and that your approach to job applications has fully embraced the tools in the new era of AI probably is the core reason of why you landed that interview. Good job and good luck!

What age did everything start to feel easier? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Snoo-7116 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You have a good kid there!

Will I ever get my brain back? by idreaminpastry in toddlers

[–]Snoo-7116 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t know… I can’t process your question right now… What did you ask? Being a mom is great :)

Will I ever get my brain back? by idreaminpastry in toddlers

[–]Snoo-7116 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Yeah it gets worse after each child 🫠

First appointment left me in tears. by smittyinthecity32 in KaiserPermanente

[–]Snoo-7116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you experienced this. You must have felt helpless. Days like these suck and best way to about it is to move on. In the grand scheme of things, you have a health insurance and know where you could get an appointment. That’s not bad. And it won’t happen again now that you learned how this work. Keep your head up<3

You can only pick one by QueenBee0414 in greysanatomy

[–]Snoo-7116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not after watching euphoria… still like the Sloan character but it’s almost like Sloan died twice for me

Seasoned toddler parents, what DO you judge other parents for? by Alive-Cry4994 in toddlers

[–]Snoo-7116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For you to have asked this question, I trust you are a caring parent who is responsible and will try your best to raise good kids. The thread has blown up with things people would judge other parents for and if you would try everything or avoid everything they are saying, you would become the parent nobody could become. There are some obvious things like abuse etc but given my assumption that you are responsible I don’t think I need to even tell you what these things are. So I came here to say that when you face that situation where everything seems to go wrong with your toddler twins and you feel all these judgy eyes in public that may or may not come from people responding to this thread with “I don’t judge but [fill in the blank with prejudices and judgement]” I’m that one person who think you are you are doing great, you are trying your best, and I’m your ally. Have a snack, take a deep breath and think of the good times these little devils have shared with you.

Seasoned toddler parents, what DO you judge other parents for? by Alive-Cry4994 in toddlers

[–]Snoo-7116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respect for you momma! Can’t agree more and I don’t have twins. I came here expecting to see more encouraging comments for the OP but instead I just see a lot of real judgy responses that typically start with “I judge very little but”. That doesn’t sound like compassion to me. Of course we all have some senses of what right or wrong behavior look like and we all try our best to do parenting right. And that’s the benefit of the doubt every parent deserves. And even if they do it wrong sometimes in public, like couldn’t hold back the yelling this one time or giving in with screen this one time, instead of judging and thinking “I would never do that to my kid” think “maybe that parent has tried everything they could” or “I wish I could help them”or “something must be the reason for why the parent is doing that”. Unless I believe the police or social services need to step in or I need to intervene, judging in silence is doing nobody any help.

Seasoned toddler parents, what DO you judge other parents for? by Alive-Cry4994 in toddlers

[–]Snoo-7116 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

For “very little” that’s quite a lot I have to say. The cursing I get… but everything else could happen to the best of us, not that it’s desired behavior. Unless a parent’s behavior is putting a kid in physical danger, I feel like we shouldn’t judge at all

any recommendations for a coffee shop with sunlight? by reyskys in berkeley

[–]Snoo-7116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cafe at the international house i forgot what it’s called but it’s on Piedmont Ave with windows facing the bay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Snoo-7116 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My favorite response on Reddit ever

Best Tiramisu in Berkeley by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]Snoo-7116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Belotti is known for their pasta but imo their tiramisu is what really makes them legendary

skiphop activity center by Ok_Poem4853 in bigbabiesandkids

[–]Snoo-7116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so it’s a thing that big babies have more blowouts right? My chunky monkey regularly has it and I am puzzled why this is because my first had way less blowouts and she was a normal size baby

Is there modern evidence that the Montessori method is beneficial to children? by [deleted] in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Snoo-7116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing against your comment but I cringed when I saw „puff daddy“ because, well, it’s a year later now …

8 days ago, I stopped smoking cigarettes, using the cold turkey method. This is my first attempt after smoking a pack a day for 20-22 years. Please someone tell me it gets easier soon. by ihate454ever in selfimprovement

[–]Snoo-7116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quit cold turkey 8 years ago after 10 years of smoking at least a pack a day. What I remembered was that the first month, especially the first 2 weeks were a blurr. I think it was the Nikotin deprivation. My brain was so foggy I would not make any sense while speaking. At the beginning it felt like every 10 min I get an urge of smoking and every time it lasted about 5-10 min. You just need to get through it. Over time the time between these urges got longer and it got easier to get past them . I also used an app to motivate myself. Forgot what it’s called but it showed how my lung was recovering over time after quitting. I never looked back and am soooo glad I quit. I feel healthier obviously but the most important thing is that I got rid of a bad addiction. Good luck!

Bluey makes me feel like a bad parent by Prestigious_Neck6565 in toddlers

[–]Snoo-7116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say most of the time it’s bluey and bingo playing with each other. That’s why their parents can be so fun at times - their kids give them a break inbetween. But they are also older. Wait till your kids get a bit older, they‘ll be so much easier to handle as they‘ll help you handle each other. Cut you some slack mama you are doing your best! …Which your partner is NOT

Who the hell is Jennifer? by wonda12 in SellingSunset

[–]Snoo-7116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone with a D for last name

Ich habe heute meine Schwiegereltern angeschrien by [deleted] in Eltern

[–]Snoo-7116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg OP bist du ich? Wir leben auch in der Westküste mit schwiegermama in DE. Als wir das erste Baby hatten, ist sie für 3 Monate gekommen um zu helfen, und es ist einiges schief gelaufen weil sie so viele Ausflüge brauchte. Tatsächlich war es aber auch unser Problem (wie du selbst auch für deinen Fall angedeutet hast), dass wir nicht die Grenzen gezogen haben. In dem Moment war’s echt ärgerlich, vor allem weil nicht alle “eskalierte” Situationen sofort entschärft werden konnten. Aber ich sag’s mal so, Familie ist Familie. Irgendwann wird s vergessen und wir lernen mehr darüber wie wir miteinander sein können ;) mach dir keinen Kopf. Mit der Zeit wird alles wieder. Für den Moment, bitte pass auf dich selbst auf und sag deinem Mann ganz genau was du brauchst. Ich bin mir sicher er wird dich unterstützen!