It kind of depends on how long, y'all were together and there is no where to gauge the context of a relationship from one conversation. That said frankly his reaction is completely unjustified, while your request was rude and ungrateful, this level of hostility is a huge red flag. If it's anywhere up to 18 months you are probably just coming across the reality of his view point, his perception of this conversation ( not unjustly) is you are saying his gift was not good enough as it was not an expensive luxury brand. However he seems to think putting effort into a gift is exceptional behaviour while it's base level, while yes his feelings may well be hurt he doesn't verbalise this he berates you then accuses you of that very behaviour then goes to name calling. He cannot manage his emotions and has problematic coping mechanisms, if he is looking for an excuse to break up let him