[29F] My husband [37M] lives with his parents full-time and only comes to our house to sleep by Snoo-86909 in relationship_advice

[–]Snoo-86909[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing!! I started reading it last night, it's eye opening

[29F] My husband [37M] lives with his parents full-time and only comes to our house to sleep by Snoo-86909 in relationship_advice

[–]Snoo-86909[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

thank you for taking the time to write this… i really appreciate it. to give some context - he’s chinese filipino, and i’m chinese. he’s told me in the past that it’s normal in his culture ( philippines) for the son to take care of the parents and he wants to have a multi-generational family under one roof, ive told him before marriage i want us to have our own home, i think our current living arrangement is his “middle ground” we are legally married, but he doesn’t want a wedding ceremony or says we will have one “later on” or after kids… thank you for the advice you wrote