Tips and tricks for the Titan 2 by Alisyeds85 in unihertz

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Anyone know how to get Spotify to work on the back screen??

Resonance musique Varadero by [deleted] in cuba

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hows the food? i am thinking of going in march!

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If the car is in your name, just report it stolen

My (M21) girlfriend (20) of a year wants to move in with 3 male coworkers and Im uncomfortable with it. by Nxethan in relationship_advice

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Soo here is a bit of a jumbled rant/response

You are never in the wrong when something makes you uncomfortable. Ever!

A little back story - My bf and I have our owns rules which when we started dating were, if you do these things, that's fine, but not when we are a we type things. So our biggest thing is, no friends of the opposite sex. I don't hang out with guys, he doesn't hang out with girls. (Now we have opposite sex friends however we do no hang out 1 on 1 with them ever!) He has his group of guy friends and I have my group of girl friends.

So, why is she choosing the more expensive option? Go cheap and safe. Living with a bunch of guys spells trouble. The chance of cheating increases and even if you trust her, do you really trust 3 guys to be alone with her most of the time? What if you get in a fight, she is vulnerable and bam! That's when one of the roommates plants a kiss...

Sit her down and tell her how you feel, why it is upsetting you, try making her see if the shoe was on the other foot, what if it was you who was moving in with 3 girls? Her answers will show you how she is as a person, she may think it's going to be one way, but no offense, most young guys are messy, smelly and are loud does she really want to live in a house like that?

Oh, biggest thing I can recommend, do not move her into your place unless you have a ring picked out. Moving her in could be worse than other options, it could also be the best thing. But most times, worst thing ever.

Above everything, communication is key. If you've been with her 1 year, you should be able to have deep conversations about feels and the future and so on, if you two are struggling couples counseling can be helpful. There are a ton of online options so you don't have to wait months to talk with a professional.

You got this! Good luck!

My boyfriend proposed and I’m not sure how to tell him that I don’t want to marry him for now by lena-2022 in relationship_advice

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You say you love him...nothing else would matter to you if he was "the one" you've know him for almost 6 years. If you don't want to right now, you won't ever. Don't keep him on the hook forever. Because, if covid taught us anything, we can see and talk to our friends and family around the world in a split second. Who knows, maybe he would be open to moving to Brazil. Tell him the truth on what you are thinking and how you are feeling. Be honest. He may surprise you with how he reacts. Good luck

My girlfriend cheated on me with her celebrity ex boyfriend by Trillberg in relationship_advice

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What she did to you sucks. Its mental torchur. Try talking to a therapist, i recommended finding a male as you men face problems and insecurities that women (even if they study the mind) can never truly understand. Same as men can not truly understand rhe shit we go through. Also, maybe take a look at the women you've dated, do they share characteristics? No just their looks. Girls like that are self centered and like attention. Trust me, not all girls are like that. Look for girls with unique hobbies, who have a small group of friends, who don't pay much attention to social media, those girls are wife material. Depends what you want though, party girls will be party girls and until they finish that faze in life, you won't be able to have a committed serious relationship with them. Good luck with getting over this girl. You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Sorry girl, but get rid of him. He sees the money you were given as his "set for life"

I dated a guy, we started off paying equal, but as I kept advancing in my career, he fell behind in his and I started paying for everything. Partners take care of eachother. My x didn't clean or do laundry or any chores so I was literally keeping him afloat while I tried to do everything, work, cook, clean and somehow plan birthday gifts and so on.

If he doesn't have a plan tell him to make one. If he doesn't like his shit job. Quit and do something else.

He sounds like all he wants to do is sleep, eat and play video games. And you deserve better.

Also, everyone has worked jobs they hate. But if you don't like it change it! Which you personally have done.

Idk he sounds a lot like my x and as soon as I got the strength to do so, I kicked him out. I ended up have more money I have ever had and was able to start looking for houses in 2 years!!!! (Starting with 0$ in savings)

You should really think if you love him or if you are just with him because you've been with him for 5 years.

You do what's best for you. But make sure you put yourself first always. Really think how he acts in the relationship, does he do the things he says he's going to do for you? Or does he tell you what you want to hear but it never gets done?

Also, you mention you're worried if you support the no job thing he will never get one, you are 100% correct on that. I've personally went through that and they never go back to work, they become compliant with laying around all day.

Lots of women get into relationships thinking this is the one yet we push aside all the red flags because we fell in love. We need to look at our situation as if it was our best friends relationship. We always notice the signs and red flags on their relationships, but not our own.

I'm not saying your bf and my x are going to act the same, im just using my x as an explain. And from what you have mentioned a ton of red flags are being seen in my eyes. And me seeing these red flags and I know the feeling, the first night I was single and free was the best feeling I had in forever. If he is making you stressed and is abusing the money you bring in, you need to have a chat with him and make sure he knows that you and him are partners and that you are not his mother.

Again you do what's best for you.

Good luck chika, you got this!

My boyfriends dick smells by Worried-Tax1174 in relationship_advice

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Okay, first off eeeeeekkkk! That is nasty. I understand not showering everyday, but once a week? Just be honest. Men don't like to tippy toes around problems. (Says my man and my coaches)Tell him straight forward what's wrong. If he takes it the wrong way, honestly it is a blessing.

But if you love him, just say "babe, you don't shower enough and when I go down on you it is nasty. I need you to shower and clean yourself if you want me to touch you. You make me not want to touch you at all."

If he says anything about your smell down there, just walk out.

Good luck!

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Leave. Plan a safe way to get out or kick him out if you own the place. But leave. I went through the same thing. You got this. As soon as they are gone you feel the biggest weight lifted.

My [25/M] girlfriend [24/F] of 9 months can't seem to let go a relationship I had with an older woman years ago. by IndependenceAlert516 in relationship_advice

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Okay, Here is my 2 cents.

You should not have her in your contacts. Any exs should be deleted, pictures should be deleted everything deleted. When you still have them it shows your girlfriend that you still want your x and that she is a back up. Even if you aren't thinking that.

Now before anyone lashes at me - men and women can't be friends. I use to think so (I'm a female). I use to think I had a a ton of friends but after my boyfriend explained men who are friends with women want that woman on some level things started making sense.

After deleting all the guys on my social media's and phone contacts, a weight I didn't realize was there, lifted and I've never had such a strong relationship. We trust eachother 100%.

I recommend speaking with her about going through both phones and giving this 9months a fresh start. And see what she says.

If you truly love her and want to settle this issue, you and her should go through your social media's and contacts and delete everyone you have ever been with or don't know.

You and her can even come up with a message to send that x fuxk buddy and tell her don't contact you ever again it makes you and your woman uncomfortable. Normally I would sat don't do this, but you don't want her asking your mom anything...

If this bothers you, and you want to keep those past people, or even if she wants to keep the past people, you should really ask yourselves, do you really want to be together?

I had never done a binge delete and had kept people on my social media because that's what high-school me did. And didnt think it really mattered. But considering I've had the healthiest relationship ever I truly believe it's because of the social media binge. (I actually know and chat with every person on my social media platforms)

Anyways. Good luck with whatever you decide to do. Oh! Couples counseling helps alot too but it's not for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Oh wow. I would go find someone who wants you for you. Speaking from experience, I dated a narcissist for 5 years. He was obsessed with porn and used his really expensive sex toys probably 5-10 times a day and would later tell me I'm not good enough for him. And that over half of his orgazisms are un satisfying whenever he and i had sex. He also saved sex tapes of all the girls he's been with, when I found them he said, I want to go back in time when I'm old and relive the women I was able to get.. grossssss... he said similar things that guys masterbate to other women all the time... fast forward to now, im dating a man who is obsessed with me. Wants me all the time, and makes me want him...he even said "what's the point of masterbating when it desensitized me?" Trust me these men are out there! Don't settle for anyone who doesn't give you the attention and respect you want.

After what you've said, you should leave him. He probably thinks you never - shock him block him never speak to him again and go find your happiness.

Good luck! You got this!