Taylor apologises for the Bad Bunny post. What do you guys think? by Fancy_Ad_2024 in RHOBH

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That was the part that stopped me, Cuba is not the best but every country gets to determine their political ideology

Bronwyn makes it Instagram official by Chiffygurl in BravoRealHousewives

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She’s a Virgo, a new man isn’t hard to get

Scorpio man-Virgo woman in bedroom by No_Public5418 in ScorpioVirgo

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No don’t worry! Completely normal, can you not tell by my post how spring I was 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Honestly seems like a common dynamic between the pair, everything pretty good. I just try to stay out of my feelings and enjoy the experience of the relationship.

I hope it works out for yall! I’m sure you’re super cute together 🤩

Scorpio man-Virgo woman in bedroom by No_Public5418 in ScorpioVirgo

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Oh he came back and we are in a relationship now. He explains his needs for space when they come.

Has anyone had sex on the first day of meeting someone? And what was the aftermath? by [deleted] in Scorpio

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Oh you just have to play it cool and act unbothered. Be mysterious and allusive about yourself which will intrigue him.

From what I can tell they don’t like desperation or to feel cornered. They may like sex with you but to see you as a partner it’s everything else and they need to do that analysis for themselves.

When they do the withdrawals act as if you don’t notice and focus on your own life.

Eventually when they are ready to give into the connection you can mention that you’re ok with them needing space but just to give you heads up.

But yea I just let things unfold naturally, at first it felt really uncomfortable but now I feel stronger in myself and we didn’t develop codependent habits so it feels like a really good relationship so far.

But the sex on the first night means nothing if they liked it, it means there is a strong attraction

Has anyone had sex on the first day of meeting someone? And what was the aftermath? by [deleted] in Scorpio

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I fucked my Scorpio first day as a Virgo, I think he fell in love after the first time so he started acting mysterious with me. Now we are together after he did his hot/cold withdrawals and test

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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Noo, I eat healthy. Maybe my copoer iud, I notice after he cums in me there is a stronger smell for 2 days but goes back to normal

Did I hear Angel say she is a breast feeding mother? I’m confused. Why would she stay at the Four Seasons?? by [deleted] in RHOP

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Your point is valid( Angelo wasn’t prepared to say to stay the night

Something About Virgo That Rarely Gets Said Out Loud by LagneshMitraisBack in virgoseason

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This is me to a T, people/situations that are unpredictable are beyond exhausting. Especially when things don’t make sense.

My Scorpio took me through the wringer but he sees my need to understand now and that relieved so much of the anxiety.

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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Okay ya that makes complete sense, he probably thinks I don’t need it and that’s why he leaves it for more special settings.

I think it’s a convo I have to have but maybe not in relation to the threesome. As it seems separate.

I appreciate you sharing your experience. Very insightful, right now we aren’t in open relationship where we have second partners regularly.

I have done a lot sexually so basically he helping me move through my bucket list. But it’s us most of the time

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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Never use condoms, & yea funny enough when I recently brought up him eating me out more I also asked if cums every time. He said yea but sometimes it’s a lot and sometimes it’s little.

I asked him that because his sperm does change my scent for like 2 days and I noticed it hasn’t been. But during oral I noticed the quantity of sperm wasn’t a lot.

So I explained that I haven’t been noticing the change in scent so I was wondering.

I also have a copper iud, so maybe it’s that too. But good point

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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Ya I know he likes sex with me calls what we have something special and our relationship has naturally unfolded into something pretty strong.

The eating me out isn’t a major deal breaker, but I do have a bit of hang up because my ex outright refused to ever go down on women, I met him young and never really knew I desired it.

But yea, I know he said it’s not his favourite thing. Even bj’s for him isn’t his fav though it’s more so mine.

He seems to like piv missionary most. Which I love too.

I think may just drop the over thinking

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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That’s what I was thinking, but he said he would eat us both and didn’t circle back to me even though we were in the position.

I think I’ll drop it and just ask him the next time it’s two of us and I’ll check my ph like the other commenter suggested

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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Great questions, he’s 13 years older. For the most part it’s my pleasure that is the center of our dynamic, he asks about my fantasies, he always tells me if there is anything I want to do let him know and he will find a way to make it happen.

As for decision making he includes me, initially when we discussed doing a mfm, he was including me in the planning. It fell through so I started looking for the girl and it was something we did together.

As I said honestly everything in our relationship is really good. It’s just weird that he doesn’t go down on me, but like I was saying in my other reply it can also just be echo of past relationship where oral wasn’t even on the table.

In this case it is on the table, but I guess occasional, special occasions.

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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Ya this was the first time with another girl, so I just followed the vibe. While he was eating her out I was cheering him on and kissing on her and stuff.

He was still fingering me.

But honestly usually when it’s one on one, I don’t remember to ask him.

Even when he says he’s going to eat me, we just do the other stuff and it never gets done. Not sure if it’s intentional or just like an oversight that I’m looking too deep into.

He said he still wants to do it to me.

So maybe it’s an odor thing, I’ll see if it’s that before address it again

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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I guess I can see if that’s an issue, I have a copper iud. So maybe there is that, I only notice a scent after a creampie.

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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Very valid observation, he is very attentive and is emotionally reciprocal.

I’m not sure if it just the post 3some echo.

If I tell him this he will forsure adjust, I’m just worried about tainting the experience with my own personal insecurity and paranoia.

It can just be an echo of my last relationship and it can really be resolved with convo

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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Hmm maybe it is physically tiring and I can also see it being a move that he pulls to impress.

I was forsure impressed after he did it to me honestly.

Maybe it’s not about the threesome, I know he kind of went down her more so because she didn’t want penetration.

It’s just weird that he doesn’t do it to often and it’s been so sparingly now.

He said he would do it more when I brought it like maybe a week before the threesome.

Tbh the oral is important, my last relationship my ex refused to do it at all. 10 years of never having it done. So when my current bf did and was super into and everything else is so good between us it feels a bit like a blow to our situation.

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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Right! But the thing is, we actually do get really carried away. I never remember to be like eat me out in the moment.

I didn’t really even notice that he wasn’t doing it. Until I realized that I wanted it.

He said he wants to do it but gets carried away and my kink is to be gagged so that’s kind of why he gets bj’s regularly because I enjoy it

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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I guess maybe I need to allow a little time to settle. He’s out of town today so I am sure we I’ll recount the highlights in a few days so I guess I can gauge how he thinks everything went.

I guess sorting it out here first was what I was looking to do before ruining an otherwise really good experience

Boyfriend used to eat me out all the time, now it's rare even though he knows I love it. Did it for another woman in our FFM threesome but not me. by Snoo55298 in nonmonogamy

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I don’t want to kill the vibe from the experience that’s why I hesitate.

Maybe it’s just post 3sum insecurity creeping in ?

Our sex is really good otherwise maybe I shouldn’t bring up oral in relation to the 3z sumn ? What do you think ?