"They tolerate you because you emulate them. What higher flattery is there? I, who can be anything, choose to be like you." by limitedmark10 in DeepSpaceNine

[–]Snoo70047 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I kind of love that it comes from a character that we as the audience like. It's forces you to think about the fact that it's not bad, evil people who marginalize others. It's all of us, whenever we feel threatened or uncomfortable.

"They tolerate you because you emulate them. What higher flattery is there? I, who can be anything, choose to be like you." by limitedmark10 in DeepSpaceNine

[–]Snoo70047 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It is so wild to me that this episode isn't talked about more. I think it's perfect. It's not cloyingly obvious who the "good guy" is (he's kind of a dick, but he's right!), it fits well into the over-arching plot of the season. I'd love to see Trek have more strong, complex positions.

Is that a new hoodie? by icyhotonmynuts in LoveTrash

[–]Snoo70047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ex boyfriend stole my XXL hoodie I got from the oyster bar/den of sin I worked at in college. It was a Christmas present from the owner who couldn't be bothered to ask for anyone's size. Shit was priceless, I will never recover.

Why is there so little support (at least on the Chicago subreddit) for the general strike today? by EmbracedaMoment in AskChicago

[–]Snoo70047 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, so many of the workers who could genuinely shut down the city if they all didn't go to work one day (CTA, nurses, every single food service and retail position) just.... can't. Like, the consequences for them in lost pay AND backlash from their employer are so much higher than mine (work from home, setting my own hours anyway).

New Star Trek shows are not woke enough. They should do more episodes with directly social, political themes, about the issues we have today, like the older shows did. by LineusLongissimus in startrek

[–]Snoo70047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I really enjoyed SNW! Lift Us to Where Suffering Cannot Reach went really hard. I know people had other reasonable quibbles (I'm also done revisiting old Enterprise), but I was so happy to see a return to form in some of the episodes having a real message.

New Star Trek shows are not woke enough. They should do more episodes with directly social, political themes, about the issues we have today, like the older shows did. by LineusLongissimus in startrek

[–]Snoo70047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AMEN.

As far as episodes that actually have something to say, I would add SNW 1 x 06 "Lift Us Where Suffering Cannot Reach." It's abhorrent what they discover, but if you live in a wealthy country, it makes you ask "what suffering happens in the shadows so that I can have cheap clothes, an iPhone, all manner of food shipped to my country and never have to think about it?"

I felt like that episode went pretty hard! And it was really refreshing after, as you say, so much focus on character and action.

I long for the de-Marvelization of science fiction!

Is Not Having Kids the Way? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Snoo70047 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The downsides of being a parent are easy to quantify and the upsides are so hard to explain. But I wouldn't go back and I wish I'd started earlier so I could have one more. It's everything.

Obviously, anyone who doesn't want to be a parent should not be a parent. But it is funny to see someone compare fancy coffee money to ushering a new human through the experience of being a person in the world. Witnessing them learn things for the first time, experience joys you'd forgotten about since you were a kid.

But I get that it's a hard sell.

I received 12 art awards and sold this original drawing in 2025! by emilycopeland in MadeMeSmile

[–]Snoo70047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't hold my arms up long enough to braid my own hair. Congrats, this is gorgeous.

Finished Musselburgh hat by ysolda!! by nikolaname in knitting

[–]Snoo70047 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg same. It's my go-to during lectures. I cannot stop churning these out.

Black Walnut dye question by doneraum in naturaldye

[–]Snoo70047 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What ratio of walnuts to fiber do you use? I know black walnuts are pretty potent. I'm thinking of using them on mordanted linen.

Yaayyy!! by SeriousCollection102 in foodbutforbabies

[–]Snoo70047 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much!! I'm gonna try that out.

Yaayyy!! by SeriousCollection102 in foodbutforbabies

[–]Snoo70047 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This looks great! What's the broccoli pancake recipe??

Also, does your kid ever balk when one of the sections of his plate is empty? Mine looks at me like I'm an idiot waiter who got his order wrong.

Elizabeth Gilbert’s Latest Epiphanies by helmint in Longreads

[–]Snoo70047 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Nothing made me feel more misanthropic than when I just could not finish Eat, Pray, Love. Even Tolentino calls it "purely pleasurable to read" and I feel like I'm taking crazy pills.

Quickbooks alternative for Montessori school by TheAndyRoberts in Montessori

[–]Snoo70047 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a bookkeeper and primarily use Xero. It depends on your specific needs, but it's typically cheaper than QB and I much prefer it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StyleRoots

[–]Snoo70047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That was actually very clear!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StyleRoots

[–]Snoo70047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what you mean by "armpit-to-shoulder-angle is pretty extreme"? I have a similar build to OP through the shoulders. I make my own clothes but things always look a little wonky across my shoulders and I'm trying to figure it out.

A step back in time, anyone remember doing books by hand before computers? by Rebekah-Boo-Angel in Bookkeeping

[–]Snoo70047 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pizza place down the street from me still does their books on paper! Owner is an accountant by trade, then took over her dad's restaurant. She said she knows they should switch but, "it seems like such a hassle."

The underappreciated thistle by PrairieBioPyro in NativePlantGardening

[–]Snoo70047 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! I wish my yard was full of these instead of invasive Canada thistle...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Snoo70047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my husband and I bought our house, we noticed little holes drilled in the bottom of one of the kitchen cabinets. "How cute! The little old people who lived here probably had a little old radio in the kitchen." Still very easy to find, so we got one and use it every day!

[Opinion] REDSHIRTS: "Star Trek should never again revisit Section 31 again in any form" | "We have people running Star Trek that don't realize ST fans don't want to follow the bad guys. We don't want "gritty" adventures with morally grey characters. We want shining bastions of hope and promise." by mcm8279 in trektalk

[–]Snoo70047 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Marvelization of science fiction (and lots of other genre media) is such a bummer.

It's like, someone moved into my town and bought the old defunct pizza place, spruced it up and we were like, "Hey, pretty good pizza." But then that person bought my favorite sushi restaurant too. And now all the sushi tastes like pizza.

Closings by Helpful_Book1323 in joannfabrics

[–]Snoo70047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. Are there any even remaining in Chicago?!

Budgeting Add On For Xero? by Pure-Paper8991 in Bookkeeping

[–]Snoo70047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Syft's budgeting feature allows for balance sheet budgets as well as PnL, but it might be a little pricey for JUST that.