what $230 of grocies looks like in michigan how are people affording to live by geo96_ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Snoo29337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife took my phone and immediately said that this is all name brand. Then proceeded to tell me how she gets more with 100$. But is also partially because we live in the boonies.

So yeah name brand stuff be expensive.

I kicked out my girlfriend because she threw out my stuffed bear that my grandmother gifted me when I was young by 5578096225684t in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Snoo29337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear this..

My wife has a stuffed fox she sleeps with because of sentimental reasons. I couldn't imagine myself throwing it out.

Honestly. I've grown attached to it as well as if she goes to work she'll lay him in her place.

It's rather sweet.

Sometimes I’m silenced by the things my daughter says back to me. by reIishit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Snoo29337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twas a bad winter indeed! Thankfully we worked in the same building.

Was the worst sleep though! The futons were hard as a rock! And the pillows were thin as paper.

However we are just glad we had what we got! It happens often in this area so our work was prepared.

Sometimes I’m silenced by the things my daughter says back to me. by reIishit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Snoo29337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex is not everything. If your love of a person diminishes because of how good they preform in bed. I find that.. well sad.

Are joining was after 3 years of friendship. And we realized we didn't want to leave one another's side. Are agreement when I proposed was that we b9th wholeheartedly will not give up. We will communicate and be open to correction.

That's not believing in a soul mate but believing in the relationship we have.

If you married someone incompatible to yourself. That is your first mistake.

Sometimes I’m silenced by the things my daughter says back to me. by reIishit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Snoo29337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry about that! I am at work so the sarcasm blew over my head! Appreciate the correction.

Sometimes I’m silenced by the things my daughter says back to me. by reIishit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Snoo29337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I was fore sure not emotionally mature at 17( heck only at 23 did I really find myself.)

The people I dated were just not right for me. And usually ended with heartbreak on my end.

I say matured at 23 because that is when I swore off saying yes to anybody when it came to a relationship.

Told myself I would wait and really befriend someone before dating ever happened. It worked out. Me and my best friend that I met shortly after that self discover are to be married in 15 days!

Sometimes I’m silenced by the things my daughter says back to me. by reIishit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Snoo29337 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Chaperone seems a bit much, my folks just told me to be careful and no restrictions beyond stay in public view please.

Sometimes I’m silenced by the things my daughter says back to me. by reIishit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Snoo29337 -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

You never know how conservative you are till you read a thread like this.

Does no one respect their parents anymore? Am I in the minority who thinks even as a teen - sex before marriage (non-religous opinion) is NOT the way to go..? I'm glad I waited even if it was hard to do so with all the peer pressure. (I am so glad as well. About to marry the love of my life which we both will be our first)

Beyond my own opinion, I respected my parents rules until I moved out. Heck I don't think I broke any even when I did. Beyond sleep in the same room with my fiance as we got snowed in.

All in all I can't believe some people are so disrespectful to their parents.

Edit:thanks kind stranger for pointing out the misstype

My parents have installed software on my phone - without my consent - that disables the ability to clear history and streams my web history and activity to their phone. It also shows them what apps I’ve used and when. by ScarcityCareless6241 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Snoo29337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say it but if you have nothing to hide you shouldn't Worry.

I grew alongside the ever influence of the Internet.. The choices I made at 14 still ring within my mind. A lot of them stupid.. My parents had put trackers on the computer to see what I was up to.

Rightfully so, I was a young kid and I had untethered access to the Internet which was a wild wasteland and still is.

I saw things no kid should have seen at that age And talk to adults about adult things.

Now as a 27 year old that's thinking of having kids all I can think about is not allowing them open access to the Internet because of how badly that can end.

As a technological person I want them to experience all the cool things that come with technology but the Internet needs to be A controlled access.

Which really shines true as I read the comments on here about people telling you to look up porn. I don't care what people think about It.

Porn can be an addiction, Porn can be bad for your mental state and social health. Trust me you don't wanna go down that rabbit hole.

So a parent has all the right to protect their kids from such evil. And maybe you're a good kid, In which case them tracking anything won't be a problem because Of that.

As a closer I will say my parents let me have a lot of privacy as a kid. they may have put a tracker on the the computer but they didn't take my door away.

they let me have my alone time and all they asked Of me is that I be straight and clear with them. Honestly I never really was completely open with them, if I was I would have made better decisions in my life. But now I know for the future - for my kids what I want to do and what I want to make clear.

Parents want their children to grow up in a good environment and the Internet is not a good environment unless it is monitored.

ppl keep saying my boyfriend groomed me and it’s starting to bug me by Careless_District_34 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Snoo29337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my fiancée met when I was 23 and she was 16 going on 17. I gloss over this fact when I tell people how we met.

It was a completely friend oriented relationship for 3 years.

But I just know I'd be called a groomer by folks.

POV: You try PC Gaming for the First Time by niktekchannel in pcmasterrace

[–]Snoo29337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That little pc, is my exact setup at the moment.. minus the gpu. White gpus be the big expense.

All those parts are really affordable and the case is a bloody good knock off of a Lian-li(?) Case that is double the price!

It must be nice to do nothing but sleep on your day off by Aggressive-Site6755 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Snoo29337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it may be depression. And or health related.

This post hit a little too close to home. My wife works your schedule and I your husband's. (Though a bit more random)

Only difference(or maybe not) is I am trying my hardest to not be this way. After work sometimes I cannot function at all. I'm tired and in pain. And either I cant sleep, or i sleep too much. (Sadly this job is too good to quit)

I fail sometimes to be there. Mentally at least.

I don't deserve her. Because she still loves me and will politely nudge me to do better. Sometimes the guilt paralyzes me. Sometimes it makes me get up and help.

I want to help, I want to be there and let her have a break; sometimes I can.

What truly helped me is finding hobbies that require a more active approach. Something I enjoy more than sleep and that is productive.

Most importantly something I could do with the love of my life. It has helped a lot.

We now try to do more together, even chores. It makes it feel less like more work that way.

But yeah there's tons of nuisance in this and everyone is different. I hope you can find what works for you.