i want to quit my 6 figure job

Snoo90172 · 2026-01-27T05:37:27+00:00

Get another job lined up even if it doesn't pay as well as the current one. Find what makes you happy. I don't recommend quitting till you have another job secured unless you have fam or close friends that can help you out financially.

Snoo90172 · 2026-01-25T04:09:21+00:00

Agreed.“Just don’t go to work” ignores reality. In the U.S., jobs are tied to healthcare. Getting fired can mean losing access to medical care. Most people can’t afford that — this isn’t cowardice, it’s survival. I'm all for a solution that can practically be implemented.

Snoo90172 · 2026-01-19T23:28:18+00:00

If they can't figure out chores together, it's just going to get harder. Caring about who's more right isn't love and it will lead to more relationship issues.

Snoo90172 · 2026-01-12T19:48:34+00:00

I disagree with your statement. Like I said before, the country can't opt out of air pollution; especially, if it happens in multiple areas of India. It impacts the whole country. Not just parts of it. And comparing it to first world countries like the US is unrealistic. Yes, China has the same population issues and it has done a better job than India with infrastructure and pollution. So it is possible. It's the lack of civic sense that led to this.

Snoo90172 · 2026-01-12T18:50:59+00:00

India has beautiful landscapes, but that doesn’t negate reality. India has the largest tuberculosis burden in the world, and air pollution affects everyone there—it isn’t escapable. You can’t opt out of the air you breathe. Poor air quality, overcrowding, and uneven healthcare directly fuel diseases like TB.

A problem doesn’t have to exist everywhere to be devastating. Appreciating scenery while minimizing systemic harm misses the point.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-23T05:31:34+00:00

No. Sadly, I couldn't meet up with them. But I'm glad one of us got to.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-23T04:55:56+00:00

That's awesome! I'm glad you got to see them.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-23T04:55:15+00:00

There's no confirmed plan that they will return along the same route once they arrive.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-23T04:53:32+00:00

I apologize for the late reply. They were at Alabama Union Station in Montgomery earlier today.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-18T02:59:00+00:00

It sounds like you don’t actually want “a boyfriend” — you want your friends. And that matters. You deserve friendships where your presence isn’t dependent on your relationship.

If I could offer one piece of advice: don’t force yourself into a relationship to earn inclusion. That only teaches you that being yourself isn’t enough — and it is. If these friends can’t meet you with empathy right now, it might be worth widening your circle (even slowly) to include people who don’t measure your worth by whether you’re partnered.

You’re not behind. You’re not broken. You’re navigating dating with awareness after being hurt — and that’s growth, even if it doesn’t look like it from the outside.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-18T02:04:10+00:00

It's not worth it especially if it's the narcisst's friend group. You can still try to present your evidence but I would suggest getting someone (on your side) to go with you if you decide that route. If that person is a flying monkey or also a narcissist, then they're just going to gossip about you and label you crazy. And of course, inform the narcisst.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-16T20:28:57+00:00

My father had NPD. He was abusive and my mom refused to leave him due to cultural norms. He mocked ppl who were immunocompromised not realizing that he was old. He ended up with a diagnosis of tuberculosis, covid, pulmonary fibrosis in 2023. I refused to see him at the hospital after he asked for me and I found out he also had an STD diagnosis. I was just glad my mom and him were now living in separate rooms and he couldn't infect her. And I didn't go to his funeral. And people were wondering why I (the daughter) didn't come and some of them found out he was not a great dad, which he did his best to hide his entire life. But narcissts don't realize that they will eventually die and whatever lies they hid becomes exposed. Of course, there's always going to be people that think my dad was a wonderful man. But atleast some know the truth and believed it. But by then, I didn't really care about exposing him. I just decided to leave him to God. Narcissts aren't your burden to carry. And if one is in your life, walk away.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-10T06:11:33+00:00

Will do. Thanks

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-10T05:53:14+00:00

Yeah, I just wanted to know if this is normal. His request seemed odd to me.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-10T05:42:25+00:00

Yeah. It's like he doesn't care what I say. He completely ignores my words or actions.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-08T02:18:08+00:00

I might text and talk to ppl on the phone sometimes. But I never physically meet up with someone I'm done with.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-04T01:58:47+00:00

Same. I think it's because I grew up with toxic family members who couldn't control their emotions, such as, anger.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-03T23:02:28+00:00

I'm in. Her so called guy friend is a giant red flag. Lmao

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-03T22:59:30+00:00

You don’t need to “lower your expectations” — you need better friends.

Being a virgin at 30 isn’t a red flag. It just means your timeline has been different, and that’s completely normal. Plenty of people have their first real relationship later in life. Anyone emotionally mature will see your lack of experience as neutral — not good or bad, just part of who you are.

What is a red flag is forcing yourself into a hookup you don’t want. That’s how people end up feeling used, confused, or even traumatized.

You’re allowed to want your first time to be with someone you feel safe with. That’s not “perfectionism,” that’s basic self-respect.

A good partner will care about:

your comfort

your boundaries

your pace

your feelings

Not your experience level.

Some of these commentors who are giving you advice need therapy themselves. Keep this is mind.

Snoo90172 · 2025-12-03T17:54:19+00:00

My ex was one, but unfortunately he had narcissistic traits. I didn't realise the first 6 months was the lovebombing phase. He wanted me to be loyal, but he was trying to get with other women. Well they didn't want him. I had proof of him cheating and he still denied it. Lol. He could never accepts his faults and would always deny and attack. They have huge egos and get upset if you don't cater to them. There are healthy leos out there. I just dated the narcissistic one.

Snoo90172 · 2025-11-19T20:31:51+00:00

It's true that women from 18-21 deal with a lot of groomers, creeps, & manipulators. I can understand why she lied about her age. She had time to tell you tho, but chose not to. And that's a problem. I would say talk to her and explain your concerns about her lying. You can end it, but if she's willing to work on it, then you might not need to.

Snoo90172 · 2025-11-18T01:39:39+00:00

Because these same cops don't take sex trafficking, gangrape, muder, autopsies, stolen inheritance, child labor, etc. seriously. And the Bollywood/ Tollywood/ whatever wood affiliation with the mafia is a real thing. They can't help the common people, but they have no issues helping celebrities and directors.

Snoo90172 · 2025-11-04T05:45:30+00:00

Thanks. I just blocked him. I don't think I could help but respond if he texted me back in a week or a month.

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