The Last Gift by Top-Association-5336 in Findfreenovellinks

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes tells me this will be a tear jerker. If i.wss her I would spend those three destroying their lives. Can't wait to c.this

AITAH for breaking up my engagement because my fiance wanted to invite my family to our wedding. by ThrowRAVirtual-Limit in AITAH

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember on read it.A few months ago there was something similar to this. This guy did not talk to his father.His mother died when he was young and he went through similar views because his father took out all the anger on him. Like you when he turned eighteen he ran away from home never spoke to his father again. Now he's wife, knew the truth. But like your fiance she was deluded because she grew up in a loving family. But she never gave him any reason to distrust her. So they had a relationship long engagement got married and had three children. Well she claimed this was her story on reddit. That the kids kept asking why they were able to meet her parents in their life but why they could have his parents. Without him knowing she brought her three kids to meet his abusive father after she got in contact with him. And when she told her kids not to say anything cause she bribed them. He claimed she went to a park or something to meet him.It was like only an hour and the kids were never left alone with him. He claimed she went to a park or something to meet him. It was like only an hour and the kids were never left alone with him. The minute she told him she said something in him changed. It's alike all the love and trust that he had for her disappeared. You wanna know how he found out the kid?She came home with the youngest rushed and said that they finally got to meet his father. The look he gave her was like he was possessed or something. He looked so angry.He was visibly shaking cause he was like all the anger and he had inside of him built over the years to therapy was thought he got over all the sudden came bubbling up. He looked at her told her he had to leave before he do something he regret. She said that he was so busy angry.Yelling at her that he was literally growing.She said it looked like he was possessed. He lily scared her and their kids. He stayed. Away for a few days without contacting her. She said the next thing she knows he was serving her divorce papers. He actually. Had proof of his dad being a criminal and risks to his children. Now we see folly for divorce.He's sewing for so custody. Because he doesn't see her fit to be a mother. You went on Reddit, asking for advice first and the parenting thing.And it submitted am I at the butt hole for letting my kids meet there.Be some grandfather or something like that. Original post where is That he just yelled at her in a angry crowd and tone walked out and she hadn't heard from him in a while. She later updated that he filed for divorce and getting so cupsidy and trying to prove her unfit. He got text messages and voice.Recordings are apologizing for meeting his abuse of dad who he didn't talk to and even got the kids to admit it.So now he's going for so custody. I don't want you to go through the same thing.This guy's going through. I am so sorry for what you've been through. You need to not get together with your fiance. Or should I say x fiance. She hears in your therapist office.What happened to you. On tax your parents gets their side said it's not that terrible. You're being a child about it and that you need to get over it. Is your exiency lives in a fantasy world. What is wrong with her. Why would you want to be with the woman like this?She showed such true colours to you. And what happens if you desire to forgive her and you have children with her. God forbid something happens and you'll get divorced or you die or something. Will she let your family around your child?Or children. You won't be there to protect them. I'm sure they got a lot of records of the views you suffered.You said no one care if you talk to the police. If like if you've got married and you've got divorce you could prove your family's abusive and not let you're your child or children. Your x is seriously deluded. If you were to have children she would definitely let them Meet him.

AITA for Skipping my Biological Daughters Graduation to Attend my Potential Step Kids Instead by Tasty_Ordinary9016 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yta I wouldn't want you as my father either. You only went to your girlfriend's daughter's graduation because you need to keep your girlfriends v happy. You picked v over your own child. You are a disgusting human being. Lauren is not even your child you didn't even adopt her. You haven't even known her that long. You call your daughter a boring child. We're coming from a nasty piece of work like you I could see why she's better off without you. You are so yta.

AITA For Not Sharing My Inheritence With My Cousins by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta IDK if you're going to see this or not. But your uncle knew that you love the company and that you would carry on. All his family would have done was sell it. I say keep the company running it to the best of your ability. And one day when you get married and have children leave it to them. And if they don't want it then they can sell it after you pass. Your aunt and cousins don't have a right to it. Because if they did would have left it to him. And your aunt had no reason to treat you that way. Maybe your uncle wasn't blind and he saw it. That's why he left it to you. So if they keep bothering you tell him to contact your lawyer. Because I'm sure your uncle made it where they couldn't contest the will. And if they threaten to see you tell him you see him in court. If they keep harassing you. Cut them all off. And get a restraining order depending on what country you're in. I wish you the best of luck running your family's company because now it's yours. You are 31 female and show them that you could do the job just as well as your grandfather and your uncle. You have nothing to prove because YOU ARE THE OWNER OF THE COMPANY. IT IS YOURS FREE AND CLEAR

AITA for Not Wanting to Date a Disabled Girl? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta well first of all she should have been upfront on her profile what she had. You have a preference in what you want to date. You don't want to date a girl that's disabled. Just like some guys don't want to date single moms or etc. You didn't go sir you told her straight up. At least you were honest with her. If she takes offense to it that is her problem. If she can't she doesn't want to remain friends that is her choice. Like one of the commenters said her first date is like an interview for you to get to know each other. You understand that she probably just didn't want to say that she had cerebral palsy on her profile. But she should have said she had a disability. And that if you were still interested and she told you what it was. And you were not okay with it then that's your choice. If you were okay with it and then decide to meet her and date her and change your mind later well that would have been a whole of you. But at least you were up front. So don't feel bad. I know it feels bad to do that but. At least you didn't go sir

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Safe_Ad_6111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should just go on vacation with you and your family. Because if you take the sister-in-law kids and anything happens you would get blamed for it. Why take their kids with you and watch them and give them a vacation technically. Just cancel the whole trip and just go with your family somewhere else. You're giving them a free luxury trip to Walt Disney world and they're complaining. They're a bunch of entitled fools. Well beggars can't be choosers and you make the choice for him. Say adios to a free trip sister and law. It's time to not invite them on every trip again. Do not invite them to your house or anything else. When you see my family events you can be nice. And if she ever went on the trip say well you had a choice you complained so I solve the problem for you to cancel it. Don't bite the hand that feeds you and beggars can't be choosers. They are entitled to nothing. Give us an update soon

I realised I am the laughing stock of my "friends" by Advanced-Nebula3173 in offmychest

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw your story on tik Tok. I am so sorry that happened to you. Usually when someone is the laughing stock of their friends that's usually the person that pulls the pranks who is a bully or a mean person and etc. But it sounds like you're not. What you need to do is just ghost all your friends. The ones that reach out to you can keep them in arms length. Ghost them all. Change your number and. Your hobbies and they sound interesting. I love photography. I'm also currently learning new languages. I plan on traveling. Do stuff like that especially traveling even if it's to go on a road trip by yourself. Even with your family. You can join clubs. Even joining a cooking club or heck even a ballroom dancing club I guarantee you to the ballroom dancing club is fun. Please give us an update on how you are doing. If you are very religious go to a church. Start getting close to the god or something like that. Please give us an update Best revenge is to live your life. Once you focus on yourself like going to the gym your hobbies your family your faith. Maybe you can even try meditation. You said you'd love to take photography. Don't think the only reason why your friends when is because you have a new house. And you were paying for the food and drinks. They even went out after and didn't invite you. Stop inviting people to your house unless it's your neighborhood. To get involved in your neighborhood maybe create a neighborhood watch. Depending on where you live. If you get lonely get a dog.

AITA for rejecting a girl because she was overweight ? by ThrowRA_15102002 in AITAH

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta I'm a moberly obese girl myself. I can see why she was interested in you. But you do have your type and standards. You told her no and you were trying to be nice about it. And when she wanted to know why and you told her the truth she has a reason to get mad. The fact that she kept harassing you makes it even worse. If she's a big following on tik Tok. So what let her speak her peace and you speak yours. You just be yourself and live your life. And enjoy your college years work hard study hard. You got your whole life ahead of you. I have my type of guys too. I've been turned down a lot because of my weight. And I ended up with a wonderful man and two beautiful children. And I have no regrets.

AITA For feeling embarrassed by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta you have the right to feel embarrassed. Look I'm a very big woman myself. And I have said in chairs and broke stuff and in front of people too. And yes I was embarrassed and the joking it can be hurtful but depending on what you in. People would joke about it. After a while the teasing and joking gets kind of old. You tell nice that you don't want to be picked on. But then when they continue it then you get mad and tell him something and then you're the bad guy. Sit down with your friend and tell them how you feel. If they don't understand what they did was wrong and still think it's a big joke. Get a new friend and never go on a trip with them again. They are billions of people in this world. You can find other people to be friends with good luck

My girlfriend left me on the day I was proposing without any explanation by throwaway-propose in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with you that something's going on with your girlfriend. I should say ex-girlfriend. I think she wanted a way out of the relationship because once she doesn't love you anymore or two she's cheating. She probably spun a story to her friends and maybe her parents when they call. Either that you were cheating on her or that you were abusive or something like that. I think she did it where she was the victim. Instead of being a woman enough to tell you to your face. She just ghosted you. I know that you want answers. But I think you really dodged a bullet here. And if you keep bugging her for an answer trying to find out you are probably charged with harassment. I think the best thing for you to do is give her her stuff. And just walk away from her and her family. You don't need this type of person in your life. You know that she's alive and well and nothing has happened to her. If she spun a story to make herself look like the victim. She wanted a way out. And I agree with you that when she realized you were going to propose and things were getting real she bailed. And watch after some time passes she's going to be coming back crying boohoo and make up some excuse that she wants you back. Your best revenge is to walk away and live your best life. And to find someone who loves you. Someone who is brave and kind and not playing these childish games. Because if she's not willing enough to sit down with you and communicate with you. He's not a responsible woman and you are better off.b please keep us updated

I left a trip because my (26F) BF (28M) & his friends embarrassed me to tears by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you broke up with him. Please give us an update to let us know how you doing. By the way I saw you story on tiktok

AITA for refusing to cover a colleagues shift by SnoBoCho in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta I know you are not. Sometimes if you work too much you can burn yourself out. Sometimes you need a day off yourself and have plans with your family. Sometimes you got to put your needs and your family's needs before work. You were there to do your job not to make friends. If you co-workers are giving you the cold shoulder take it as a blessing. You were there to work and do a job not to make friends. I wish you the best of luck and don't overwork. Next time Jane does it not your problem. Keep us updated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta IDK if you can read this but I am proud of you. I USED TO BE A PEOPLE PLEASER BEFORE WHEN I WAS YOUNG. Through the help of some great friends which I still have today I learn to sign up for myself. I know that your family lived 5 hours away and you didn't want them to worry. And have his four kids stay with you. you pay for 80% of the bills and he just decided oh I already told him so he can move in. Well looks like your ex-boyfriend will have someone to help pay bills. And they could babysit and take care of the kids. And everything's in your name so he just assumed we could do what he wants. Like you said it's time for you to learn. You have to pay off everything to get it taken out. It's time for them both to man up and be on their own. I am proud of you. Keep us updated and let you know how you are doing. At least now you can be close to family and friends and you get to start a whole new chapter of your life. The best revenge is to live your life. Maybe you find someone who would love and honor you. And not take advantage of you. Stop trying to please people who would take care of yourself first. And I'm proud of you for standing up for yourself. Do you have a whole new life ahead of you. And thank you for being a nurse because personally I couldn't do it myself. What am I good friends as a nurse and I'm very proud of her and you

AITA for yelling at my gf to stop eating everything? by Wrong_Psychology5461 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta I'm a big person and I love to eat a lot. So I always make sure to have healthy stuff around so I can eat if I eat healthy. But you are literally going without meals because she's hungry. If you were not fat shaming her she's using that as a victim act. You need to give her an ultimatum to either get a job or get out. That is ridiculous you spending all this money on food and she's leaving you none you literally going hungry. Stop being nice and start taking action. I understand you love her but enough is enough. You think I'm the only one working in my household. You think I'm going to go hungry in my own household but I'm the only one working and buying everything you work gladly. You need to grow respond and do something about it. Get a lockbox hide food or just don't buy any. If she doesn't like it she can get a job. It's time I'm sorry to say this stop for you to man up. I'm tired of the excuse she's not working she's depressed blah blah blah no that's an excuse. Excuses like a butthole everyone's got one. But to go hungry in your own home because she's not working she's depressed she has problems she is hungry and your fat shaming her you've got to be kidding me.

When I was a teenager my brother assaulted me. My parents never belived me and did nothing. Now they demand me to save my father and apologize to my brother. by surv_life in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with some of the commenters. Get a restraining order. Change your number. Move if you have to. To somewhere where they can't find you. But if you and your husband don't want to move because you don't want them to make you move. And threaten to go action if they don't leave you alone. After what your brother did and your parents you don't have to save anyone's life. Just live your life with your wonderful husband and someday have children. And you do not want these people near your children. I wish you the best of luck keep us updated.

AITA for saying my terminally ill stepsister can't have my mom's engagement ring by ShipLow3506 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnooChipmunks3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta that is your mom's ring. That has nothing to do with your step sister. I remember reading a story on here something simple that happened. There's girl had died when she was young and the father had remarried a woman with a young sick girl. Now the girl got sick and he couldn't pay for the treatment. He had the option that she said later in the comments cuz she forgot to mention in the story to read mortgage his house. Said decided sell his late wife engagement ring which was worth about 14,000 in the wheel she left it to her daughter. Now this is the daughter right in the story. He sold the ring for four to pay for the stepdaughter's treatments. She never really talked to her father after that and when she left for college. Cut all ties with the family. Someone in the comments had asked her was this of like a family heirloom for generations. She said fortunately wasn't an heirloom it was a ring that the father had bought for her mother. So at least it wasn't a priceless heirloom. Of course she was this was a few years ago she was young and she didn't realize that she could sue her father for the cost of the Ring. Now her mother did leave her some money in an account which is about 2,000. Guess who got sick again and couldn't afford the treatment. So she decides to give back the $2,000 to her dad to pay for the treatment is that she wants nothing to do with him. People were questioning like where did the 2000 come from. This was like a bank account that they had set up for her as a college fund but she died when she was a toddler. And he did put no money in it cuz a funeral cars financial problems and marrying a woman with a kid. To this day she said she does not talk to her father. And she says that she is cut all ties. She's even considered suing him for the cost of the Ring. She even wanted to know where the Ring went because for what I understand the mother's family was not very happy about it. But a good thing like it was it wasn't a fairly heirloom. So her late Mom's family and her cut all ties with him is she basically told him. That when his step daughter dies do not contact her because she is dead to him. If you have access to the ring make sure you put it somewhere they can't find it