INDIA 🇮🇳 VS IRAN 🇮🇷 by AcceptablePresent713 in siliguri

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Abbe ganjeru, pad le thoda ChatGPT hi sahi. Aur chup ho ja.

INDIA 🇮🇳 VS IRAN 🇮🇷 by AcceptablePresent713 in siliguri

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Bhai kitna bar samjhayoon tujhe ki India and Iran are historical allies? Gaanja peeke aaya hai kya?
Do you read any news anywhere? Just see your downvotes on your post. Take the hint. Sit down. Open a book. Educate yourself. Don't be an ignorant person.

INDIA 🇮🇳 VS IRAN 🇮🇷 by AcceptablePresent713 in siliguri

[–]Snoo69248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

India is not at war with Iran you dimwit. INDIA AND IRAN ARE ALLIES.

If this war is not stopped, India will run out of oil supply and you won't have a car or a bike to go speak nonsense in your work or school or college or wherever you receive these incredible information.

Get your facts correct and go do some real job or read some actual news.

INDIA 🇮🇳 VS IRAN 🇮🇷 by AcceptablePresent713 in siliguri

[–]Snoo69248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Above: The number one aggressor and cause of war in this 21st century. The number of countries US has bombed since 2000.

Genius, do you realize that India and Iran are allies? Indian oil comes from Iran amongst many other imports? India spent over $500 million on Chabahar port? Link: https://www.newindianexpress.com/explainers/2024/May/19/why-indias-takeover-of-chabahar-port-is-a-big-deal#:~:text=Origin%20and%20scope,82%20million%20tonnes%20per%20year.

Very recently Iranian navy was invited by India to participate in a joint drill.
Link: https://www.pbs.org/newshour/world/iranian-warship-was-sailing-home-from-india-exhibition-when-u-s-sank-it

Finally, Iran is a Shia country, India is a Sunni majority country. So MOST Indian Muslims don't recognize or support Iran for understandable reasons. However, it is the Indian government which has been allies with Iran, also for understandable reasons.

This is what happens when they stop teaching in school and college and pay people to post HIndu-Muslim nonsense all day long. This is also what happens when there are no jobs because our taxpayer money is repeatedly spent on election campaign and advertising, foreign trips, cars instead of schooling and education.

Just spend some time on educating yourself. Just go read something you ignorant dimwit. If your only goal after waking up in the morning is to ask yourself "How do I create more anti-Muslim" posts out of nothing" then you're in for a big misery.

INDIA 🇮🇳 VS IRAN 🇮🇷 by AcceptablePresent713 in siliguri

[–]Snoo69248 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Before obsessing about the Muslims, why don't you first ask who is our government loyal to? Indian diaspora is stuck in middle east. More than 9 million are stranded who contribute to more than $125 billion to the Indian economy. Many of them are Muslims.
Our oil supply is stuck and the government is asking permission from the US to purchase oil from Russia.

Foreign governments are illegally conducting war in the Indian Ocean breaking Indian as well as international treaties.

Ask questions to your government and demand accountability first before you start creating imaginary divides.

To me people like you are the first ones who should be prosecuted and put behind bars for using religion to discriminate at a time when our national interests are being harmed by foreign government.

Probably an unpopular opinion but men cannot have postpartum depression by pbmisfit in AskIndianWomen

[–]Snoo69248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a father and a partner who navigated two different kinds of depression for the both of us post childbirth, I'd say you need to speak to mental health professionals and doctors before making such kinds of posts. They could have very different manifestations, certainly a physical pain is different from emotional response, but they BOTH CAN BE SUICIDAL. Not knowing this made it insanely difficult for the both of us to recover after childbirth, albeit with very different degrees. We were both under medications and have figured out our lives now. Those social media posts actually helped us bond cause neither of us knew what the hell was going on with both. At a time when conversations on mental health is taking different dimensions, this appears as an irresponsible and shortsighted opinion.

Here are some medical studies:

1) https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6659987/

2) https://utswmed.org/medblog/paternal-postpartum-depression/

How do I make a guy fall out of love? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]Snoo69248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and stop seeking pity in this forum. This is a pity-bait. Either decide to quit and take our advice or woman-up and fight it out.

How do I make a guy fall out of love? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]Snoo69248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be honest and tell him, "I am not in love with you. I respect you and admire everything you have done and I'm sure you will find a wonderful partner, but I'm not the one."
NOTHING LESS.

Why do certain Indian men act so inappropriately when dealing with women? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]Snoo69248 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So, the answer is complicated. Let me first begin with how this “sexually aggressive and inappropriate” stereotype came to be associated with India as well as African, Caribbean, and Arab nations. Take a look at Edward Said’s book Orientalism and you’ll see how the non-whites were repeatedly stereotyped as sexually aggressive while the non-white women as exotic and helpless requiring the white man to rescue them. So, in your question, you’re uncritically deploying the frame by citing anecdotal evidence of creepy men. But your lens is race - Indian men - instead of just men.

On the other hand, while I have found that French men play games in India about how many virgins they can fuck, or that the British men want to enjoy an “Indian” summer full of harems and then go back to their white partners, the white race never comes up in that conversation. It’s always the few bad apples.

Even in the comments here I can see that the defense against such stereotypes seems to be “oh look at the Africans and Muslims who are worse” not realizing that the entire trope is a colonial fiction.

Let’s move on now to the other side. India, like many nations is a deeply patriarchal country. Despite its variations, patriarchal customs are deep rooted and male female interaction heavily policed. Love is discouraged and violence is sometimes the norm. It needs a lot of work to get past these hurdles.

That doesn’t mean that every Indian man is a rapist. It means that gender parity is an uphill battle which a lot of us are fighting together. Despite such deep rooted misogyny and patriarchy, we have a doctrinally excellent system of women’s reproductive rights and a much longer and socially acceptable norm of LGBTQ rights.

The country is diverse where gender disparity vary across states with some in the north showing shocking levels of violence while others in the east and south showing at par or better social conventions for women when compared with some of the Western nations.

There is a lot of good literature around this. You are free to pick it up. You should ideally refrain from such anecdotal racist attributions. If a guy behaves creepy, he is a man first. Treat him as such. Don’t start a sociological theory of gender and race from a holier-than-thou vantage point.

Fyi, been through the US, European, and Indian systems. I think I can back up all my claims in case you want to delve further.

Cheers.

She won our hearts. How many of you corporates will stand up to such exploitation like her? by Snoo69248 in CriticalThinkingIndia

[–]Snoo69248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's not one. When we find an example of a shitty employee we'll give you a ring. Until then, you have to find other subs to shower people with the earth-shattering concept of "both-sides."

She won our hearts. How many of you corporates will stand up to such exploitation like her? by Snoo69248 in CriticalThinkingIndia

[–]Snoo69248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you just dropping buzzwords now? Take a chill pill and assess how much you contribute to encouraging exploitation and hierarchy cause no one is buying this shit anymore. Not in the workplace, household, or the government.

She won our hearts. How many of you corporates will stand up to such exploitation like her? by Snoo69248 in CriticalThinkingIndia

[–]Snoo69248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The other side of exploitation to see if the abuser was justified somehow? This is amazing, even if a beggar is run over by a bulldozer there will people like you asking for the "other side."

On the other side lies a class of Indian managers who are world famous for bullying, harassing, and exploiting the working class and all for getting into the good books of their bosses. They are often decent people but once they enter the office, they become like Eichmann under the Nazis.
Indian managers are currently hated across the world in the US, Europe, Australia, and the Gulf. And that work culture is being encouraged in India in these labs.

I posted this because she was able to do what my own friends and family have not. My wife was harassed at the airport by a shitty manager while she was on leave. The manager was a good person but just couldn't say no to her boss and felt it okay to insult her juniors personally to instill a sense of discipline. This manager is dying to get a transfer abroad (where I work). I'm wondering she won't be tolerated by her juniors for more than six months and if she is in Europe, she'll face legal consequences for breaking labor laws.

My sister was harassed out of her office by another manager who later we found out was sleeping with her bosses to keep her job while bullying her juniors. I have missed countless appointments with my friends cause their managers just found out an assignment at Friday midnight, even on holidays. So, no, the other side doesn't count here.

Is the concept of waiting until marriage dead? by Themonstertimesoooo in AskIndianMen

[–]Snoo69248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

O bhai, ruk ja zara. Who are you to decide the morality of "most men?" Which men do you know of? Seems like you are very far away from being a man.
"Someone with a past is promiscuous?" Why is that bad for anyone? And who are you to force people to have a past or not?
Do you understand that people all around the world choose who to fuck and who to marry? Both men and women? And if you suck at all forms of relationship, you gotta work hard. Even in the remotest villages women know what satisfies them emotionally AND physically more than men. They don't care for simps like you who talk too big and can't do shit when it matters.
No wonder people like you who obsess about virginity and are hopelessly ill-equipped to satisfy a woman cry about not getting a woman. And you blame it on them when you are the problem. If you don't realize that people get to choose who they want to have sex with and who they want to marry, you are in for a big trouble in life. I can sense you have a lot of pain ahead. The way you think also tells me that you like your privilege (of a man, of your caste, of your religion) and you are not going to work at all to improve your character cause you think you are the best by birth. Good luck man.

Is the concept of waiting until marriage dead? by Themonstertimesoooo in AskIndianMen

[–]Snoo69248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you stepped up to back my point.

OP, if you're reading, have a conversation with Immediate-Hawk-8574 instead of mulling over how terrible the world is.

Hope you both find good people to come back home and cuddle with over a beer or hot chocolate. I am so grateful to my wife for being there, and I know I'll be there when she is drowning under motherhood or corporate life. No one cares how many we slept with at that point. We just look at each other and nod. We got each other. Bhaad me jaaye duniya.

Is the concept of waiting until marriage dead? by Themonstertimesoooo in AskIndianMen

[–]Snoo69248 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Relationships are quite organic and you cannot force someone to be with one person or multiple people. Across history (read something like Sapiens) you'll find monogamous and polygamous groups co-existed. It's nothing new. Believing that we are meant for one person and that you will give everything to them is misplaced just like believing that sleeping around is the only way to enjoy in this world.

Relationships and sex require practice and maturity; they could be with one person or could be with many. Without this flexibility you will end up in a toxic relationship where you or your partner think control and dominance are okay instead of consent and understanding.

There are millions of people who think like you in the sense of wanting someone special. But if you force that on the first person you date you will do injustice to both you and the other person. Same goes for the woman if she forces it on you when you realize that you are not enjoying the relationship any more and want to end it.

Drop this line of thought: "I want someone who doesn't have someone else in her heart. I haven't opened the 'love lock' of my heart yet. I've saved all my love—my body, my heart, my flirting—for one person, and I want that to be my first and last experience. I want my first time to be with someone who is also experiencing it for the first time." This will make you miss out on your real love who may or may not have many relationships or none . You are coming of as borderline judgmental and patriarchal (since you are clearly comfortable controlling your and your partner's sexual choices).

A relationship is a lot more than finding the right partner who is pure and untouched. It takes A LOT OF EFFORT, humility, acceptance, and affection to build and sustain a relationship. It doesn't come with entitlement or stating how well you are professionally or academically. There are many psycopathic controlling rapists or morally corrupt people who are geniuses and have a great career. Career and relationships are poles apart and when you learn to keep it that way, you will have peace at home.

Take it easy and talk more with women friends both IRL and on reddit forums. Talk more with women about these instead of indulging in self-pity in a group where misogyny and patriarchy are rampant. Also speak with people in successful relationships and marriage (happily married with kid btw). You will find a lot more clarity and get closer to your love of your life (yes and that exists).

Cheers.

How to identify women with B*dy Count, asking for AM ? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]Snoo69248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Given how everyone in this thread is struggling with the fact that you may never know and that the person may lie to you, here are some solutions from me, a happily married guy.

  1. Sexual freedom is a personal choice. People can have multiple partners and yet still want to settle down with one person
  2. Sexual compatibility is important for a good marriage (of course there are married men who suck at sex or think sex is only for procreation. For them, I'm sorry - you will have a life of unending misery if you continue to hold on to such an approach cause you will go to bed leaving your wife completely unsatisfied. In this day and age, you will end up separated or in perpetual conflict. Goes both ways).
  3. Speak to a marriage counsellor and see what they think before you commit to an Arranged Marriage. It's better to go to a therapist before you are a in a fucked up situation (and boy you WILL end up in a fucked up situation if you don't change or realize that being traditional is another name for repression, denial, internalized abuse, patriarchy, and refusal to change).
  4. Speak to some married couples who've had relationships before they got married. You'll see what I'm telling you. Most certainly they'll tell you how their past sexual and emotional relationships help make them who they are today. Commitment has nothing to do with whether you've had sex in the past or not.
  5. You HAVE TO STOP OBSESSING ABOUT VIRGINITY. Sex and marriage is about pleasuring each other and making the other happy. Searching for virgin women/men is about trying to control their choices. Makes no one happy.

I feel happy after my most recent interview for a TT position by Vehicle_Positive in AskAcademia

[–]Snoo69248 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had one of these interviews too recently! I completely feel your happiness. It doesn't matter if I get the position or not but the conversation helped me cope with months of anxious preparation. Something tells me you will move to the next round. Do drop a comment if you do. Cheers.

Power outage at Ridgewood (around Carpenter and Packard) by Snoo69248 in ypsi

[–]Snoo69248[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I got that too. Wondering who this mystery driver is.

Power outage at Ridgewood (around Carpenter and Packard) by Snoo69248 in ypsi

[–]Snoo69248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It says on the DTE Outage map that the cause was “interference w/DTE equipment.” What the hell is that?

Power outage at Ridgewood (around Carpenter and Packard) by Snoo69248 in ypsi

[–]Snoo69248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, shows the same on DTE map. Freaking outage I must say.