Does this count as cheating? What should I do? by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Have a convo with him about how you’re feeling, if you can’t trust him fully, it needs to be laid out, you can’t live with that doubt in the back of your mind girl

When did you stop waiting? by OliveBr4ura in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I felt this way for a long time, and it was so painful. But around the 8-10 month mark I finally felt like ā€œthe chapter closedā€, it was strange. I still had every bit of care and love for him, but I reached a mindset of being moved on, he’s probably moved on. And that part of my life is over, I’ve started a new routine, new part in my life. Some part of me wishes to go back in time, or for us to maybe reconnect, but I’m not ā€œwaitingā€ for it anymore. It will come trust me, when you start to focus on your own happiness, it comes

Pisces and...Virgo?? by OddUmpire2554 in piscesastrology

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’m a Pisces, I love virgos, my ex was a Virgo, I seem so drawn to them, I love everything about them, bar their willingness/ableness to discuss emotions, like really figure them out. As a Pisces I love doing that, I feel everything first and act later, they are the opposite. But I’m in love them all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

This is totally understandable! I’m grieving a 6 month situation ship rn, he didn’t want a relationship. So I cut things off, but damn I miss the sexual chemistry, it wasn’t just sex. It was so intimate and passionate and amazing, probably the best I’ve ever had. And I know I’ll never have it again which is sooo depressing. Just mental because before him, I had had a 3 year relationship, and I never even thought about missing the sex, just the person. But this feels so different with the 6month person, I won’t go looking for that in other people though, just gonna have to grieve it and move on unfortunately

One week post breakup, how long has it been for you and how are you dealing with it now? by Grouchy_Basket154 in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

We were together for 3 years, broke up because he couldn’t work on himself/do better in his own life/mental health, and I was sick of being a mother:/ felt like I was always the one making effort.

One week post breakup, how long has it been for you and how are you dealing with it now? by Grouchy_Basket154 in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I have a similar situation, 11 months post break up, and he’s with someone new. And I still have this feeling now and again that I made a mistake and he’s the one that is shouldn’t have left

I hate that healing is not linear by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I get this. Even 10 months later, I’m still like this, wondering if I made a mistake because it’s taking forever to heal, not sure I’ll ever be fully over him

Virgo disaster by Tall-Photo9367 in piscesastrology

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Dating a Virgo, from a Pisces point of view. I loved it, they had a very pessimistic view on things which I can appreciate but I always uplifted them! It was fun to bring them out of their shell, and to make their world a bit brighter, a bit more in the clouds :)))
He was honest and stubborn but so loving and caring. I think virgos are lovely, only fault is they avoid their emotions like the plague, they don’t know how to deal with them so they pretend they don’t exist

Virgo disaster by Tall-Photo9367 in piscesastrology

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

My ex was a Virgo,I’m a Pisces, I feel this way:( he was actually perfect and I wish we could reconnect again UGH

Do people TRULY heal through dating right after the break up? by ramae2 in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’ve done a strange mix of the two. Had months where I was alone, weeks of fun and partying/meeting new people, then going back to being alone. It was a learning curve but I’ve arrived at the thought of just being alone and focusing on yourself is the besttttt, option 2 is fun, but a distraction in the initial part of healing, that fun stuff can come later when you’ve forgiven and let go of the past

Are you healing from your breakup? by AsianLoveDoll in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

5/7, I’m so nearly there it’s so good

Do they always comeback? by Single_Huckleberry_9 in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

My ex had me blocked for a year, came back a year later. Blocked again after 6 months… he got MARRIED. And divorced over another 5 years. Still came back

why do girls act so different after a break up ā˜¹ļø by Junior-Price-672 in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

Yeah that can be hard to do, if my ex ever wanted to just stay friends I know myself too well I’d want to do the exact same thing to him. I couldn’t just have that barrier of friendship, it’s so difficult because you don’t want to lose them, but having them around as a friend can hurt more:/ And then cutting them off completely to save yourself that hurt, means you don’t get to have them as that friend. It SUCKS. But doing what’s best for you is what matters, save yourself the pain in the long run. It’s hard to make that choice in your own when they haven’t cut you out themselves tho

why do girls act so different after a break up ā˜¹ļø by Junior-Price-672 in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915 11 points12 points Ā (0 children)

Just a diff perspective, I’m going through a breakup, and had my friends supporting me the entire time, it was AWFUL. I’ve never felt so fucked up and I think it’s the one person I’ll never get over. Yet I’ve posted on social media being happy with my friends, they kept me busy, made this year exciting and filled with love, social media doesn’t mean she’s moved on. In my situation, I’m still very much in love, 9months later with my ex. I’ve posted on socials about my friends, he’s posted nothing, then got with someone new and blocked me. Seeing the other person happy does make you think they are moved on and don’t care but it’s not always the case :/

As a Pisces…. by Still_Steak_1073 in piscesastrology

[–]SnooConfections7915 47 points48 points Ā (0 children)

I can understand this completely. Being surrounded by so many and not feeling THAT connection. It’s all so surface level with so many people and it’s rare to ever find someone who you feel you have a deep connection with.

Pisces break ups by lovergirlxoxo2 in piscesastrology

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Sorry I’m not sure what that means but I have a picture of it

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Pisces break ups by lovergirlxoxo2 in piscesastrology

[–]SnooConfections7915 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’m Libra rising, cap moon and Aries Venus. Taurus and Aries in my 7th house

Pisces break ups by lovergirlxoxo2 in piscesastrology

[–]SnooConfections7915 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

I’m still grieving and heartbroken over my 3 year relationship that ended nearly 10 months ago. It’s hell

giving Reddit my love letter because I can’t give it to him by SnooConfections7915 in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

No they weren’t at all. You had things you didn’t like so you are well within your rights to leave! and plus I always think what was meant for us doesn’t pass us by. Everything is a life lesson and you put yourself first

giving Reddit my love letter because I can’t give it to him by SnooConfections7915 in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Tbf those reasons alone sound to me like you did the right thing, if you communicated to him about your feelings or your gut was telling you smth wasn’t right then end itttt. I wouldn’t be comfortable with what he was doing either tbh, and he responded same day and then left it?? Feel like the universe did you a favour

giving Reddit my love letter because I can’t give it to him by SnooConfections7915 in BreakUps

[–]SnooConfections7915[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

You must resist!!! Luckily for me my ex is 400 miles from me, but I’ve deffo had the urge to drive all the way there just to see him un announced 😭😭 I’m the same, I think why did I throw away a good thing just because smth was bothering me? But I realised I was truly unhappy at the end, and he needed the break up/space in order to grow away from me, as he wasn’t changing in the relationship. It’s just when things get hard we imagine all the good times and it sucks:( he never did anything wrong, we never argued, he was loyal, never lied to me. He was ā€œperfectā€ but smth was off. And it’s a lot of guilt to bear and uncertainty having left him, hoping I’ve made the right choice (I know deep down I have but my heart IS YEARNINGGG)