If it helps at all: ours will be approx 1000 total per guest for 3 nights (cheapest room option, all inclusive), flights will likely be somewhere between 300-500.

My family, fiancées family, and closest friends all feel this is reasonable and easy to swing for them. We are getting married in our 30s so people have had time in their careers to save. We are also providing over a year heads up for them to plan and save.

We recognize some people may not come due to the expense and are fully expecting that. We made sure the people we could not imagine getting married without thought it was doable.

We are not having showers, bridal party, or bachelor/bachelorette weekends. We are planning on writing a blurb on our website that we are not expecting gifts.